Question Posted Wednesday September 7 2005, 7:43 pm
i really like this guy.. im kinda scared to talk to him.. well what do i say to him? i mean i know what to say to him but what do i say to like keep a convo going without him getting bored? and it cant be long.. coz i only see him in like2 classes and we're not aloud to talk..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? vilelove answered Wednesday September 7 2005, 8:39 pm: hey! ...start by a frienly "hi" with smiles and stuff. ...then ask him about his weekend or summer or some kind of small talk like that. it could be something like "isn't this class boring?" or "god, this class is better than geometry" or something like that, those are just examples. Then he'll make a comment and then be observatent. If he like has a binder with a Led Zeppelin picture (just an example again) be like "hey, Led Zeppelin! I love them too!" (if you do have that in common) OR the best way to keep people entertained is to have them talk about themselves. If he makes any comments about being in a band or something be like "really? what kind of music do you play? who are your influinces? what instrument do you play or are you the vocals?" or if he plays sports ask him which ones and if he is in a team. Same thing if he's in a play or a club. And ask him if he is performing somehting and tell him you'd like to go see him.
It doesn't matter what you talk about but ask him general questions (nothing too personal) about him. Guys love to talk about themselves.
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lilolamberlynn8806 answered Wednesday September 7 2005, 8:32 pm: Dear what to say what to say,
You have a tuff thing! Do you know things he likes to do? Like football or any other sports. If you do talk to him about it! Example: if he is a star running back in football, go to a game or something and watch him, or if you know he has a game watch the news, than the next day go up to him and be like "Hey I saw you last night you did great","Hey I noticed your name in the news last night. How did you do?" Guys love to talk about themselves for the first few conversations! So all I can tell you is find out what he likes and than talk to him about it! If he is attracted to you than he will want to know more about you or maybe he isn't getting your hints! I really hope I help you! I would love to know how it works out!
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