Hello. My name is Bobby, I`m 32 and from London. I no longer want to live. I am not in an irrational state of mind and niether do I suffer from a debilitating mental illness. I obviously have issues but I have a fire in my heart and I strongly believe death is the only solution for me in order to exorcise this pain. Yes I am sad and lonely and have no friends and have debts and have little money and no prospects but I do not want anything anymore. Death has become a beautiful dream for me and all I want from the almighty is death. If people in physical pain are sometimes allowed to die (euthanasia) then why can someone in extreme emotional pain not be allowed to do the same. My pain is too great and too deep to be simply diagnosed and treated via therapy or drugs or a combination of the 2. My pain has paralysed me emotionally and has left me a pathetic and useless wreck. I must have the same rights to die as someone in physical pain. I don`t want attention and niether do I want to be celebrated (I`m a nobody after all) so this is not a plea for help or some pathetic attention seeking rant. I genuinely want to die. If society can accept the self-death of someone in physical pain then why can it not accept the death of someone in emotional pain. Who`s to say my pain is not equal or greater than that someone?
Death may seem like the only solution, but 32 is too young to give up. Revisit your old goals and dreams, and talk to a doctor or phsyciatrist about your worries and feelings. You may think that talking to a professional about feelings means you are crazy, but even people who love life still enjoy talking to someone who wont judge. Try not to think of yourself the way you do now. think about any time you have helped someone, even by just sharing your umbrella on a rainy day. at least you know that one person apreciates you. The only reason society doesnt accept of understand suicide is because between life and death they would choose life, but in physical pain the person has no choice. try to visit family or call an old friend. if you have any other questions feel free to ask me.
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Ok, every month after my periods i have a head ache which lasts for 3 days. It is followed by slight fever. Any ideas why this happens?
I always get headaches during my period, but never for that long. I would talk to my doctor if I were you about the headaches, as he or she may perscribe you a migrane medication. This may be a severe case of pms or severe fatigue, as your period can definately wear you out. try to eat well and have lots of protien and iron during your period. hope i helped
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hi everyone, i mean evryone from the age of 13 to 80, I AM REALLY REALLY DEPRESSED!! PLEASE HELP ME!
MY STORY: well in childhood i had a mild problem in urinating which was latter corrected, now at the age of 25 my penis though well developed still is small in length!!!!!! yes to add to it recently my doc said that I CANNOT FATHER A CHILD!!!!!! since i dont have enough sperms!!!! However he did say that the size though small was adequate for me to satisfy. I AM SHATTERED FRIENDS AND I M REALLY DEPRESSED!!! I M TRULY IN LOVE WITH A GIRL AND WE HAVE BEEN GOING AROUND FROM PAST 10 Years and i will definately tel her every thing!!!! but idont know WHY ME WHY??????? I HAVE STOPPED CONCENTRATING ON MY WORK, MY PERSONAL LIFE IS AFFECTED, you know how being able to father a child is treated as masculine in our world!! i dont know what to do. HOWEVER I AM SURE THAT I CAN KEEP MY GIRL HAPPY AND SATISFIED AND WE DID GET PHYSICAL SOME TIME AROUND AND WE HAVE GOOD CHEMISTRY BUT SOMEHOW I DONT KNOw HOW SHE WILL TAKE THIS NEWS??!!!! OH GOD PLEASE HELP!! AND YOU FRIENDS PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO BECAUSE I AM REALLY DOWN.......PLEASE EVERYONE ADVICE.
You clearly need to take a look at your life. Write down the things you love about your life for each things you hate about it. focus on the positive thing and even google being happy. exercise can also keep you happier. also, you may want to find a phsycologist to talk to. dont think that means you are crazy, it really does help having someone just listen, and they always know what to say. as for parenting, everyone is nervous about that. try reading one of those parenting magazines and even talking to your doctor about child care such as safety procautions and such. hope i helped
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Hey, im 16f. I was wondering if anyone knows of an online dating site that is monitered and safe for teens where I could possibly meet someone and feel safe knowing im not talking to some fake across the internet. You know? Please tell me if you know of any ;)
with the internet you can never tell. i would avoid online dating if i were you. however, dating online with friends of friends is okay, like on facebook. sorry, thats all i have. hope i helped
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How do you tell your friend that her boyfriend is just using her? And how can you tell her, when her boyfriend is your brother?
talk to your brother. tell him what you think he is doing and why you think it is wrong. if he doesnt stop, make sure you are correct about him using her and just tell her. she might be mad at first, but when the truth comes out she will probably apologize for being angry and thank you.
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i love this boy so much and we broke up over the summer and i still love him but he like me but as a friend but i think about him everyday and sometime he tell me tht he miss me all the time me and him is atill single from this day but he don't stay with one girl but i miss him i just whish we could get back 2othger
ask him "do you still love me?" or if he wants to be together. dont be afraid of what he might think, just be blunt. if he doesnt, move on. there are other fish in the sea and you will fall in love again. if he is the first person you loved, you probably are having a hard time letting him go. spend time with friends and family and distance yourself until you are over him.
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ok so i need some kissing tips some really good ones
-if its your first kiss, go for the bottom lip for a girl, top for the boy, give a light squeeze and pull away
-when you are pullng your tounges back into your mouth, twirl the tip of your tounge around the tip of theirs
-chew orbit or trident fruity gum, liked more than mint
-wear a basic minty lip gloss, not too much-to avoid dry lips or residue from lip gloss
-try wikihow.com for tips
-close your eyes just before your lips meet, not too early though
-google kissing tips for more
hope i helped
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I want to purchase a iPod Touch 16GB for a reasonable cost and that is cheaper than buying a brand new one from Apple or Walmart.
When people say "Brand new" or "Not Open" I'm curious...why do they have a brand new ipod? Are they fake or what?
Also kind of key hints that help me buy a good iPod and avoid the bad products?
a brand new ipod was maybe stolen, or doesnt work with their computer, but it usually is a lie. dont buy if it is rediculously low-priced and make sure there is a picture that looks like it was taken by them, not downloaded from the website. ebay can go either way, so you have to be cautious. if you can, read the seller reviews on the person.
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I'm really bad at presenting and I don't think I'll overcome it before I graduate high school.
My face goes red, I can feel my face burning, which makes my throat suddenly go dry and raspy and so I have to talk more quietly so keep whatever smoothness and moisture in my voice/mouth I have left. When I try to talk louder (counts for marks), it just sounds really bad so my face gets redder from embarrassment. Then the longer I’m up there and feel my face getting hotter, my eyes start to water and then OH it’s so embarrassing!
Plus, multi-tasking: breathing while talking, while focusing to not focus on the eyes starring at you, focusing to remember to make eye contact, thinking if you're doing good at the moment, trying to make sure the words don't go all blurry on me, trying to prevent my face from going any redder. And don’t forget the looks of pity on everyone’s face for you when you’re done presenting.
Well we have a slide show presentation and my teacher is so nice; she said that if anyone has any issues with presenting, speak to her. She’s the nicest teacher ever. And I think that I should finally take the chances that are given to me and present. She told us about how she hated presenting and when she explained it, it sounded exactly like me. I mean, how good can I do if I try to present in front of a good teacher that gives me a choice instead of a mean teacher that tells you to suck it up and get it over with? Probably better.
I will present to the class even if I mess up miserably and make a fool out of myself and burst out crying.
Sorry for hearing this rent but please, just anything, tips, motivate lines, comments, would help. Thank you.
write one paper long in advance. then start by reading it in front of just your mom or dad, then your whole family. add in your best friend, a few other friends, and some kids you dont know well in small groups. dont add people until you feel comfortable in front of the people you are presenting to. practice makes perfect, even in public speaking. also, when you get up there just tell yourself most people wont notice your mistakes or remember them and, in class, over half the kids arent paying attention at all. most of all, be proud of your work. one kid in my english class always froze up until he wrote a killer paper, which he read better than any other kid in the class read theirs. hope i helped
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I am dating my ex bf and things are going okay! But I have a problem with liking someone else while dating. Me n my bf have dated before but I decided we needed to learn more about each other before dating again. So we did. Now we are dating again and I really wanna keep this going! But there is one prob! I really like this guy names Austin. Me n Austin talk almost ALL the time. And recently I told him how I felt about liking him. He told me that he didn't wanna date me 'cause he didn't wanna hurt me 'cause he was only looking for sex and not a relationship. But that didn't really help me for not liking him! Considering that he is so cute! And the fact that he was honest really made me like him more! I don't wanna break up with my bf and I don't wanna date Austin if he is just gonna wanna have sex with me. And I REALLY am not the type for cheating! I am SOOO confused. What should I do?
you have to chose one. cheating is never a good solution, and you might end up losing both people. austin seems like a good friend, but not much more if hes only interested in sex. however, dont lie to your boyfriend or yourself. if you have feelings for someone else, take a break so if you happen to get into something with austin it isnt a problem. time will tell which is the right choice for you. hope i helped
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I'm having issues with someone who I really like and admire. This would be silly cuz it's someone from a tv show I like and this person just joined a social networking site not too long ago and this person might not be who they say they are and all with the way this person is acting and all as people like to pose as someone they are not such as celebs, etc, but who knows. A friend and I are handling the issue in an email(Have not sent the email yet trying to figure out what else to say before sending it so far, good but dont know what else to say) and letter we just sent out, but would love some help/advice. Here we go. Okay. When I go to comment this person's pictures, wall comments, notes/blogs,etc they get deleted. No one else's gets deleted except for mine. For some reason I don't know why. None of my comments are mean or rude or anything. I know it's their profile and all, but it does hurt my feelings and it brings me to tears and if the person doesnt want comments, say so, right? This person does not say weather they want comments or not. I love giving comments but I havent since this has been happening and it's almost been a month since this happened. Also this person has ignored me on some things. I asked them a few questions. I got flat out ignored. Also they wanted to give advice about an issue ad I asked in a message if he was still interested. Nope, I got ignored. I don't know what I did wrong which I feel I did nothing wrong. None of my messages or comments were bad. They were pretty nice and all. Also this person has this trivia game going on and I want to play. I love playing those games, but Im afraid this person will delete my answers and all like they are doing with my comments. I dont get it. Why am I the only one that has my comments deleted and no one else has? Tis really hurts and all. I dont leave much for comments and all by the way. The email/message so far is what I stated so far. Is there anything I could add before it gets send out and would another letter go out incase the email is ignored, etc(cuz not everything from the other letter was covered) Any advice on what do and say and all would be great. thanks. :)
instead of accusing the person, just say you noticed theyve been deleting things and ask simply why. dont put in too much detail or it might look stalkerish or desperate or annoying. they must have a reason, just ask why. dont be intimidated because they are famous, that doesnt give them the right to be rude.
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Okay, so i am 15 and in high school. I really like this one guy that i don't have any classes with but i know very well. I know i like him because when he talks to me, i blush and can barely speak in front of him because i am so nervous. So my question is... Can a girl like me ask a guy like him out?
if you know him well enough, i think you can. first though maybe you should hang out in a group so you are more comfortable outside of school before starting a relationship. however, if he has a girlfriend, or has his eye on someone else, i wouldnt waste my time until he is available. hope i helped
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So i like this boy and he knows i like him. And i have this class with him and i wanna talk to him but im so shy to and nervouse and plus we dont sit close togther in class like he sits in the back in i sit up way in the front. So how can i talk to him and half the class doin class we stay in out sits cause of the teacher does really is talk through the rest of the day. What can i say to him.
well in class it doesnt seem like you have much opportunity, except for in a group project. when you do get a chance to talk to him, say something like 'this class is such a drag, id rather be home -add activity here-' maybe you will have something in common. or find out what he likes, such as football, and ask him how football is going or something like that. other than that, you just need to wait and the right thing to say will come to you. calm your nerves when you speak to him and if you say something dumb just move on.
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Ok does anyone know how I can start in modeling or get noticed by someone? i love to model, i'm told i'm very good at it, I wanna do it so bad!! but how do i start, or get someone to notice me??
find an agent. finding an agent doesnt have to be hard, you can google agents online. agents find you go-sees, or interveiws. trying to find go-sees yourself is very difficult. i find it easier to get a good agent if you invest in some professional shots, even just one, so they know you are into it and so they can see how much potentail you have. hope i helped
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hi ya'll!
Im thinking of getting a ipod touch.And well im just wondering When you want to tranfer the music onto the ipod will the music have to be from itunes store or could i transfer music from like limewire or something like that? (i transfer songs from limewire to my itunes library though so the songs are stored in itunes)
thanks in advance!
anything in your library can be transfered to the touch, unless it doesnt work with the ipod you have now
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So this week is spirit week @ my school, & tomorrow is green & white day. What is something I could wear and look cute @ the same time? Like I seriously have nothing in mind that I could wear, I just really need some advice on this.
Anything is greattt ! (:
we had this at our school too, with red and white. some people wore red shorts over white leggins, or vice versa. a white skirt over green tights would work too. high socks with the school colors were popular at my school. al a lot of people layered red tank tops over white shirts and wore the beaded necklaces you get at parties. you can also find colorful wash out dye at party stores. hope i helped
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16/f
I'm 145lbs and a size 7 and i'd like to fit into atleast a size 5. Also, how can i get rid of tummy fat as well as excess fat on my thighs and arms? I want to lose weight but i don't even know where to start. How long should i exercise each day and how much should my weight loss goal be? I don't live near a gym & can't do any other activities because i'm also caught up ons schoolwork. Thanks!
since you live nowhere near a gym, it is going to be hard for you to lose weight. however, find a gym that has something like you pay for 3 days and then get a plan that someones helps create just for you. if you cant afford this or cant find a gym, try setting your own plan and stick to it. borrow or buy some small weights, a mat, and an exercise ball. try websites like realage.com for nutrition tips and exercise tips, and even try a video. go to amazon.com to find the highest rated video. also, try to go through your refrigerator and throw out or label all the things bad for you. start to eat one a day, then only on weekends and at parties. try finding healthy food you like, not shoving down tastless salads and gross diet foods. google some exercises. and every time you need motivation just imagine how good you will look. also, dont push yourself. that is unhealthy, even though shows like the biggest loser make it look easy and healthy to lose tons of weight. set small goals and weigh yourself once a month, or two weeks.
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Alright, so me and this guy have been best friends for years. Two years ago we tried dating. It was good but we split after 4 months because we were recently 16 and didnt have the means to get together other than school and extra-curricular-activities because we lived 30 minutes apart. In the sense that we still liked eachother but why make ourselves upset over something stupid. So we went back to being friends. A few months ago the feelings I had been repressing for 2 years started to come back, and very strong I might add, because we had started talking alot more like we used to. I decided to tell him and he said he still felt the same as well. The thing is, I have left for university and he is still in his victory lap (grade 12 a second time) meaning that we now live 5 hours away from eachother. He still thinks that the distance will screw us over again but I think that we could make his work. I tried telling him that this could be an advantage for us because of our distance. In the sense that we both have alot of stuff to do and most couples break up because they have too much stuff on their plate between school and jobs and they ditch the gf or bf, and this way we could balance it off to my once a month trip back home and his here. On the other hand I'm not quite sure he completely understands how I feel about us; he makes it seem like he thinks that I'm just saying all ths because I want a boyfriend. The thing is, I don't want a boyfriend, I want him, and only him. I am too afraid to use the L word because it might freak him out a bit if he does think that. Also, he mentioned that "I couldn't like him because we never really did anything" meaning couple like, alone stuff, because we really only hung out at school and such. I don't understand how not having done anything like that together implies that I can't like him that way. So at this point we're in the stage of figuring out if this long distance thing could work. I think it does but I need to let him see that. That is where I need your help and opinion, as well as a different perspective of the situation.
i really dont think long distance relationships ever work because 1. it is so easy to cheat and 2. you get lonely and distant. maybe wait until your both out of college, or at least you are, and see where you end up. college is going to crazy, and you dont want a far-away boyfriend to keep you from meeting new people.
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I'm 14, and I really like this one guy a lot, but he's going out with my best friend's best friend. It's sort of depressing. Going into school each day and seeing him there, but knowing I can't even talk to him, or else I'll start flirting, and that WOULD not be good. I don't know what to do!
first, make your decision. would you rather lose your friend, or not have the guy. if you flirt with him you willl get people mad, and chances are he wont be interested in that sort of thing. i would say wait until he is out of a relationship, then make your move. maybe just hang out with him in a group. also, you could find someone you like even more why you wait, so why not wait?
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Okay, my bff is trying to hook me up with her cousin who supposedly (fell in love with me at first sight at a football game.) I told her i wasn't interested but she is very persistent. she even gave him my phone# (but i don't really know the guy and we even don't go to the same school.) Anyways, he's been texting me every single day for the past week, but then he just stopped (and i was actually opening up and was going to give it a chance.) What does it mean when he stopped texting me? So can someone tell me what this means and what i should probably do from here? please!
Maybe he thought the texting was going nowhere, or felt you were getting annoyed with his persistance. maybe your friend told him to lay off. maybe he found someone new even. try starting the conversation to show you are interested in him, or at least not scared of him. if he responds, then you know you just needed to show you werent getting agrivated.
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