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Q: One of my closest friends just recently admitted to me something that I found quite disturbing.
She told me a couple days ago " no offense, but my cats are more important to me than any of my friends or family.
She said if her house were on fire the first thing she would grad were her cats, and not her parents or friends!!
I didn't say anything but I was quite upset. I would always pick my friends and family over my pets.
Am i overreacting to being upset?
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no it is odd for someone to do that . she may just be over exajerating or maybe its the closed thing too her . don't persue the topic she is a little odd but your her friend and you have to love her the way she is .
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Q: Okay so I have like a BEST friend we have been really good friends since like 4th grade and now we are in 8th well ever sinve like last year she has been blowing me off for this other girll I'll call ash well whenever I ask like what shes doing shell be like oh Im staying after and Ill be like ohh cool for anything fun and she'll be like no not really but than later it comes out that she was with ash and I just bugs me that she wouldnt tell me where she was going..is it just me and what can I do so it doesnt bug me as much..Thanks
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find a new friend . you have known her since 4th grade and her intrests may have changed so you grew appart . find a new friend , start out new and why would you want to be with someone who keeps blowing you off .
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Q: ok i need some help NOW! 5s 5s 5s! OK NO LISTEN! im really lazy and i blame myself for that. but now down to bisness! what do i do when i have an F in math class and my teacher is going to call any minute to tell your parents! and you told your parents that you already turned in all of your late work! so what should i do! fast! please!
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do your late work , go before school if they have tutoring or after . tell your parents . its better they know and get you a tutor that for you to fail and hurt yourself . the worse that canhappen is they yell and grown you which will be a good thing so you can get work done.
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Q: ok, a wile ago i asked a question about headache's and tried the advice that people gave me but it didint work, and now im like getting headaches more often, can this be somthing serious?
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well if your in school or have a stressful job stress can cause headaches and you have to figure out how to get rid of the stress . if you don't then i sugest you see a doctor because it could be a tumor or some thing serious
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Q: okay well my friend is kindof a eater i mean when were at lunch she eats alot plus everyone elses food i dont want to tell her she should stop eating cause shes fat but like how do i tell her cause shes my friend and i dont want her to regret it when she gets older for being a lil big and ya know i dont want to hurt her feelings
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i really dont suggest you do that , your friend may have some other problems like with metabolism or maybe medication that make her hungry , just be her friend , i understand you care about her so instead of saying you eat too much which will CRUSH her go jog together on weekends or do something active like swim or play tennis and then she can burn the calories and be some what healthy .
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Q: plain and simple.. I'm obese, and i feel like dieing. what should i do?
Don't give something as easy as DIET or whatever. Maybe something you or someone you know has done to lose wright? i'm 70 lbs over weight and i hate myself for it...
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running everyday , like for a week do an 8th of a mile and build your self up , lift weights , dont use the southbeach or atkin diets because there bad for you . cutting out things like carbs and bread is no good for you . for your system to work you have to have variety or when you go back to regular eating your body 's metabolism wont work as fast . get your thyroid checked . the best diet is to under stand what a portion is and learn to count calories . for you to lose weight you could eat about 1,100 calories a day and less will make you VERY sick and you WILL end up in a hospital . stop soda ! stoping soda will make you feel better and water is much better . learn your body fat percent not your weight . if you are male 14-20 % if your a girl 20-25% . every 2 weeks fast for a day to give the metabolism a rest, it works ! if you have a craving for something sweet dont go low fat or no sugar added because no sugar added means they added more fat to make it taste good and vise versa . have pudding , eat 1/2 a piece of cake instead of a whole one and add strawberrys or blueberrys on the side . dont deprive your self because its OK to save sweets sparingly .remeber the diet doesnt really end because if you go back to your old habits you'll just gain the weight back . You may want to see a therypist because many people who are over weight are stressed or have something bothering them that to get rid of the feeling and to make them selves feel better they eat . Hope I helped .
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Q: i have really thick hair, and i can never put it down, its always in a ponytail or braids, and i never really have the time to straigten my hair , and im sporty anways, so i dont straighten my hair unless i go to a salon. and i dont wear make up either. any tips for different hairstyles for thick hair? or if you have thick hair too, any suggestions? thank you!
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go to a hair cutter as ask them to thin it out , they take a special razor and it thins it out.
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Q: i have 3 colors for my room picked out
Purple
Blue
Lime green
what are some cute ways to paint my walls..i have 4 walls in my room. thanks
14/girl
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make your room purple with limegreen dos or a pink room with lime green dots .
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Q: My sister is coming to visit me from out of town. She has 2 kids ages 1 and 3. I don't have kids of my own and am a single guy, which means I know nothing about having little kids around the house. Can someone maybe give me some tips on what I might need to do to childproof my house before they get here? I don't want my nephews getting hurt!
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put away all glass , move sharp corners away like from a table , keep medicine high up , put away any little things that a child can swallow , set up an area for them , dont have heavy objects on the floor that a child can pull on and fall on them , pick long wires up or phone cords a child can get tangled and they can get it stuck around their neck choking them , same with the string for the blinds they can get their neck around it and choke and die ,no plastic bags around if they put it over their head they can sufficate , put the plastic things over the outlites , table clothes should be eliminated because they can pull on them and all the things on the table will fall on them , gate any room you dont want them in , make sure knives , staples , any thing shap is away and thats pretty much it .
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Q: Do you think its okay to teach your child to hit someone back if they hit him first?
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yes ,self defence , when kids are little and they get hit and dont hit back when they grow up their ego and self esteem is low and they let everyone walk all over them , they also act out because they are upset ... when the child does get older teach them its better to use words but if they are really getting hurt to fight back .
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Q: I am babysitting for this wild kid on Friday evening. He is a good boy age 7. BUT, he is everywhere at once! Any ideas on what kind of calming things I can do to entertain him so he isn't running through the house like a little maniac? I can just see him falling into sharp corners and things!
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you need to make a schedule for him so he is organized while you watch him and he isnt everywhere and tell him if you fallow the schedule
he gets something like a toy next time of if he is really wild reading always comes a kid down , with in 15 minutes he will be focused , or you can just have him watch tv .
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Q: Okay, so my mom is screwed up. She thinks I should respect her when she has not earned it. She makes me doubt that commandment, because I'm beginning to see that not everyone that births a child is fit to raise them.
She makes six-digits/year, so I'm not looking for DFACS to take me away from her exactly, but does anyone know of some free counseling/therapy I could have her attend, and how to get her to attend? I'm going to ask my school guidance counselor about it tomorrow.
Any other ideas about how I could change her course of thinking (she moved from New England to Georgia--where I am now--and the culture is very different. She has continued to fail to see that.) would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks, guys.
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it sounds like your more mad at moving than you are about your mom , but if it really is just your mom and not her desicion to move than you can ask your school counsiler for a list of free family counsliers and they will inform your mother she must go and set everything up.
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Q: Hey. I'm so close...so close to killing myself. Everyday I have to FIGHT not to, its the hardest thing i've ever done. My mom knows... im seeing 3 colnsulars.. but nothing helps. Nothing at all makes me want to live anymore. It hurts to talk, it hurts to smile... I've stopped doing everything i used to love. Nothing can make me happy. I don't want to hurt my friends though, their the only ones keeping me from..ehh. If you cant help me, please do..
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you have to figure out what made you this way and how to correct it ... the counsliers cant help unless you figure that out ... you couldnt always have been like this ... figure it out
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Q: Well, things at home are not good for me. They haven't been for years, no I don't get abused or anything but I'm just not happy living here. I hate my living enviroment, and I really want to move out. I talked to my two best friends about it and they're really not happy with their familes either so we want to work as much as we can all of this school year and then next summer move in together (we have all of money problems figured out). Two of us would be 16 and one 17. My question is, what is the law for teenagers living together by themselves? We live in NJ and someone told me that you just need an adult to sign for you. Is that true? Anything is appreacited! Thanks.
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yes thats true , your parents need to sign and give a down payment or security . the landlord may do inspections and if they dont like the state of the apartment they call your parents .
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Q: how is someone sexually abused? i mean i dont understand.how do people abuse someone sexually? what do they do? my friend told me about someone that was and i was just wondering!
* I RATE *
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when you get unwanted sexual attention like someone commenting or someone touching you , rape
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Q:
ok this is werid ... i was watching meet the fockers ... an like gregs mom sayed to his sooned to be wife that her boobs our bigger an she can smell that shes pregnet?? can you really smell somthing if your pregnet..
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no , what she means is she is very alert and awar of everything ... thats what happens with your hormones and being pregnant
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Q: how much does a used bmw convertable cost
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Q: I'm turning 16 and I am getting a car for my birthday. My dad wants me to get a new car, but I'm not so sure because I've heard that a new car loses a certain amount of value right as you drive it off the lot. I want a Jetta, and so what would be better: a new one, or one that is 1 or 2 years old?
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it doesnt matter , the fact is as soon as you drive a car it losses value . its no longer new . you should just do what you want ... the olders cars will have lost more value though than the new car because its going to have old parts , mileage , and its just easier to sell a more recent car. i think you should get a new one .
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Q: Okay, for the past..6 years my sister and I have been trying to get a dog. But all my mom says is no. I don't think my dad would mind just as long as it didnt shed. She Court [[my sister]] and I have found numerous types of dogs that are SO cute AND don't shed. All my mom says is I'll consider it. It's on all of our Christmas/Birthday lists but nothing happens. We want a dog sooo bad. Please help! And by the way, I've tried to say I'll take care of it..that didnt work either =( I RATE HIGH
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start out small , like ask for a fish . be responcible , feed it , clean the take , all that stuff for a while so your mom can see your responcible ... after a month (if the fish is still alive) ask for a dog .
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Q: What is the song called that goes like this...
How the hell'd we wind up like this? Why werent we able, to see the signs that we missed, to try to turn the table?
??? ill rate 5s
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Member Since: September 21, 2004 Answers: 317 Last Update: January 14, 2007 Visitors: 19539
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