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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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is there any pills or weightloss supplements that you dont need a prescription for, or that you can just buy at the store?, thanks.
Yup.
I've only heard of Alli (http://www.myalli.com/whatisalli.aspx) , Thermadrol, Lean System 7 though.
Or if you wanna try the whole "herbal" thing, here you go:
http://www.webmd.com/diet/guide/herbal-remedies
Hope I helped! (:
i smoke weed, i drink, and i snort pills.i dont get affected, why??and i dont need anyone saying anythings about, oh its not good for you.just answer my question please :)
If you're not getting high, you might just be inhaling wrong. Or it's just bad weed. Some people can't get high till they're six or tenth time smoking. It sort of depends on the person.
If you're not getting drunk, it depends how much you're drinking and what you're drinking. Depending on your weight and all, it might take more alcohol to make you drunk. And if you're drinking right after you eat alot, that's probably why it's not affecting you so much.
I'm not sure about the pills though. Sorry.
Hope I helped. (:
There's all those names like vegan, vegetarian, etc, but what's it called when you just don't eat RED meat?
There's not a name for it.
Ha, you just don't eat red meat.
So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and im sick of just "messing" around. I want to have sex with him but im afraid that i might get pregnant so i want to be put on the pill, but the problem is im 17 and my mom would have to go with me to the doctor. I dont want to tell my mom that i want to have sex because she will freak out on me. She believes in waiting until marriage. I think I'm going to tell her that I just want birth control so my periods will be on schedule and not at different times each month and because I'm sick of them. Any advice for me on how to bring it up or how to ask?
P.S. I also don't want my dad to find out.
Birth control can be used if you have heavy periods, if your periods last for a long time, or if they're irregular. People go on birth control all the time because of stuff like that, so she'll definitely believe you.
Wait till your dad's not around, and ask your mom if you can talk to her. Just tell her your periods are always heavy or last for a really long time and aren't ever on schedule, and she should understand. Or if you're watching tv together, sometimes they have commercials for different types of birth control, and you could just bring it up that way.
Hope I helped. (:
so i bought canine carry outs bac'n bites
i dont know if i should feed it to my chiuaua
is it safe can i feed her it
http://reviews.petsmart.com/4830/2751728/reviews.htm
I don't know if that's gonna help you too much, but you can google some of the reviews. People feed those to their chihuahuas all the time though, and apparently they love them. Hah.
It's not the most nutritional thing, but yes, it's safe and you can feed it to her.(:
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years. His dad is a golf pro and where he is located he isnt getting paid very well. Therefor his dad has been sending applications tryin to get a job somewhere else. His dad is in his mid to late fifty's. I want to prepare myself for the chances of him gettin a job and moving. Does anyone out there know the chances of his dad getting a new job within the next two years? Im a sophomore now so after two years it wont matter because we will be in college. Also does anyone have any ideas of how we could stay together if he moved.
Ps: please dont say were just 16 it doesnt matter.
Real advice only
Thank you so much
Maria
I'm not sure about the chances. Job's are hard to get right now with the economy and all.
Try to google some golf pro jobs in the area where you live. There's got to be at least one. If you find some, just print them out and give them to his dad, and maybe they won't even have to move.
Do you both want to go to the same college? Unless you both have your hearts set on two different colleges, you could both try and get into the same one. If that won't work out, just call/text/e-mail each other everyday. Or depending on how far away he's going to be living from you, you could go and visit him once a week.
But I wouldn't worry too much if I were you. Enjoy the time you have together now. (:
Good luck!
I have been acting for four years and usually only get smallish parts. Well this year we are holding an arts night at my school and not only am I one half of a two person play but I am the first up for it. First to peak, first out, and first play. I am so extremely nervouse because this is the first time for that kind of thing. Does anyone have a tips for me to get over tage fright?
http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Stage-Fright
Read the tips and warnings too.
And remember, you and the other people on the stage are the only ones who know the script and how the play is supposed to be. If you mess up, the audience won't have any way of knowing.
Don't worry about it too much. I bet you'll do great. (:
Good luck!
So I just don't know if I have gotten OLD or what but this whole new "chatspeak" I've seen online bugs the crap out of me. Is this the new thing to do or what??
Example: Uhhh I dunno. i would. derrr. Jus tell him wat u thinkers.
Ok, so the thing that bugs me is a period after like every other word and derrr and wat instead of what?
Wow, maybe I am just getting old.
Well, it's definitely not new, but you're not getting old. (;
It's been around for a while because people think it's quicker to type that way, or they have no idea how to use proper punctuation.
What I absolutely hate about it is the "wat" thing. Haha, I just can't stand it.
how can i get rid of my acne. its not because i have a dirty face or anything like that. i only get them the week before im about to start my period
Alright, I did proactive. It stopped working after sixth months, but it helped. You can try that if you want, but I wouldn't gaurentee anything. It didn't help once my acne got worse, but it sounds like yours isn't severe or anything, so give it a try.
Go to your dermatologist. They can give you the right stuff and make sure it won't dry out your skin too much. Try asking about Solodyn if you decide to go. It's an antibiotic for acne, and it cleared my skin up alot after I quit retin a.
But micro retin a is what made my skin clearer than ever. The only thing is.. I had pretty bad acne, so I don't know if it would be right for you. The only downside is that when you first start using it, your skin will be VERY dry, so you have to be careful of the sun.
Hey guys I'm try to lose weight but the main problem is my STOMACH. That is literally where all of my fat is and it bothers me so much. It makes me so self conscious. So what im asking is if you could find me what to eat and exercises to make the stomach become as flat as possible. Thank you so much!
http://www.hinduwebsite.com/health/flatstomach.htm
"1. You must do some form of progressive strength training.
If you want to effectively strengthen your stomach you need to incorporate the following types of exercises:
* 1-2 forward flexion exercises (crunch, sit-up, etc.)
* 1-2 side flexion exercises (side bends, side crunches, etc.)
* 1-2 rotational exercises (trunk rotations, standing twists, etc.)
The abs, are muscles just like any other and should be worked at most 3 times per week. You also want to make sure you are training them progressively, working them harder each time.
2. Use short, hard cardio workouts to increase metabolism.
Below is a sample interval workout that can be done with just about any activity (walking, bicycling, swimming, stair climbing, etc.).
Warm up at easy pace 2-5 minutes. Perform 30 seconds of hard work (almost as hard as possible). Perform 1 minute of moderate work (recovery time-catch breath. Repeat this process 6-10 times. Cool down at an easy pace for 2-5 minutes.
3. Stable blood sugar is the key.
And most importantly, you must stabilize your blood sugar! This is by far the most important factor when it comes to burning away that excess body fat and keeping it off! To effectively stabilize your blood sugar you must feed your body frequently; like every 2-3 hours. The key is to give your body only what it needs at that time. Your body burns calories 24 hours a day, so, why would you only feed it once or twice a day? Give your body the fuel it needs: vegetables, fruits, nuts, berries, whole grains, and lean proteins (chicken, fish, lean beef, eggs, etc.)."
Hope I helped! (:
In my moms dream i was beheaded in a car accident.Their was lots of blood.I looked it up and it means death in going to happen
does this mean im going to die
i know it sounds stupid
but the whole thing kinda scared me
No, it doesn't mean that. It was just a bad dream.
Those dream dictionary things are rarely right. A dream can't predict rather you're going to die or not.
Trust me, you're not gonna die.
Don't worry. (:
when is the average time to start im 12 some of my frinds have but im wondering when the average age is
Well, I started when I was 11.
http://www.womenshealth.gov/faq/menstruation.cfm#f
"In the United States, the average age is 12. This does not mean that all girls start at the same age. A girl can start her period anytime between the ages of eight and 15."
Sometimes you may start around the same time your mom did, so you could try asking her about it. :)
HOW OLD DO YOU HAVE TO BE IN NEW YORK STATE TO GO TANNiNG *WiTH* A PARENTS C0NSENT?!
http://www.ncsl.org/programs/health/tanningrestrictions.htm
If you scroll down and look for the New York section on that site, this is what it says:
"Children under 14 prohibited; minors age 14 to 18 must have signed permission from a parent or guardian to use the facilities; the signature must be obtained by the facility operator in person and is only valid for twelve months."
So, you have to be at least 14 years old.
Hope I helped. (:
ok so a few people told me that curly hair is more attractive when i asked thi question but i dont really care to be honest.
i like straight hair!!
so the thing is that i want my hair to be really straight an nice looking, like hers http://www.spasalon.com/deonne/images/chi.gif
[the second pic]
how can i get my hair like that? i already hhave dead straight hair :P
it's not curly or anything, i just want it to appear the same way as in the pic.
my hair is quite long : down to my waist.
so helpp :]
If you want your hair to be like in those pictures, you have to take really good care of it.
Get it trimmed often to keep it healthy and get rid of split ends.
After you put conditioner in your hair, don't rinse it out right away. Let it sit for a minute or two so your hair has time to absorb the moisture. Use a deep conditioner or hot oil treatment at least once a week. Use a leave-in conditioner also. And if your hair's frizzy, you can straighten it even though you said your hair's already really straight.
You could also try asking your hair stylist for some tips the next time you go to get your hair cut.
Here's a few sites with some home remedies for your hair that you could try:
http://www.wemfo.com/?p=114
http://www.myhomeremedies.com/static/hair-care.html
http://www.natural-homeremedies.com/homeremedies_haircare.htm
Good luck. (:
I'm 16 and the boy i'm dating is 17. we're not exactly girlfriend boyfriend, but we like each alot and probably will end up as an item.
Except he's a shy kisser! he doesn't mind hand holding or holding my waist in public ( i love his touch!) but on our second date, I couldn't wait any longer, so i made the first move and gave him a spontaneous french kiss. He was taken aback and later explained he was too shy to kiss in public! I thought kissing between two people were when time stops - everything around you disappears and all that's left is you and the other person. That's how I felt until he pulled awayXD
So how can I encourage him to feel more comfortable kissing? we can start off kissing in a more private place, but where would be suitable to begin? Not either of our houses because we're not allowed haha.
please give any tips you can for me, all will be greatly appreciated! thanks:)
Hm.
What about the movies? Just sit at the very top row or something. People aren't even going to notice you, so it should be fine.
If he drives you places, the two of you could just kiss in the car right before he drops you off at your house or something.
Ask him why he's too shy to kiss in public. Explain to him what you just told us about the whole 'everything disappears and all that's left is you and the other person' thing.
Good luck. (:
Me and my bf of 6 months broke up about a wk and a half ago. i dumped him because he told my friend he was gonna hook up with other girls bhind my back while we were on a break. i was really angry becuz he told me he would never hurt me and all this stuff about he loved me etc. the other day (i told) my friend to tell him how she feels because of what he did and he got really angry and sed he wuldnt talk to me or her nemore and now he put up a quote on myspace saying something like ya i cheated but its because i didnt get what i wanted from it. im pretty sure its because i didnt have sex with him because i didnt want it. he also put some on his page bragging that hes single. he is acting so immature i didnt do nething to the kid but be honest about how much i though what he did was wrong. do i deserve this? it jus really makes me angry i trusted him so much and he has treated me like crap! i dont know what to do...i want to honestly go and kick his ass...any advice?
You're right - what he did was immature.
Did you talk to him about it before you broke up with him? He could've just said that to you're friend and not meant it. and not even meant it. Try talking to him about it. Don't yell at him, and don't go 'kick his ass.' That won't do any good at all. Just call him or something and calmly ask if he meant what he said.
And with the quote he put up - I don't get it. Did he actually cheat on you, or not? If he did, I guess you could give him another chance if the of you talk about it, if he apologizes, and if you feel like he deserves a second chance.
Also, he's probably just bragging about being single to try and make you jealous - don't let it get to you. Ignore it.
Think about this though: if what he's doing is making you angry, then you still have feelings for him. And if he's trying to make you jealous or whatever, then he obviously still has feelings for you too.
If the two of you still care, don't throw the relationship away. I personally think you should talk to him and if he apologizes or explains, give the guy another chance.
But if you think you would be better off without him, then that's fine.
It's your decision. :)
'Fate determines who walks into your life.
It's up to you to determine who you let walk away, and who you let stay.'
Goodluck.
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EDIT:
Yes, that's a good idea. :)
That's a much more mature way to handle the situation compared to what your ex is doing.
why is everyone so in love with the jonas brothers?
personally i dont like them, and if i express my opinion everyone yells at me and says "how can you hate them you don't know them" and my retort is "how can you love them you dont know them either". but anyways im so sick of being ridiculed for not liking them, and i just want to know what the big deal with them is?
I don't understand what the big deal with them is either.
Personally, their music annoys me, and I don't like any of their songs.
I guess it's just cause girls think they're 'cute.' I've asked alot of people why they like them, and most of them say, "Oh, Nick's so cute!" I don't really see how that's a reason to like a band, but whatever.
Or maybe people just like them cause they seem like they're good role models and they seem like good people.
Who knows.
I have bruises all over my legs. Some are as small as a penny-- but then there's some which take 3 to 4 inches of my legs. It's disgusting, and humiliating to where shorts and show my legs to anyone, even my boyfriend. And it's summer, which definitely doesn't help.
It's been going on for about 2 months now on and off. Could this be a nutrition thing? I've had issues with a calcium deficiency in the past.. could that be it?
Any ideas on if/when I should see a doctor, or whether or not I should be concerned at all would really be helpful.
Thank you.
Mhm, that happened to me for a while.
I never figured out what it was.
It was weird. It just suddenly stopped.
Well, alot of medications increase bruising: taking aspirin, ibuprofen or other non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs; anticoagulants; or even birth control pills. So, if you're taking any of those, that's probably your answer.
I also read somewhere that vitamin C helps heal/prevent bruises. If you wanted to try it, it probably couldn't do any harm.
http://www.mothernature.com/Library/Bookshelf/Books/16/33.cfm
The doctors would know more than any of us though. ;)
See one as soon as you can.
Good luck!
Oh kay so my boyfriend wants to like have sex with me and shit-i mean he already fingered me and i gave him a BJ but i don't know if i should have sex with him i am only 13 and i don't want it to get around my school! HELP!!
Nooo.
Believe me, it will get around.
And when I sat it'll get around, I mean it'll get around to EVERYONE.
I knew a girl at my school who was thirteen and when she did it, the entire school knew within the next month. I don't know if the guy told, or if her 'friends' told. I actually think it was both of them. Seriously, even my teachers knew. I felt so bad for the girl, and I'd never wanna see anyone go through what she did. Just, please don't do it.
I hope you make the right decision. ;)
Good luck.
Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks
1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places
Well, yes.
You might wanna slow down a bit.