Question Posted Thursday January 15 2009, 11:05 pm
I am dating my ex bf and things are going okay! But I have a problem with liking someone else while dating. Me n my bf have dated before but I decided we needed to learn more about each other before dating again. So we did. Now we are dating again and I really wanna keep this going! But there is one prob! I really like this guy names Austin. Me n Austin talk almost ALL the time. And recently I told him how I felt about liking him. He told me that he didn't wanna date me 'cause he didn't wanna hurt me 'cause he was only looking for sex and not a relationship. But that didn't really help me for not liking him! Considering that he is so cute! And the fact that he was honest really made me like him more! I don't wanna break up with my bf and I don't wanna date Austin if he is just gonna wanna have sex with me. And I REALLY am not the type for cheating! I am SOOO confused. What should I do?
scrwdlsr666 answered Friday January 16 2009, 9:40 am: you have to chose one. cheating is never a good solution, and you might end up losing both people. austin seems like a good friend, but not much more if hes only interested in sex. however, dont lie to your boyfriend or yourself. if you have feelings for someone else, take a break so if you happen to get into something with austin it isnt a problem. time will tell which is the right choice for you. hope i helped<3 [ scrwdlsr666's advice column | Ask scrwdlsr666 A Question ]
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