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Ive had the same boyfriend for about a year and 6 months and lately there hasnt been much time for us to spend together. He left for a week to go to some soccer camp, then he went to an afternoon camp that ran for a week from 4:30 till 8. And now hes started varsity soccer which is gonna cut into the time we spend together. He practices 4 hours a day and his mom invites his friends over all the time which leaves me with about a day a week to see him. I dont think this is fair. And for a week i was sick with mono which he gave to me...and he didnt bother to call or send me flowers like my other friends did. I dont know what to do with him any more...any suggestions?
Tell him than you guys never spend anytime together anymore and it isent fair.. that you are feeling left out..
Soccer is really important 2 him dont let him give that up..
after u tell him. and he just shurrgs hes shoulders.. dumb him!!!!!!! you could do better
I went to visit my aunt and met this guy and i guess he says he lieks me and when we were in the car he asked when i was going to be his gf and i said i didnt no well i havent seen him for awhile and i call him and talk to him on the phone and i really really like him what should i do becuz i really want to go with him
Long distance relationships dont work..
school is starting.. why dont you have some fun with that?
I'm 'sort of' a shy person. Especially when it comes to the guy I like. : p
I don't even know if you can call it shy..I just get nervous around him and just mummble. Whaaaaaaaat can I do? I never have the confidence to tell him anything, and I never know what to talk about. Help? : ]
I know how you feel.. everytime i am around the guy i like i make a total fool of myself... i make myself look even stupider than i already am... have some of your friends be by you when you are around that certain someone you like.. than maybe you wont feel so shy.. and after u built up some self estem about talking 2 him without mumblein u wont have 2 have your friends by u anymore...
I'm a student that needs the time to figure school work out... and take my time on stuff... but between HorseBack Ridin, School Work, My Babysitting Jobs, and an Athletic Trainer after school.. well I just don't know how to balance it.. any advice?
" Ask Lia "
Just cut back on less on stuff..
like horseback ridin.. how about you do a little less on that so u can have more time to study... and the Athletic Trainer instead of everyday after school.. how about u try 2 change the times to like 3-4 times a week?
Take your homework to your babysitting jobs for extra time.. when you put down the kids for nap time or bed or something put in some extra study time.. or when u know they are save and fine by them selfs put in 1/2 hr or something..
or get a personl planner
heyyy every time i straigten my hair in the morning it takes like an hour and its like sooo perfectly straight every morning...but then at school its humid andd it gets all curly and looks bad. do you know why it does this? is it cuz my hair kind of has a natural wave to it or cuz my straigtener is not good enough?? if you know anything thatll help this or why this is happeninng lemme know thanks
but a chii... starighting it... than gel will help keep your hair flat and staright
my mom has weak gums and my dentist says that im likely to inherit the "weak gums disease" thingy too. since im still young(only 14) im trying to strengthen up my gums, any food besides milk that i should try to eat to strengthen my gums? please help thanx!
If u rinse your mouth your with peroxide like 2-3 times a week that should strengthin them..
but if its genetic.. u never know nothin might not help... but if u r lucky that gene skiped u in the gene pool
okay..i want to get a puppy but ive never had any animal before except a fish and i hated it so i let it die, anyways i have no idea how to take care of a puppy cuz i wanna get it when its little but i dont want it going to the bathroom all in the house but what do i do in the winter? but the real ? here is what type of dog should i get, i want a really cute one, i did want a little weiner dog but i dont know, i know that i want a really little dog but chiwawas are mean and yappers so what should i get? and also what would be some really cute names with that dog? i would get a girl one of whatever help! (and dont tell me ugly dogs and no poodles)
A TOY POODLE!!!!!!! THEY ARE CUTE!!
if its a girl what about Cheza?? or a boy.. well i dont know 4 a boy watch some t.v. and c what names u like best for guys or w/e!
well you know how when your young alot of pplz have an imaginary friend right well I have one and I'm 14 it keeps telling me what to do to myself and I feel crazy right now it made me take a perk...and I don't know where he is but I'm scared I don't know what to do and I don't want to go see my scary doctor....any suggestions??
hun... that aint no friends...
sorry but your going like nuts u have some freaky chemical embalences in your head... instead of going 2 a doctor go 2 a counsiler.. they help better..
i used to cut for 2 years but my ex bf told after i went through a lot and he told so now im getting help...well the other day my friend came over and we were talking about cutting but i stopped so she said "well getting high takes it away like cutting does" so i got high, my friends would kill me if they found out...and theyd probably tell and i dont want that to happen...theyd probably all hate me too and i dont want that to happen cauze i love them all sooo much! but the only person who knows is that girl...help me please, what do i do?
I CUT 2! thats how i release alot of pain..
but i dont do it so deep it leaves scares.. only for it 2 bleed..
and if your friends get mad or start 2 hate u.. they aint good friends and find new ones!
THERE IS NOTHIN WRONG WITH GETTING STONED ONCE INAWHILE!
hey..i am g0in thr0 al0t latley..me and my bf have been fighting n0n st0p..and its scaring me..but ne ways..im almost 16..and i weigh 115..i HATE triple numbers..i want the perfect b0dy..my b0yfriend says im beautifull all the time..but thats kinda what b0yfriends r supp0sed t0 d0..i want to get down to 99..i was belimic way back in the day..but i was 0n the f0ne with my friend and i t0ld her i want t0 bec0me an0rexic..she flipped 0ut and hung up..so0oo i was like fine i w0nt d0 that..and last nite i made myself thr0w up t0 see what its like..i kinda s0rta liked it =\..well my bf said if i ever d0 ne thing "physc0" it w0uld be 0ver f0r g00d..and i was w0nderin w0uld he n0tice if i g0t t0 99..and if ne 0ne else w0uld n0tice..well i neEd helP! =(..MaNdiE x0
ya he would notice...
if someone can notice u loose 5 lbs.. they will be surely 2 notice u lost 16 lbs...
u should do that 2 yourself.. throwing up tears apart your assofagis... and becoming anerxic and good.. u can become sick and die!
and if u become anerxic and decided u dont want 2 anymore and start eatting regularly u will gian ALOT of weight
U DONT WANNA BE LIKE THE MARY-KATE AND ASHLEY OLSON DO U! if u want 2 loose weight only loose like 5 lbs.. than u would be in 0 or 00 pants.. THATS PERFECT!
Ever since i could remember i'v always had low self esteem. I feel weird when i'm around guys like im the uglyist person there so i always shut up and keep quiet unless someone says something to me but i make it breif. I'v made a little progress with the talking in groups of people this year but i still don't like myself. I feel that i hate everything about me,but im not suicidal. What could i do to make myself possibly like me more?
Well if u think u r ugly WHICH I HIGHLY DOUBT IT.. bring a friend along which u think is ugleyer than u.. make u look better.. ( tehe )
just speak your mind.. used 2 be like u..
Than i was just like one day " I am gonna speak my mind.. and say w/e and not be shy and let ppl push me around.. and if i say something stupid it will pass.. my school mates are dumbasses and wont remember it anyway ) just try it! dont be shy no reason 2..
GO SHOPPING! THAT ALWAYS MAKES ME FEEL BETTER!..
i thought i was always so ugly! i drop a few lbs.. started wearing make up.. and got cute cloths.. now i think i am like really pretty!..
JUST TRY IT! c'mon!
Hey Hey You guyZ- well i have a really high metabolism- and after every meal i eat even if its a big meal i feel hungry again- i eat alot even all my friends say i do- im 5"5 and weight 103- any suggestions on gaining weight? or will i gain weight as i get older and my metabolism slows down. Ive tried protein shakes but they didnt work-:/
DON'T EXCERSIZE AS MUCH! stay in side relax... feel the need 2 be a lazyass... bring out the bluebunny icecream and peanut butter!
ive had fast metabolism like since young and im really thin, people just stare at me. they go "are u aneroxeric or something?" and questions like this piss me off, because im not! and i love my body for whatever size i am. im slightly underweight only and im quite a big eater (lol) what should i tell people who ask me questions like these? i dun wanna sound angry or vulgur to them.. please help -Rei
Just say u eat all the time .. and like u have a fast metabolism...
eat around them... like bring like a sack of candy bars 2 school for all by yourself and eat it down the hall way.... show them u arent anerxic!
ok, ive had the samw bf for a year and things are kinda gettin old. We make out alot and i blow him and such...he does return the favor, luckly. But i wanna know how to spice things up..u no so its not so borring...i rate well so plz answer!
You can do like alot of things... wear something really sexy!
do it in a hot tub or pool! or maybe a sauna 2 heat things up...
Don't be scared 2 bring some toys into the bed either..
or like in foreplay gengtly tickle or scratch that seam-line under hes balls for extra pleasure!
or like warm some oil between your hands and give him a full body massage, and lots of inner thiegh rubbing... or rent a after school special!
i have lots more E-mail if u want some more info or anything ( hehe ) hope i helped some
Do women find a guy with a hairy chest attractive? I'm 24, hairy, but not out of control hairy. I'm not overtly self-conscious, but I get the feeling that body hair is considered unattractive. ???
Don't hold back. I want real answers. Hopefully, from real women. Thanks.
well everyperson is different..
some women think chest hair is like sexy..
and if they r like me.. they like bare chest.. damn right
u can wax!!! than will get ride of it for shure!
hi, im learning how to skateboard and basicly i know how to go down a hill while balencing my weight but i dont know how to go up a hill balencing my weight. please help with any suggestions.
when u r going up a hill u r using your foot usally do push yourself to go..
but if u r rich and have one of those electric skateboards... than u should have no worries.. just keep your weight centered...
Okay well this guy saw my picture in my advice column and started saying I was fat and shit and I was ugly...and well I don't know what I did to him...now I just feel like dying I wrote him back a message and I freaked out after him but not that badly I didn't swear to much well not like f*** or shit like that and well I just feel like dying man it's not my fault I'm fat god I got far with my life like I play pro junior basket ball for my height and force and now he calls me fat I feel so bad...I'mm putting myself down and I hate it...I wanna die can ne one help me??
DONT PUT YOURSELF DOWN!!! ppl are so shallow these days! they call me fat and ugly...
everyone is pretty in there own way...
they even call shannon bond ugly and fat and shes not!
dont listen 2 that ashole! he is just probley somedude that got bored on the internet
for the past few months the inside of my right cheek has been really sore. I looked at it in the mirror the other day and there's this ~half inch diameter laceration there. I donno what to do, it hurts and it won't go away. any advice?
try rinsing your mouth out with proxide for a couple weeks..
and like if u smoke and stuff u should stop ad go ge your mouth check out by a doctor(dentist)
i need to get ready of my acne before school... in like a week... anyone know of any quick home remedies besides perioxde and tooth paste?
for home remedies.. u can try rubbing alchoal.. that will dry up all the oil in the acne.. but also yourskin..
the best thing out there i think..
is noxiema oil free acne wash.. its like this yellowish stuff in a bottle.. IT WORKS GOOD try it!NOW I SAID NOW NOW NOW
what does bipolar mean?
I AM BI-POLAR!! WHOA WHOA WHOA! I HAVE BI-POLAR MANIC DEPRESSION! WHOA AINT IT GREAT! well anyone.. if anyone has any questions or commiets about bi-polar dissorder fell free 2 email me and learn more.. zeek666_1@hotmail.com