I've made my mistakes, I have my faults, I've done my sins. I've been heart broken and have broken hearts as well. There's a lot I've seen, a lot I've heard, and a lot I've been through. I don't know everything but I have my opinions and if you ask me for adivce I will always try to help.
p.s. LOVE IS VILE!!
E-mail: vilelove@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: August 19, 2005
Answers: 135
Last Update: February 5, 2007
Visitors: 9553
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okay so im 16/f and there is this guy at my school and he just always stares at me whenever i see him. weve never talked or anything but weve had classes and i was just wondering does it mean anything that i always catch him staring at me? guys or girls advice on this would be great! (link)
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He probably MOST LIKELY thinks you're pretty. Sionce he stares at you all the time he thinks you're really, really pretty. Aww, he thinks you're purdy!!!
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I always wear the same makeup, same hair. My hair is shoulder length and really dark brown. I have dark brown eyes and VERY pale skin. So...what are some ideas to make my look better (hair and makeup) (link)
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EXPERIMENT WITH MAKE UP (YAY!) Try dark eyeshadow and dark lipstick one day and then other days try eyeshadows that really stand out (like red or blue) with red lipstick or soft pink lip gloss. For your hair try pputting it up, putting it in 2 pony tails, dying it with the sparys that go away when you wash your hair or semi-permanent level 2 hair dye that goes away after a month.
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Everyone is asking me what I want for Christmas and I just dont know so could you help me out? I'm a total girlie girl. I already have a cell phone and TV and dont want my own computer.
I rate 5's for anyone who tries even if I don't like what you say, I just want some options.
OkayThanksLoves..Bye! (link)
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Hi.
An ipor (maybe a pink one). MAKE UP! Gift card. Clothes! A really cute purse or purses... CDs...Jewlery.... etc. (a kitty! ...or any other different pet)
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I was talking to my friend the other day. He was talking about how he was in a band in highschool. I asked him what year he graduated and it turned out to be the same year I was born. I started to laugh and when I told him his face went beet red and he couldnt look me in the eye.
I thought that because we are just friends that this was a strange reaction.
Do you think that maybe he has feelings for me as more than a friend? That would explain why he was embarressed. (link)
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I doubt it. Possibly but I still doubt it. Most likely he just didn't realize how young you were... like this one friend of mine I was hanging out with a few days ago. I asked him what grade he was in and it trned out he still in middle school. It's not exactly a bad thinbg that he's young but... it just caught me by surprise. But I never had feelings for him or thought I did, even before I knew his age. So it's just a reaction with little meaning.
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Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for like 4 weeks. And started off as friends and then we became bf and gf. He goes to a different school then i do..I use to go that school but i left like 2 years ago..I am still really good friends with everybody there and sometimes we go to the movies alot..But lately we havent been doing anything...And me and my bf are really close and talk all the time but dont get to see eachother. And we are both 14 soo its like nothing serious...Well here the problem i want to go my school last home football game and i want my bf to go with me. But he doesnt know anyone at the school i go to. soo i dont think he would go. And all my friends want to me him and everything. Well also my bf wants go to a movie on that day but i want to go the football game.. LIke last night i was suppose to do something with him but he had to go to his dad's soo i went to the football game instead..And i really missed him...Then week i think we are doing something but i want to go the game but i want to see him cuz i probally wont for while..So should i tell my bf to go the football game or go the movies with him??
Sry its soo long
I'll rate 5's for good answer
THANKS (link)
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Hey. I think you should ask him to go to the football game with you. It's true your friends don't know him but that's the point. Meeting your friends. Tell him you want to introduce him to your friends and stuff and maybe he can be friend with them too and you guys can go to the movies too and stuff. You can go to the movies other times (I know you might not see him for a while but you can still go to the movies more times than your school's last football game). He might be shy but as long as you assure him and let him know it's important to you and you want him to know your friends he'll be okay with it. Who knows, maybe he's thought about going somewhere with you to your school (like a dance or something) and meeting your friends and stuff.
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my ears stick out soooooooo far i feel like dumbo.. what am i supposed to do .. should i staple them back? my dad just got a new nail gun , i think that woould work. suggestins PUH LEASE!!! (link)
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Wear big flashy earrings (unless you're not into those... but as long as they are big earrings). They'll make your ears look not-so-big and about them sticking out... well people won't notice. They'll be too distracted looking sat your earrings (that's why they should be flahsy... to get people's attention at them when people do look at your ears instead of your ears). And/Or put your front hair behind your ears and let the rest of your hair fall out covering your ears.
Good luck.
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my best friend introduced me to this new guy she just started to go out with. She talks about him constanly. In her eyes he could do no wrong. When I met him he seemed nice. But later on he started to flirt with me. he told me that he is using her to get closer to me. He says He is just with her because she has a good paying job and she takes him out to dinner and shopping. In other words he is a friend with benfits. When I told her about what he was up to. She accussed me of being a liar and stoped talking to me. She had been my best frien since the 7th grad we are in our 20's now. I miss her and hate that she is mad with me . how can I get her to see that I am not a liar? (link)
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Two options. Either you can find some way to frame him (but be discreet and wise... if he sees what you are up 2 he can turn it around on you... and dont go to any extreme of looking incriminating... like as much as you want to frame him dont do anything like taking a picture of you and him kissing because well hopefully youll know thats just dumb). OR you can just wait. She needs some space and time to see what this guy is after and he'll blow his cover fast (he probably flirts with lots of people). Either way you'll probably have to wait. Unless you see them getting serious or if it lasts too long then you have to act fast. But in the end only she can make her own decisions. Just let her know where you stand on this, what you think, and most importantly that you are there for her. Whatever happens she will come to her senses and realize she doesn't want to loose her fest friend either. (And that her best friend since 7th grade wouldn't lie to her about some guy... mention that if she keeps thinking you are a liar) And when she does come broken hearted try not to say "i told you so". Just be supportive and give her space and be a friend (which it seems you already are a really good friend).
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Do any of you have friends as backstabbers and know how to deal with them...I need help! (link)
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Yeah just tell them what everybody else knows... nothing more. And remind them of what you know of them in a naturasl way so they won't think you are threatening them but won't have the guts to backstab you. And never tell them what you feel (that is REALLY important... even if by some chance they know what happened... feelings are worst than actions for backstabbers... it can confuse them if they dont know what you feel and thats not so bad).
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Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month and a half, and I really have fallen in love with her. She says she has too and I believe her. Now shes says though that she wants to take like a break for maybe about a week. Now during this break were suppose to be pretty much still going out, but with like no strings attached. She wants to make sure that if given the chance we wouldn't do anything with someone else or we could and see if we still felt the same way about each other. I understand why she wants to do this becuase we've both been done wrong by other gfs/bfs. She just wants to make sure the relationship lasts before diving in head first. I agreed to do this, but still want other people's opinions.
John
Age:16
Gender:male (link)
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Hey. Well it seems like a good idea and it's not like weird or suspicious since ou have good reasons to do this. I personally would like to try to it too myself if I was getting too emotionally envolved with someone before taking it any more deeper or serious. If you don't feel uncomftrable with this then I think it's a good idea. Since you guys both love each other I'm sure things will be good. If by some weird reason something weird and unexpected happens... maybe it was supposed 2 happen... not necessarily so you guys will break up... but maybe so you guys can overcome obstecules or something. But it doesn't seem to me that anything is likely to happen (especially not in a week). Well it's cool and I'd say go for it. I don't think you have anything to loose (in your shoes most people would but since you guys love each other I know you don't).
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over a few years, i have gained pounds and my friends have told me that it is because metabolism has slowed down. is there any way to speed it up again? (link)
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excercixe regularly (even if you do pig out every so often ure metabolism will still be fast so you wont gain weight... unless you do it 2 much) and eat a little through out the whole day (not actual meals but like fat free yougart in the morning and two hours later a banana and three to four hours later a salad and later a can of corn and that kind of stuff)
good luck!
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what are some funny/cheesey pick up lines? (link)
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4 FUNNY/CHEESY pick up lines:
Are your parents retarded? Because you are special.
Did you just fart? because you blow me away.
Did you have lucky charms for breakfast? Because you look magicaaly delicious.
Will you hold something for me? (put their hand in theirs)
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i like this guy tuckermen he now cause i tell him i love him and he laughs but i kno he doesnt like me should i try to stop likeing him to find someone else or keep trying to crack him .im 13 girl (link)
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Do you think you "love him"? If you think you do tell him you like him (just like him cause if you say love again it may either scare him or he won't take you seriously) and make sure he knows you are serious. Then ask him what he thinks about it (either "I like you too" or "sorry, but I only like you as a friend") Base your answer on that. now if he doesn't like you back that way just get some time apart from him so you can move on eassier.
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OK i'm watching a martha stweart show and why is she aways says it's a good thing?!??! Won't she eva shut up!? (link)
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Hey. l.o.l. Well she is justr trying to be positive. When you are positive you receive positive energy so it's really not such a horrible mathod. Will she ever shut up? Hmm... maybe if she gets thrown in prison again.
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im 14/female
sorry this is kinda long..
there is this boy at schol we dont talk much but he is in a few of my classes.Today the teacher put us in groups and i was in his. We finished our thing early so me and him were just sorta talking...Then he was like soo what is your name again and i told him my name and he said ohh i kno a girl by that same name she looks just like you you must be twins and he kinda smiled... so i kinda was just like oh and then he was like yeah she is really pretty... I didnt really kno what to say so i just kinda smiled and we didnt talk much the rest of class...soo my question is do you think he likes me?? (link)
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Hi there. Well it depends. If they really is a girl that looks just like you then he likes her (but don't worry, I'm 94.57% sure there is no girl that looks "exactly just like you" whom you've never met before). I'm not sure if he LIKES YOU-LIKRS YOU but he definitely thinks you are attractive and finds you interesting... which can lead him to LIKE YOU-LIKE YOU. ...Or he may have a crush on you. But either way, he si definitely interested in you.
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On my homework Theres a problem & it is
Simplify 30 min:2hrs How would I do this?
I will give you 5! (link)
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180 minutes
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Anybody know of any fundraisers they have done or know of? Open for anytyhing!
thank you (link)
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Hey. Well it depepns who you are doing it with. If it's like a school thing than you can arrange an event of competition between classes or a talent show and sell tickets to it for $5 or something. if it's by yourself or an individual type of thing you can go downtown where they sell everything in wholesalery and buy (this is an example) two dozen braceletes for fifty cents each and sell them for two dollars and fifty cents each. Just let people know it's for a fundraiser, it works.
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Alright, I dated this guy for about 2 months. And we just broke up about I guess 2 weeks ago? Well before we broke up, things were going great. A few nights before we went to a football game and he was telling me how much he cared about me and how happy it made him that he could hold me and junk like that (Corny I know). Well a few days later he talks to my brother and tells him he has to break up with me. I was devasted to say the least. So I called him. He told me what had happened... that he just had too much going on in his life right now and couldn't handle a relationship. We rarely were able to see each other and the only way we could talk was after he got off work at like 11:30 at night. And sometimes he was so tired that the conversations weren't that long. So I understand why he did it. He kept telling me on the phone he still loved me and he cared about me and that he hoped it wouldn't be a permanent thing, ya know? And I told him that it was fine and that I understood. Well now things are weird. I see him every other day or so whenever my brother wants to go and see him at his work. And I can handle seeing him just fine. But we don't really talk. He'll say a few words to me and stuff like that, but that's about it. He'll joke and crap. One time when I went up there, he hugged my brother really short and then hugged me and I thought he wasn't going to let go. Anyway, he claims he cares about me so much and that he wants us to get back together eventually, but he never even calls. Even when he's off work... and I'm just confused. I'm trying to figure out if he still feels anything for me and why he doesn't even call. If any of you could help me I'd be more than glad to rate... I'll rate high too!!
Thanks so much for reading this.
xoxo (link)
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Hey there. ...Exes... weird subject. I heart my ex but that's not the point. Anyway. ...Have you asked him lately if he still has feelings for you? Maybe he used to but doesn't anymore. ...Or maybe somewhere along the way he found other things or other people that gave him the idea that he was young and should experience different relationships instead of just being with you. Maybe he does want to be with you... but he wants to experience too. I say this because after my ex broke up with me he told me he wanted to be friends but I was kind of bitter (and I still had feelings for him) so I said no. Then like a month later we got back together and thinga were going great but then we broke up again and then... it seemed like he still had feelings for him and for a while he said he still did but I recently told him I still liked him and he said he only liked me as a friend. ...Sometimes feelings change.
Let's not jump to the worst yet. I really hope that's not the case with you because it really does hurt. Anyway. Ask him if he still has feelings for you and tell him you still have feelings for him. And ask him when he has time off so you guys can talk. Start making plans to talk with him. If he seems weird about him tell him that your friends say some guy says he likes you and stuff and see how he reacts to it. His reaction and can tell you a lot about how he feels for you. But just don't go too far with the story cause he may think you're trying to make him jeolous.
Take care.
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What are some excersizes to help me lose weight and inches in my stomach, legs, and, butt? (link)
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Hi!!
Cronches. at least 30 (I did 60) a day EVERY day. It helps and you see reults quickly.
Sit ups.
Jumping Jacks
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im like 4'11 or 5'' and im soo tired of everyone telling me how short i am and today someone came up to me today and told me i was shorter than this guy at my school who is like, really short and i thought i was taller than hIM! what do i do to get taller its bugging me pllease help me! (link)
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Hi! This isn't exactly my field of expertice since I'm naturally tall but ironically I recently read an article somewhere on fashion tips that help with that exact thing. One thing you can do is wear pants or jeans that go all the way down to your shoes. They should cover your ankles. This makes your legs seem longer (since ppl can't see where your ankles are and where your feet begin). Also if you wear like sandals with small heels it would help. Make sure the heels aren't too big cause they might be against dress code and/or it might be oobvious what you are trying to do. if they are only an inch or maybe even two then nobody will notice. Also, if you walk with a straight poosture like your shoulders back and all it helps a bit. Something about distributing your weight that automatically makes you look a little taller.
well good luck!!
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i really like this guy.. im kinda scared to talk to him.. well what do i say to him? i mean i know what to say to him but what do i say to like keep a convo going without him getting bored? and it cant be long.. coz i only see him in like2 classes and we're not aloud to talk.. (link)
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hey! ...start by a frienly "hi" with smiles and stuff. ...then ask him about his weekend or summer or some kind of small talk like that. it could be something like "isn't this class boring?" or "god, this class is better than geometry" or something like that, those are just examples. Then he'll make a comment and then be observatent. If he like has a binder with a Led Zeppelin picture (just an example again) be like "hey, Led Zeppelin! I love them too!" (if you do have that in common) OR the best way to keep people entertained is to have them talk about themselves. If he makes any comments about being in a band or something be like "really? what kind of music do you play? who are your influinces? what instrument do you play or are you the vocals?" or if he plays sports ask him which ones and if he is in a team. Same thing if he's in a play or a club. And ask him if he is performing somehting and tell him you'd like to go see him.
It doesn't matter what you talk about but ask him general questions (nothing too personal) about him. Guys love to talk about themselves.
Good luck!!
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