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so live like you mean it,

love til you feel it

it's all that we need in our lives.

so stand on the edge with me,

hold back your fear and see

nothing is real til it's gone.

& hold on before it's too late,

well run til we leave this behind.

don't fall just be who you are,

it's all that we need in our lives.

♥ ♥ ♥





i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.

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Well as some as you might know, ive been dating this guy for 4 months. I dont know if its natural but he keeps flirting and flirting and flirting! I get SO mad, and this one girl specificly, and i know it, likes him. She always is flirting with him and smiling at him and sometimes even winking?! Wow. should i confront the girl or even my boyfriend that it bothers me?

Yeah I deffinitly would comfront him about it. Me and my boyfriend have a very very jealous relationship to the point we don't even talk to the opposite sex, but you don't have to be like that. Tell him how you feel. Say something like, "Babe, it's been really bothering me of how close and stuff you are with (whatever her name is.) and I mean you can still talk, but please don't flirt with her anymore." I mean your not guarenteed he'll stop, but it's worth a shot. If nothing goes better then dump him. He shouldn't be flirting and stuff with other girls when he has you.

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Ok guys and girls. I want all of you guys' opinions on facebook and myspace. What you love about facebook and what you love about myspace. What you hate about them both. Which one do you feel is easier to run. And overall which one is the best. Anything else you can think of just put it down. I want ALLL opinions. When I rate it is your opinion so will NOT rate low. ;)

I don't really know about facebook much, so I'm sorry.

Myspace though, oh god. I used to be obsessed with it. I hate that. I hate how people constantly obsess over it, and need to check it 24-7. I like the fact you can meet new people, and stay in contact with people. Like I used to comment people I wasn't really close with at school & we'd be closer. But now I don't even have one. (:

I think facebook would be easier to run, although I don't know about it much, because you wouldn't have to constantly check in with people who are bad or whatever.

Overall the best I would have to say myspace, cause I know all about it and stuff. Hope this helped.

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me and this boy been like trying to get together all year, hes like my best friend and we've had classes together all year and we've hung out a few times. every time we've hung out we establish we like each other, then things change..he gets too afraid or something and completely just stops talking to me. a few days ago he finally asked me out, but then broke up with me.. i dont know the real reason why, but all i know is that what he said couldnt have been true, cause we have really liked each other for the longest time. anyways, now its harder than before, cause we sit next to each other in class, hes been flirtin with girls right in front of me, doin lil silly thing sthat me and him used to do, and today he had someone take my seat so i couldnt sit next to him.. i get soo soo upset and like i get pissed, me and him after we broke up got to the point of were just gnona be friends cause we like being around each other and maybe who knows what will happen in the future, but i hate how i turn myself off. me being in a bad mood cause of that probably makes him not even want to be aorund me more. how can i change myself from shuttin myself down and gettin upset over things like that?

That would be difucult to watch considering you really like him and stuff. What you need to do is hold it all inside no matter how much it bothers you and flirt with him like you don't even care. He's probably flirting with the girl to get you mad, and he's trying to see how far he can push you. You need to make it seem like nothing is wrong. Maybe even flirt with guys too. Continue being his flirty friend, and then who knows maybe you'll be going back out sooner then you know it.

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I know this sounds stupid, but are their any foods that you can eat to get bigger boobs. Or anything besides boob job or sumthing else surgically. I really want to keep my stomache small but have bigger boobs.

Thanks

No. There's nothing that I know of that you can do to make yourself have bigger boobs, other then surgery. Sorry.

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Please help! I want my boobs to go bigger their tiny please help what can i do to make them bigger apart from wear padded or water bras. Thanks, oh, how can I make my period start.

You can't. Is terrible as that news is, (For the boob part.) As for the period part you don't want it so I'd be happy you don't. From a girl that has boobs, they're not so great. Be happy with yourself.

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okay so i'm pmsing right now and i look fat i know it's normal but will this go away when my period starts or after my period is finished?

Yes. It's called bloating. It usually will go away after your period, but everyone is different.

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are hiv and aids the same thing? or what are they im confused

http://www.thebody.com/content/whatis/art12757.html
or

http://www.avert.org/aids.htm

Those websites should tell you what you need to know.

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how many times is the average teenage girl supposed to pee?

Odd question. It can varey from person to person. Some people can have bladder problems, and pee more or less then others. Usually about 10 times or something. I don't know.

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Ok Well it's my grad this year but one day I was weairng a top to track and field and got tanned SO BAD! (Yeah I couldn't find a dolly site but thsi is the closest I could find in google, sorry. I coloured it, the red is supposed to be brown).

http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/body.jpg

How can I remove the tanned spots?! I tried exfoliating. I'm not sure about the lemon thing though, does it really work?

I odn't want to tan the rest of my body because it's unhealthy and it'll look really bad (if it isn't bad enough already), see how bad I'll look at my grad in a dress with that?!

Yeah there isn't a way to remove a tan. Just tan your whole body once. That can't do much harm that way it'll look a little even.

Try that lotion that the girl below me said.

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i only have a week of school left and i need to figugure out a way to get the guy i like(who likes me back) to ask me out on a date. because once summer comes we wontr be able to hang and I CANT ASK HIM MY SELF!!!!!PLEASE HELP

Well do you even want to go out on a date with him? You can't see eachother over the Summer so what's the point of getting closer? If you do decide you really want to just ask him. Explain that you just wanna hang, don't be all weird about it. And then maybe get his number so you can talk atleast?

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so my andmy boyfriend have been dating for 7 months. we are having sex and its great ust one thing.... he always finishes before me... how can i fix that and are there anytricks to help me..

please and thank you

Well. There isn't much you can do. Guys usually cum before girls can actually have an orgasim, it's just natural. When your having sex, and he's about to cum have him stop for a second so he can last a little longer. So before you have sex be like, "I want this to last long so when your about to cum just stop moving so you can hold it in" That way maybe you'll have time.

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do most guys expect girls to be COMPLETELY shaven on their privates? i've always shaved down there, do girls usually shave everything off? or just the bikini line? i hope i haven't been doing something really weird all this time..!

and do guys shave too down there? or what?

most guys like it when girls are completly shaved, but if you have a few hairs i'm sure they won't care. you're not doing anything weird, you're completly normal.

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Please help i want my period to start im 13 how do i?
thanks in advance.

trust me. you don't want it. you can't make yourself have it either, so just wait it off.

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does anyone know where a good website for spelling is..

dictionary.com or google if you spell a word wrong usually they can correct you.

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Is it okay to lick a vagina during sex? Me and my spouse haven't tried sex and we are newly wedded but I'm just making sure if is it okay to lick a vagina.

Yeah it's fine. Sometimes it'll taste really bad though during sex, because of her cum and stuff, but you can deffinitly give it a try. Mainly before is the best though.

Like other people said you might want to make sure she has no deases, that wouldn't be too good.

Have fun.

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I gave head for the first time.. it was an overwhelming sweet taste and i got up to spit..

is there a certain way to clean my mouth?

Brush teeth, mouth wash.. ?

The taste is lingering on my tongue and I can't seem to get it off.. every time I try cleaning my tongue.. I gag a little.

Brush & Mouthwash.

The condoms when giving head doesn't make them feel it as much, and they don't really like it. Just so you know. (:

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can you tell me anything and everything you know about the morning after pill?

i've had it before. i don't know everything about it though, but i know somethings.

usually it's better to take it before 72 hours. i'm not a doctor so here's a site.

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/morningafterpill.htm

for more information google it. (:
good luck.

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does anyone know who won american idol?
thank you so much!

Jordin Sparks.

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Okay so my one friend keeps telling me that my other friends ( who doesn'treally get along with me anyway ) is calling me a whore behind my back. My one friend is standing up for me but she says that my other friend is saying that im a whore because my boyfriend of 7 months and i make out during movies - i understand yeah maybe she doesn't want to see it but the thing is his dad hates me and we can NEVER see each other and thats pretty much the only time i can do that with him its getting really hard ! i just want to know if i really am a whore for this or is she just being lsfijsdlf ?

Noyeti is me. (Britney.) I was accadently on my friends name, so post the answer (if you want.) in MY inbox. (:

Thank you veryy much.

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ok latly for the past 3 month ive been eating like CRAZY
im really skinney and always ate like a bird
groth spurt mabie?
(btw 13/f)
my freind was trying to scare me (cause im like healthaphobic) that i could have wormy things that eat everyhting
IM PARINIOD BY IT NOW

i know i probly dont have it, but how could i tell if i have them!?
thanx

Don't believe her. That's retarted. You don't need to check, because you don't have them.

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