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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years. His dad is a golf pro and where he is located he isnt getting paid very well. Therefor his dad has been sending applications tryin to get a job somewhere else. His dad is in his mid to late fifty's. I want to prepare myself for the chances of him gettin a job and moving. Does anyone out there know the chances of his dad getting a new job within the next two years? Im a sophomore now so after two years it wont matter because we will be in college. Also does anyone have any ideas of how we could stay together if he moved.
Ps: please dont say were just 16 it doesnt matter.
Real advice only
Thank you so much
Maria
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I'm not sure about the chances. Job's are hard to get right now with the economy and all.
Try to google some golf pro jobs in the area where you live. There's got to be at least one. If you find some, just print them out and give them to his dad, and maybe they won't even have to move.
Do you both want to go to the same college? Unless you both have your hearts set on two different colleges, you could both try and get into the same one. If that won't work out, just call/text/e-mail each other everyday. Or depending on how far away he's going to be living from you, you could go and visit him once a week.
But I wouldn't worry too much if I were you. Enjoy the time you have together now. (:
Good luck!
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I wouldnt worry about his dad moving yet, just enjoy the time you have together. Mostlikely, his dad could find another job soon, but considering his age and financial issues and what not, it might be a smarter decision for them all to stay here so dont worry! :-) If by the off chance he does move, I would suggest getting a webcam (if you dont already have one) so you can video chat with your boyfriend and see him live. Its tough when someone you really care for moves, but if you are really committed, it can work. Also, make really early plans to see each other over break or the summer. Maybe he can stay with you for a couple weeks? or vice versa. The reason i say plan really early is so that first of all you are organized, and second of all so you guys never stop thinking about how excited you both are to see each other. Also, call him alot, and update him on everthing that is going on in your life (have him do the same)
Good Luck! I really hope I helped, I know you are in a sticky situation, but as they say "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade."
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