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hello world. i really want to help people. you can open up to me. i wont judge you. unless your really mean. it makes me feel good to help other people. its cliche to say music is my life so ill just say that it is really important to me. i really dont like where i live. i have some experiences that help me to make other's lives easier when they find that theyre going through them. if that makes any sense =P. i like making friends. uh well ask me whatever you want!

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5pBN3cE-2A
why is everyone in this video wearing sunglasses?

sun! =D

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why can't you exercise before you go to bed? i never really understoof the reason why.

cause it wakes you up, which makes it harder to sleep! =) you can if you want though

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i just wanna know the name's of some really good alternative rock bands. NO screamo, heavy metal. just alternative rock. i already have fall out boy, panic! at the disco, and cute is what we aim for songs, so you don't have to mention them. thank you

i love mae, sherwood, and relient k. theyre my favorites =)

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I've got a great group of friends. Albeit small, but we're close. There's one flaw about them- you basically have to twist their arm off to get a legitamate compliment out of them.

It's always, Gosh you're so ugly. Haha, Kidding!
CONSTANTLY. Not occassionally, as a joke.

Just once, I want to her "Anna, you're beautiful" and not hear about my personality/physical flaws. But it's apparently too much to ask. How can I approach this without losing their friendship?

the sames happening w/ me. sorry i donno the answer but i just wanted 2 tell the responders 2 be realistic. friends do that, it doesn't mean they're not your friends and you should find new ones. your also not gonna go up to them and tell them off. i personally donno what to do. to tell you the truth, it's crushing me, what my friends have been saying, and I've been sulking basically. i hope your friends notice wat there doing to u. I feel ya' =)





yeah i know this isnt an answer so u dont havta rate me

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what are your opinions on tankinis.

are they more for older women (25 and up), or can teenagers where them too and still look cool. like would you wear them?

thanks

teenagers can definatly wear them. the ones that are tighter on the top, then flow out are pretty.

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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.

well, i havent tried it yet, but i always thought it would be cool to design a magizine cover about my day or week. You could do it on the computer, or not. I would put a picture in the backround, and little captions saying what happened that day or week. If you dont like that, you could make a model of a famous building, like the leaning tower of piza. or, design your dream building or home. hope i helped =) sorry if this wasnt what you were looking for but i tried.

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hey, i'm doing a paper on teenage stress
& i need to come up with a cute title
for example, a paper on peer pressure is called
'but everyone else is doing it!'

anyhelp? :]
please&thanks!

Nobody Said a Teen's Life Was an Easy Life!

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Here's the thing I am 13 gonna be 14 in a month. Me and my brother are 15 months apart. he is 15. My parents let him do whatever he wants. I on the other hand don't get to do anything! I can't go anywhere with anyone anytime. And it has been this way for ever.
My parents insist they have to Know ( meaning have seen and talked to) the parent of my friend(s). On the other hand my brother can leave and only say Im going to my friends house I'll be back maybe tomorrow. My parents know my brother drinks and smokes weed. I on the other hand only smoke cigarettes, and they know this. It doesn't make any sense!

What do you think about the situation.

i hate to say it, but i think that your parents think of you as the "baby" of the family, and they dont want to see you grow up. try talking to your parents calmly, without getting mad, about how you feel. hope it helps

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I'm looking for a song about a guy and a girl who live a long distance apart and love each other so much and she misses him like crazy even though he's only been gone a little while. It would also be perfect if the song was about them loving each other but neither of them has said it yet, like they aren;t actually together, but they have strong feelings for each other. And she just wants to tell him.

I'd really really appreciate anyone who can help me. Thanks s0o0o0o0o much to anyone who can.

xx

definatly

hey there delilah-plain white t's

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ok well my friend max is an athiest. he doesnt belive in any kind of god. hes like a science nerd so that probably has something to do with it. well i really want him to belive in God but i dont know how i can talk to him about it. we arent close enough to talk about that stuff. what should i do?

i do not think you should say anything. not everybody feels the same way about things, and the fact that everyone is different makes the world more interesting.

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i need help, i am tooo, quite and i always blush, i wanna talk more, but i just cant, i wanna say hi 2 girls! its pretty gay and dorky! dats y i wanna change im only free wit 1 girl wich is my gf! i wanna b free wit other girl, i wanna freely talk2 girls! plz help

1. be confident. have good posture. talk like you're talking to your best friends
2. be yourself. if they dont like it its their problem
3. talk about something they might be interested in

hope it helps!

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My friend, Emily,
has a sister named Meg. Emily is in fifth grade and Meg is in eighth. Since Meg is in eighth, Emily is friends with Meg's friends! They do everything together. And Emily is not in my side of the school, so I never see her. I call her, and she is with Meg's friends. In her sisters friend's profile it says: BEST FRIENDS " MEG KELSEY EMILY" I guess you can say I am jealous. But i dont know. I miss emily, and she is always with her sister. She doesnt notice me anymore. I really want our friendship to be strong again. I just miss her. Its so annoying!!

- Friendless

this is a tough situation, but if it were me, i'd casually bring it up in a conversation. speaking your feelings is the best solution when you are in this type of position. if you are shy, then you can go another path. you can give her little clues like putting either "other people's names BFFAEAE" or "EMILY BEST TIMES" on your profile. the first one will make her jealous possibly and the second may clue her in that you want her attention.


hope it helps

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ok last year i was a complete dork. i mean it. i did the stupedist things and was a complete nerd. i embarrassed myself when i didnt even know it. this year, i am totally different and im not like that anymore. i dont want people to see me as that way anymore. how can i change peoples opinion of me?

and dont tell me i should be happy with who i am because that wont help me at all.

the same thing happened to me. first of all, spread your range of friends. experiment. sit at different lunch tables. there was one girl i didnt like, and now im her friend. dont be too annoying or talkitive . next, try changing your style a little during school by wearing something you would never wear, for example, a skirt. if you never wore a skirt, try it. whats the worst that can happen? lastly, be confident. people notice that in other people. in a conversation, try not to studder. it will get easier over time. i hope this helps!

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im doing a lit project and i have to pick someone who has a bigger impact on life and how they did something to society and such.. and i have to decide from john lennon to madonna.. which one should i choose? if you have any other ideas, that would also be great!

i'd choose john lennon. he seems more interesting to me. his music is legandary. i did a report on dizzy gillespie, a famous trumpet player. i dont know if that helps.

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ok....so I am gonna make it short. I have a girl that I know likes me and lets call her K. and then, heres the problem I know another girl that likes me and lets call her B. so what should I do..I also like both of them...advicenators...Help ME

get to know them both a little better. find their good and bad qualities. that will definatly help to decide which girl is more your type. i hope i helped!

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14/f
i've gotten a lot of adive to "go ahead and ask him out" ok, so i was thinking of doing that.

just what are some ways that aren't awkward to ask a guy out if he's not makin the first move and im almost positive he likes me?

thanks soo much.

i personally think its easier to talk over the computer because then you dont have to go face to face. Good luck!

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im not sure what i want to be for halloween yet.. i want to be something cute but i dont want to acutally like go out and buy a costume for it.. i just want it cute and simple.. any ideas?

im being a gangsta with my friend. baggy jeans, fake chain, white tee shirt, sidedways cap, water gun i think its a simple and fun costume =) your decision

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there's a boy who's been in like all of my classes for the last 2 years and i really like him. he's really sweet, funny, and he's really nice to me. i talk to him a lot and i help out with his movie club but he doesn't seem to notice me as anything more than a helpful class mate. i'm not the most outgoing person but i get along with him pretty well and i really like him.i wan tot get him to notice me as more then a friends what can i do?

what to do:

1. be yourself.
2. talk to him, find out his interests
3. dont attatch yourself to him, its annoying, but act nice


if he doesnt like you for who you are, then try to not like him


hope it helps!

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i think i have fallen in love with my best friend, she acts like she likes me all the time. But she is in a serious relationship with somone right now. I dont know what to think because she somtimes acts like she likes me. i would literally do anything for her to just give me a chance.
what should i do?

wait until shes done with her relationship with this other person and see if you still like her. be patient. i know its hard but its the best thing to do.

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Alright, well, I've never been kissed ( and I'm 15 ).

So I mean, I've been asked by guys ( which I find funny in some weird way and then just put it off ) because I guess I don't want my first kiss to be that way, and tonight I was asked again, and of course, me being me, I said no. And I'm just afraid that's giving guys vibes that I like, hate them or something which isn't true. I just want my first kiss to be special, but lately I'm just like,"God, do it, get it over with, whatever." But I don't know, I don't even really know what my real question is.


I guess I'm just asking for your opinion on things. Like; what would you do if you were me?

if i were you, i would wait until the time is right. you will know when that is. i would want it to be completly perfect. make it so you will always remember it. i say, wait until it happens at the right time with the right person. you will be happier after.

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