ask x0blu3eyedbeautyx0



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



Wow its been awhile since I have been on here. Well I'm always told I give great advice and it seems people flock to me for it. Ive experienced alot so I can relate to alot of people. Feel free to ask me anything :)
Website: Myspace
Gender: Female
Location: boynton beach. fl
Occupation: school...babysitting
AIM: angleyezxo21xo
Member Since: July 16, 2005
Answers: 293
Last Update: September 2, 2007
Visitors: 19106

Main Categories:
General Sex Questions
Music
Friendship
View All

Favorite Columnists
SWEETXLOVE
t0xicParadiSe
askmex3
rockstarxlove
SharpieAddictx3
What's the difference between dating and "going out"?? Thanks! (link)
First of all they mean the same thing. But they have different meanings for different ages. If you're a teen it means that you area couple. if your in your twenties or up it meaan you go otu on dates....then maybe you become a couple. ♥ caitie


What are some really good love books? For young girls. That make you say like "awww!! how cute!" and it just makes you read them over and over. :) Any book will do though. Thank you . :) (link)
"The Notebook" is a really good book and movie. It is the sweetest love story ever! You have to read it! ♥ caitie


i got my period over the summer for the first time. i skipped a month, then i had it last month nd this month. i know that is normal. is it normal that i had my period last week, then i got it again today & it is really light color? could it be because this week i started basketball for my school?

thanks (link)
It's just because you recently started your period. It has nothing to do with basketball...usually the first year is really screwed up...you'll get it twice a month sometimes. Don't worry, it's perfectly normal! ♥ caitie


what is phone sex? (link)
Phone sex is when you talk to someone over the phone, describing sexual things you're doing to yourself or that you want to do to the other person. It's a way to get turned on without actually doing anything with the other person! ♥ caitie


Im really really scared about getting my perdiod i have no idea when its comming like no idea. Im scared one of my friends will find out or i will be the last one. My crush is in like all my classes. And the nurse had pads and tampons and stuff but Im scared when im gon aget it (link)
You shouldn't be scared at all..it's really not that bad! There's no way in telling when it will come, but if you feel as if you're ready then carry a pad around with you in your purse or backpack. (or tampon but i recommend pad for the first time) My experiencer and my friends' was thhat we ddint leak through our pants or anything..the first time was really light, but if you're really worried put a pair of jeans you don't like that much in your locker in case. You shouldn't be worried about if your friens find out, because that's what your friends are for. You can talk about it with them and..if they have it ask for advice and stuff. Hello, "girl talk" lol! If you take these precautions, your crush will never find out. Good luck! ♥ caitie


are guys supose to shave down there or not? if yes.. like completely? (link)
They don't have to shave down there, but most girls prefer that they do, and if they do, they should shave all of it, beacause it would be a little wierd to have a little patch of hair lol! hope this helps! ♥ caitie


this is really long, but i really would like some help,please.

first off, im having a bad week. on sunday i got arrested. now last night, this started. my mom came in my room to say goodnight... but acted strange about it. i yelled at her because she didnt knock first and she begged and pleaded for a hug and a kiss goodnight, and when i still refused she started to whine and said, "but i might not get many more oppurtunities"... so i gave her a hug, and a really long one, and then she left and went to bed eventually. about a half hour later, i was going to the bathroom, and on my way back to my room, i saw my mom. she gave me another hug, and looked like she was going to cry. she started saying how she was sorry for not knocking, and she was sorry for all the things she did that made me unhappy. (she listed a few that have happened over my life) then she said she wants me to try to be good to my sister, and help my dad. she said to listen to him. she told me she loved me at least 6 times. she told me one of the happiest moments in her life was the day i was born. she said the other two happiest were when she married my dad, and the day she had found out i had won an essay on "worlds greatest mother" that i had written about her. she said dad would need help with things if she wasnt around. then finally she said, you better get some rest, time for bed. i keep thinking about all of this, what could it mean? and then i remembered, she has bipolar disorder, and she may have something else too that i havent heard about. whats happening to her? this morning when i got up for school, her and my dad were still in bed, and snuggled really close. i asked if someone could take me to school and my dad said he would. (usually my mom takes me though) so then she told me she loved me alot, and lots more hugs. she gave me lunch money and said goodbye, have a good day. i noticed shes wearing her wedding ring, which she never wears because its so hard to get off, and she wouldnt want to leave it on during the shower or while shes asleep. her and my dad love each other, but usually, my dad is already up for work by 7:30 and they arent usually snuggled so close to each other in bed. my mom told me dad was still in bed because they both couldnt sleep. so i went to school, pondering this all day. when i came home, my mom was putting my sisters new school picture in a frame to put over the fireplace, next to mine. she pointed out to me that if i ever need it, a picture of her as a baby, of the day she was born, is in the frame too, just behind the other three. im getting suspicious of whats going on, so i said, why would I need it? she said because valerie (my sister) is going to have to do a project in her class this year where she may need a picture of herself when she was younger. my mom has been saying my dad is going to help me through my arrest, and i'll get through it, she knows i can. if this was going on with you, what would you think? whats up with all these things shes been saying lately? is she dying? (link)
Ok wow I am so sorry! I think your mom may have found out that she has a sickness that could be fatal...but it doesn'y mean she is going to die, she could just be overreacting. I'm sure she wants to tell you what's wrong, but she can't find the courage, so I think you should ask her why she's been acting this way. If she says nothing, then say. "Mom, please just tell me why you're acting this way." Most likely she'll be happy that you broke the ice and she'll tell you what's going on. And you know it might not even be a sickness,,it could be a mid-life crisis..or maybe she entered menopause and all her emotions are on full-drive! Whatever it is..she neeeds you to be there for her and give her hugs when she asks for them. I really hope it's nothing serious, and if yopu need to talk more just im me at angleyezxo21xo! Good luck! ♥ caitie


my boyfriend told me, i have the curiousity of a cat but the heart of a saint.


can someone translate it? i have no idea what it means, please. (: thanks loves. (link)
It means you're a really sweet person, but you're a little nosy or you just always are asking questions about things. It's not mean or anything! Hope this helped! ♥ caitie


Well I have 2 best friends and we all use to goto middle school together until we got to high school cause all 3 of us goto different high schools. Well they made these plans leaving me out and I barly see them am I in the wrong to be mad cause I don't see them and on top of that they leave me out.should i be mad or am i wrong? I think one of them is mad because I told her that her ex and I have been talking alot lately and i think I like him. But i would never let a boy in between my frienships so am i wrong to be mad.
thanks for anyone who answers! (link)
No you're definitly not in the wrong! but don't get mad, just 3-way with your friends on the phone or...see them in person and tell them thta you feel as if they've been leaving you out..and you dont want you guys to grow apart. Don't act as if your mad, b/c if you do your friends might get defensive and it'll just make it worse. Good luck! ♥ caitie


I am just 13 and I have this urge to smoke. I have never smoked before and I know it is bad for you. I have never did any kind of drugss including weed or coke. My mom would kill me if I did smoke. So I ask my sister how old she was when she started smoking and she said about 13 or 14. And that made it even worse for me! Even people at school smoke! What can I do? I have even thought of stealing them from my mom! I'm a good kid! HELP! (link)
I'll tell you right now..it's disgusting..but if you have self control then try it one day and you'll see how bad it is. But don't do it again or you'll get addicted to the nicotene! It really tastes nasty..and if you know it's bad, don't even waste your time with it! Good luck! ♥ caitie


13/f
I didnt know what this went under but any ways i have like stretch marks on the sides of my boobs and there not that visible but is this normal? and if so will they go away? and if not is there anything i can do to get rid of them? thanks so much ill rate 5's for any good advice (link)
Ya that's really normal...alot of people get those. It just means your boobs just had a growth spurt! Sometimes they will fade...but if they don't you can buy stretch mark cream at a drug store. Hope I helped! ♥ caitie


when i put on deoderant in the morning before i put my shirt on, it gets all over the shirt while i am putting it on. if i try to do it when my shirt is on, it is difficult to lift up my shirt. i do not want to use a spray deoderant, so please don't suggest that. how can i put it on eaisly with out getting it all over my shirt? (link)
o0o I have the same proble so what I do is.. first put deoderent on then underwear, jeans, bra, ect. then my shirt. That way the deoderent has some time to dry. I also recommend gettinf a gel deoderent instead of solid, because that leaves white marks on your shirts! Hope I helped! ♥ caitie


ok my hair is so boring and I have the PERFECT cut in mind I just need opinions on how it would look on me... ok my hair is brown with blonde and deep red highlights, my face is round/heart shaped, skin is an olive tan color and my hair is half way down my back.. ok this is what I want done: I want to get a lot of layers, take some length off of it, side sweep bangs, and spikey things at the top (kinda like a faux hawk but not that short) If you need details just IM me on my AIM sn: funnyfunkestuff

(if that hair wouldn't look good then give some suggestions) : )

asked this on the public thing but no answers.. so I decided to ask you (link)
Well thx for asking me :)! Ok well everything sounded really cute up until the spikey things....I wouldn't go for those personally..but it really depends on what your personality is....they will probably draw allot of attention to your self and if that's what you want then go for it..but it might not all be positive! What I think you should do..is tell your hairdresser what you want, and then ask her if the spikey things are a good idea. That's what I do if I'm not quite sure! Well good luck and I hope it turns out really good! ♥ caitie


How Do You Like Makeout With Some One I Never Have Before So I'm Like Scared I'll Do IT Wrong.... Ummm soo whoever knows give me some feedback please i rate high, and dont give me the b.s like oo practice on your hand lol ok thanks (link)
You just follow the other person's rythm! Like turn your head opposite of the other person's and rool your tounge around...but don't stick it down the person's throat! lol! Just roll with it basically...and some people even practice on their friends....if you're a girl i mean. I've never doen it but I know people who make out with their friend for practice..and the friend gives them feedback..like it's nothing sexual! You could try that! Good luck! ♥ caitie


Everyone in my school thinks im a slut. I have made bad decisions in the past, and now im a totally diffrent person. No one will give me the chance though to be my friend. EVERYONE HATES ME!!!! How can i loose this reputaion fast and gain friends back? (link)
Tell people that you've changed...like when they make a comment about you being slutty, say Ok I admit I used to be..but I really have changed...I don't want you to hate em..because I'm not that person anymore. It's hard to rebuild your rep. but just be super sweet to people...but don't kiss ass...just don't talk shit or size people up or anyhting! Good luck! ♥ caitie


i was just wondering if this makes me fat.. because i think i am.. im 16 i weigh 107 and i wear size 5 pants.. just wondering what you think please be honest. (link)
Absolutly not...I would die to be 107 lbs...nd I'm not fat! Size 5 probably just means you have curves..which guys LOVE!! Trust me! You're perfect, dont even worry about it! ♥ caitie


well i was hanging out with some guys aboout 2 years older than me. i have only been friends with them for like a month, and i think one of them (Josh) is incredible hott. So i was with the guys and josh was there and he kept staring at me. so i was like why are u staring at me? and hes like your really pretty. and he started smiling... but idk if i believe him or not. is he only doing this as a joke since he knows i think hes hott? should i trust him, or is he just doing this to show off for his friends? (link)
Well if he was staring at you he probably really does like you...good job lol!! Ask him..be liek so you think im pretty..does that mean you liek me or something..just wondering??? Just be subtle! Good luck!! ♥ caitie


i downloaded limewire just to listen to music while on the computer. well one day iw ent to click it and nothing happened. i tired numerous times, still nothing.
SO then i reinstalled it..same thing
reinstalled it again..nothing
A 3RD TIME..NOTHING!!


what can i do?!

thanks a bunch (link)
For me it takes a looong time to start...nd even longer if you click on it more than once..so just click on it once and wait...eventually it should pop up. Hopefully that's the problem! good luck! ♥ caitie


what is limewire? do you download songs for free on it? or what?

5's (link)
I have it...it's a music downloader. You can do it for free, but the songs will liek stop for a second a couple times during the song. But there's also limewire pro...where the songs are normal and you pay $18 for 6 months..like it's a one time payment..you don't ahve to pay $18 a month. In my opinion that's really cheap..and it works! I definitly recommend it! ♥ caitie


is sex a verb or a noun? (link)
It's a noun! Interesting question lol!




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker