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hello. so you want to know a little about me?? well im 14 years old. i ♥ to make people laugh, cheer them up and give them advice. it is just a part of me and i can't help it!! lol. i love sports, my fave is basketball and dancing. wierd combo?? i know. lol. as you can tell i love to laugh as well. i write songs and am pretty good at singing. writing the songs is basically writing poetry which i think is pretty cool. this is my opinion but i think that people rating other people is low themselves because some people put prank questions and rate you low for 'trying' to answer. so sometimes im tired of answering stupid questions. but if you truely need advice im happy to answer. so feel free to add me as a friend or ask me a question or just ask me questions to try to get to know me!! have a nice day!! :]
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ok i love this girl sooooo much i think im crazy. We are going to a movie 2 weeks from now with friends. I need someone OLDER LIKE 16 & UP to answer this- what should i do? should i put my arm around her and for how long-should i try to hold hands?? i am almost positive that she would do whatever back (holding hands, putting her arm around me etc.,)PLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
-wondering
i love it when a guy puts his arm around me or holds my hand and when they just go for it and don't do it all slowly. so remember that cause its not like she doesn't know what your doing anyway. DO NOT do that yawning stretch arm thing, just put your arm around her like its casual. you should see a scary movie too, that would make it better. good luck!
Okay, so a year and half ago or so, my stupid friend and I prank called this guy. And I know him for teasing people about things that happened loooong amounts of time ago. I don't care if he does it, but I'm going to see him at this party this weekend and that would be the first time I'm seeing him in like a year. I know he's gonna make a big deal out of it or at least mention it. Any comebacks or anything I could say to embarrass him and make him shut up? Sorry, dumb question.
Make up something about him. Like 'Haha and your brother,friend,or sister just told me about your little incidents. arn't you a little old to have wet dreams?' and when he says he doesn't just be like 'then it turns to denial, wow how sad' lol if you need anymore just drop one in my inbox. good luck!
You see.. i got back on weight watchers this week because my school's starting soon (too soon) and i want to slim down so I'm not the biggest girl in my class anymore. What are some fast pace exercises i can do (websites) or what are some tips. The weight watchers is working, slowly, but i want to speed up the process.
Thanx
Here are some of my ideas for you.
-Squats
-Sit ups (slowly do a little more everyday)
-Push ups
-Wall stretch (this is where you have your back against the wall and slowly slide down keeping your back straight and on the wall. make your thighs parrallel to the floor and hold it.
-Crunches
-Lunges
-Running
-Eat healthy (no desert except maybe nonfat ice cream every once in a while)
-lifting wieghts
if you need anymore just drop a message in my inbox.
i just want to sya i love this website,and that it has inspired me to start my own advice column at my school!!i really want 2 b/c i like giving out advice and seeing people happy!!!, but i have to talk to the dean about it..and i don't know want to say b/c i want him to take me seriously and not laugh in my face...i'm really nervous..b/c i don't want to make the dean mad b/c i'm his assistant,and i'm freaking out!!!!!! what do i say to make him take me seriously????? please help!!! i'll rate 5's for any help!! thanks!!! -nervous girl
you could say 'i was just wondering if i could maybe have my own advice column so i could help some people out. cause i know a lot of kids have troubles in this school and instead of going to drugs or something i could give them advice to lean them away from stuff like that.' he is not going to laugh in your face. most likely he will say yes if you have like a school newspaper or something. good luck!
this is for the guys out there with good advice : whats the best way for a girl to let a guy know that shes ready to kiss him. because me & my bf have been goin out for almost 2 and a half months and we never kissed but i think he oesnt want to kiss me because he thinks i dont want to kiss him. help please.
hey sorry im not a guy. but you just gotta make the first move. he most likely DOES want to kiss you but wont make a move on you because he thinks you dont want to so just remember that. i would say start hugging a lot and if you already are then thats good. then give him a peck on that cheek. then after a little while kiss on the lips and so on with whatever you would like to do. once you kiss him he will kiss you back. believe me. have fun!
i got my first holes done and i took them out 4 weeks after they were peirced. but they werent healed and they started bleeding. do i have to wait another 4 weeks now?
I think you are supposed to wait longer then that. ive gotten a few piercings any its usually 7-10 weeks untill they are healed. make sure to clean them everyday. then in about a year till you dont have to have an earring in the hole and it won't close up. good luck!
I think my gf is gonna break up with me, but i dont know. i rewally like her. but i dont think she likes me that much, thanks in advance.
13/m
i dont get what your asking, but just talk to her and if she says she doesn't like you anymore just find someone new but if it was something you said then just try to fix it. good luck!
I was wondering...what stores sell good sunglasses for teens at good prices. If you could tell me the price ranges that would be really helpful too. Thanks!
Pacsun has some cute sunglasses. i havn't bought i pair for a while but im guessing they are around $20. good luck!
I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this?
No you shouldn't. I have braces and that doesn't stop guys from wanting to makeout or kiss. it doesn't really make a difference with them on and off. have fun! :]
ok, well i am 13, 5'4" and i weigh 123lbs.Is that ok, cause my sister is 16, the same height, and 110 lbs. am i over weight???
NO, not at all. everyone says that your sis is underwieght and your average. but everyone just has their own eating habbits. and not being super skinny looks better on some people and vica versa. so i wouldnt worry.
Im from the uk. And we all have our own slang words or buzz words for things. What does making out mean in like american terms or to anyone really! All help greatley appreciated,
thanks
anthony
it is kissing for a long time, basically swapping spit haha. and using your tongue.
hey i just came up with a weird question that i really want to know the answer to. if a bug bites a cat (like a misquito) will the cat have to itch it like humans? haha i know it's stupid but i wanna know! haha.
uh yeah probably but i dont know im not a vet lol. but it is skin irritation to them just as it is to us, but wierd question.
my room has like a plum kinda rug and my bed comforter is like the same. i just got the rug so i cant get rid of it but i dont want purple walls anymore..i know this is hard for people to answer cuz you dont know the exact purple but what color could i paint my walls for it to go with the plummy kinda like purple rug and comforter i have?
Maybe like a tan or pale green. You could also just keep them white and make some type of purple design on them. Well Good Luck!
On june 13 and june 15 i had sex wit my bf. we had used protection n everythin. then i got my period on june 19...it last bout 5 days and it was a heavy flow..meaning it really was my period n nothin lik "spotting". newyz i havnt had sex since june 15th but now its been 34 days and i havnt had my period. usually i have it around 30-31 days...could i be pregnant?
its 50/50 chance. I would say your not pregnant, your period sheduale (sp?) could just be off. But I would wait a little longer to judge.
hey im not comfortable(sp?) writting this but i have to know....am i a les or a BI because i mean les sex turns me on and my friends are lesbian so when they kiss i get so turned on but no i dont looke at a girl and think i like her or something......and i son know if i am a les or a BI.. help!!!!
I think your straight because seeing them kiss makes you horny but you have to ask yourself does it turn you onto a guy or the people kissing? because if your turned onto a girl then your probably bi but if not then your probably okay.
im sorry but this probally sounds really gross, but im 13/female and whats a good way i can *play* with my self? and fun techneqes?
(with out the purchuse of vibrators or dildos..im to young to buy them..)
thanks!
You could finger yourself?? I dont know.
Hey all, i have a few quesions... So, me and my boyfriend want to have sex. Hes 15, and i am 14, and please, dont say we are too young. I am a gymnast and have gymnastics every wednesday. We are going to use a condom and even doing gymnastics, could I still get pregnant? I do every event plus conditioning. Is it possible? I am getting the condom. I dont want a box, just one or two. Where can i buy them and do you have to be a certain age? Where could I hide them so my mom would not fine them? Any help is GREATLY appreciated...
Umm you can get pregnant if you do gymnastics or not, just to let you know. and you could get them at any drug store or gas station, and no you don't have to be a certain age. try hiding them under your mattress, in a box with a lock on it, or somewhere where you know your mom would never see/check. have fun..
what are some good hair straighteners that won't really damage your hair alot
Well all straighteners damage your hair by frying it but some more then others. i would try a chi (sp?) straightener. my friend has it and it works great!
Like many people I bought the new Harry Potter book a few days ago. Mine was the first out of the box( and therefore obviously a first edition) and it looks perfectly normal.
However there is a fault on page 109/110. The pages have been ripped and glued together and then printed oddly. If it was a stamp then it would be instantly valuable. As Harry Potter is collectable I was wondering if anyone knows anything about a faulty print. Is it at all possible that this will become valuable? Should I look after the book especially or just treat it normally?
I dont think that it is valuable but i could be wrong! so you never know, i would talk to someone professional, not us people on advicenators. ( not to offend anyone in any way )
good luck!
alright hey my brother is getting married and he did not want a big big wedding i don't know why but he did not...so after the wedding like the next weekend they are have a cookout with like EVERYONE they know!! adn everyone says their going to wear like a skirt or a dress or something fancy or something and there is going to be an inground swimming pool to. and i was woundering dose anyone know what i should wear??
Okay since there is a pool wear your bathing suit under all this or you could just bring it, that way if people do swim you can and if they don't you don't have to worry about seeing it under your clothes. I would wear some nice, like a skirt and nice shirt or a cute dress. Anything that will fit in because you dont want to stand out. good luck! drop one in my inbox if you need specific ideas!