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cheeting
ok i have i boyfriend and i like him a real lott but today i saw my friends cuzzent and i thought he was cute and thinks im hott but i like my boyfriend and i feel bad i fell like im cheeting on him because i sorda started flurting with her cuzzent now i feel so bad what should i do
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well did you do anything? like did you kiss your friend? i mean flirting your friend isn't anything to be ashamed of.. i have a friend i flirt with all the time... and my boyfriend doesn't mind.. he knows i care about him... so as long as its friendly flirting and your not actually cheating on him then your ok.
-Bess
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You aren't cheating just beucase you thought some other dude was hot. You didn't physically touch him or act apon it or anything. Now, you're only 13 which means you're going to go through a lot of guys anyways. So what you need to do is really think here. All you did was think this guy was hot and he thought you were hot. What do you really know about this guy? Think about it. I'm sure you know a lot more about your boyfriend than you did this guy you think is hot, right? I think you should just be friends with this guy and get to know him. If you start to like him then that's just where your feelings took you and you'd have to let your boyfriend know you though it was time you split. But just beucase you talk to this guy doesn't mean you're cheating on your boyfriend. Talking never hurt anyone unless you flirt and such. But sweetie, you're 13. There's gonna be tons more guys you see that think you're hot and you think they are hot and it'll end up meaning nothing. So really, just get to know this dude and see where your feelings take you. You aren't cheating unless you kiss him and stuff like that. So no worries, don't stress. It's all just part of being a teenage girl surrounded by many cute boys just waiting to talk to you. ;) xo
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