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I'm in love with a guy who'd going out with someone else!
I'm 14, and I really like this one guy a lot, but he's going out with my best friend's best friend. It's sort of depressing. Going into school each day and seeing him there, but knowing I can't even talk to him, or else I'll start flirting, and that WOULD not be good. I don't know what to do!
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first, make your decision. would you rather lose your friend, or not have the guy. if you flirt with him you willl get people mad, and chances are he wont be interested in that sort of thing. i would say wait until he is out of a relationship, then make your move. maybe just hang out with him in a group. also, you could find someone you like even more why you wait, so why not wait?
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When i was your age i felt the same way about this one guy who was actually dating my best friend. all in all, relationships at that age and even at mine (16) dont always last long. People will date then all of a sudden, they'll break up.
Eventually they'll get sick of each other (sorry but it happens quite often) and in the meantime, try to focus on someone else, even though it's hard!
DONT get depressed. It's really not worth it because he will be single one day, and that's when you can make your move!
good luck, and dont worry!
oh and get over it. you're 14 you wont be with him forever even if you two do date.
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