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I'm looking for a good shaving creme, one that smells really nice and thats gonna make my legs feel soft and silky. Also,looking for a good lotion.Thanks

My favorite is Skintimate shave gel. Raspberry Rain. :) & you can get Skintimate aftershave gel, and it smells GREAT & keep your legs feeling soft & silky for soo long. It's the best!! :)

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okay so i have this friend and she has two other really good friens other than me and it seems like when ever either one of them are around i am pretty much ignored... this is really sarting to make me question stay friends with her because i dont desvere to be treated this way. another example would be in class when i go to sit next to her and she'll say oh can **** sit next to me today? this really tics me off...what do i do?

The only thing you really can do is tell this girl how you're feeling. She won`t know unless you atleast give her hints or something. Maybe when she tells you that someone else was going to sit there, like roll your eyes or something. Eventually she'll catch the hint that you`re getting pissed off. But maybe it`d be just super easy if you told her how you`re feeling & how you think she's mistreating you. :) Or maybe if you give her the cold shoulder for a couple of days she`ll wonder why you`re mad, and she`ll eventually ask you. :) Eventually you'll have to tell her. She probably just doesn't know what she`s doing.

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my mum doesnt want me to go out with this guy who is 18 years old i am 14 years old and we really do love each other he is a good guy and all but my parents are really stricked they wont even give him a chance they found out kind of but i said no and they said if you ever do you will be grounded forever i dont know what to do i love him so much can you please i need advise???

I've sort of been in your situation before. I was like 14, and the guy was 21 & a friend of the family. I talked to him on the internet all the time & he told me he liked me, and I liked him back. I guess you could say we sorta dated, we went to the movies & all that fun stuff.. without my parents knowing & when they found out, they were more mad at me for not telling them in the first place more then me going out with him.

But, they are your parents. And you must respect their decisions. You are only 14, and they're just worrying about you, because you're their daughter. Maybe you could try explaining to them that you really have strong feelings for this guy, and you want them to meet. Invite him over to dinner & stuff and see how things go. Once your parents meet him a couple of times, maybe they'll break the ice and let you date him.

I really don't think you should go behind their backs and like y'know date him and do stuff with him, because don't forget it IS illegal.

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Ok this question is directed to any guys out there...If an older girl (2 years older) asked you to go out to the prom, what would you do? and would it be awkward? thanks, i rate all 5's

I'm not a guy, but I noticed no one answered this, so I will. :)

I don't think there's anything wrong with you asking someone to the prom whether he's 2 years younger or older then you. Age doesn't matter, all that matters is that you're going with somebody that you're going to have a good time with and you'll enjoy taking to your prom. :) I'm sure it will be FAR from awkward.

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i just got back from california and i saw my whole family on my dads side which is alot . including my bro. who i am in love w/ now thats all i think about . i mean he is so cute and perfect. is this normal ???
love

Hmm. That is really not normal, at all. But, hey they're your feelings & you can`t control them. The feelings will probably go away eventually. Just don't tell anybody or try to pursue a relationship with your brother.

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My friend likes someone and I know who it is. I want to tell other people, but I'm afraid to tell other people who they like because they might get mad at me and we might not be friends anymore. So should I tell other people or should I keep it to myself?

You definately should keep it to yourself. Unless, your friend might want you to tell people so everyone knows. But, I highly doubt that. If she wants to tell people about who she likes, she can. But you definately shouldn't.

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I'm turning 14 and for my birthday I'm having a dance. I've been going out with guy for a while now but we don't go to the same school so we haven't had any dances together. What are some good love songs that would be good for a first dance. I need as many as you can give me. This would mean a lot to me. This dance is really important. Thank you so much! I'LL RATE YOU!!!♥

Don't wanna miss a thing by Aerosmith is HIGHLY recommended. Everytime I'm at a dance, I always request it, just because it's the best song ever. I love it. :) ++ Amazed by Lonestar.

But some other good ones are:

Have you ever by Brandy.
Hero by Mariah Carey.
Truly Madly Deeply by Savage Garden.
You've got a way by Shania Twain.
Let's stay together by Al Green.
When you say nothing at all by Allison Krauss.
Yellow/The Scientist/FIXYOU(GREAT) by Coldplay.


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Does anyone know how many times I should go tanning between now & sunday to look like the tan is showing by Tuesday? Experienced tanners please answer !

Hahaha. The person below me is CRAZY.

Spray on never works out, it's like the stupidest idea ever. My friend used it & she got like streaks and spots everywhere! & She was orange, it was disgusting.

I love tanning, :) You should probably go everyday. Like today-saturday you should go for like 10 minutes, and then on Sunday you should go in for like 15 minutes, and then maybe on Monday go in for like 20 minutes? Unless you burn easily, you'll probably just want to stick to the 15 again. :) I had like a week to get tan for my Freshmen dance, and it worked out perfectly. :)

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Do you ever read a question, roll your eyes and think, "Yeah right, somebody so just made that up"?

If so, what do you do about it? Just not answer or answer it seriously anyways just 'cause it might be real?

Definately. I'm sure everybody feels the same way. Personally, I just don't answer them, because if you did end up answering it, they'd probably give you a low rating, just because their stupid. :)

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hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering do online relationships work?

**sleepiesheep**

Personally, to me. I think that they would work.

Like, in a way - it seems sorta pathetic, since you haven't met that person before & y'know all that fun stuff. But, like in a way it's cool because you get to like experience something new.

I've had a few internet relationships in the past, and all of them turned out horribley. But that's what you get. Haha, I'd so be willing to try another one again though. =)

But, sometimes online relationships do work, if yall maybe talk on the phone & you plan to meet up some day.

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i need to know if grils like geting secret antmirers gifts on valin time's day( i'm giving her a cristl heart) and if i should insribe some thing on it, what should i do.


I love secret admirerer gifts. :) They're so fun. I got like four last year in my locker, but turns out they were all from the same person to meet me like at four different places, and it was the same person. It was sweet because I was expecting there to be like four different ones, but there weren't. :) Sorry life story, much?

The crystal heart thing sounds like a great idea, I don't think you should get anything put on it though. Maybe just give her a card telling her that you like her & stuff. You know. :)

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What is the artist and name of the person that sings the song that goes:

"...i want to stand with you on a mountain, i want to bathe with you in the sea..."

and

"...have you ever loved someone so much it made you cry?..."

I think the second one is titled Have you Ever but I don't know who sings it can someone tell me please and thank you.

The first one, is: "Truly Madly Deeply" by Savage Garden. & The second one, is: "Have you ever?" by Brandy. :)

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Ok, i went out with this kid,john, and he was black. MY mother didn't approve of him and there for me and him broke up.

about a month later, he moved =[
I cried for days, but eventually got over it, and can live with out him.

today he came back to ( my town ) to visit or w/e, and we were talking on the computer. on myspace he sent me messages saying hel'll call me, and that he loves me, should I beleive him? and if we meet up like tommorrow should i go for ( it )..

You should definately act like you love him of course. If you love him, then you do you can't stop your feelings towards him. At first, maybe you should just act like friends & see if he acts like he loves you by like hugging or kissing you, and then if he really acts like he loves you, then you should act like you love him back!

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hey how old do you have to be to get your tounge peirced without your parents permission?
**sleepiesheep**

18.

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can anyone tell me who sings this song and what its called

Lets destroy each other.
cause we're too cool for
love lines and soft kisses
over cheap wine, smoke me
baby like your last cigarette
whisper to me, say you'll never forget
could you break my heart a little more?
shove my body up against yours
& Kiss me like you mean it.


thank you =] i'll rate high!

I did some google searching, and I found this website, (it's a poetry site, but it has pretty much all the lyrics on it.)

http://www.bolt.com/profile/journals/index.jsp?memberName=number1brat_16&entryId=2468050

But the whole lyrics are:

Let's destroy eachother, Cause we're too cool for lovelines, soft kisses over cheap wine. Smoke me baby like your last cigarette, whisper to me, say you'll never forget. Could you break my heart a little more? Shove my body up against yours & kiss me like you mean it. Anything worth a taste burns as it goes down. Could you tell me I'm so Audrey Hephburn when my hair falls to the side? And say girl, I'm not here to love you tender, I'm just here for the ride. Let's blind ourselves by love and be deaf to all who say it's fatal. It's not that we don't know, its just that we don't care.

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hey i got a girl a purse and wrote her a poem. Should i put it inside or give it to her before or after i give her the purse

Hey hun.
I think you should put it inside the purse, just because it'll be like sweeter, haha. :)

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My friend likes this guy named Tyler. I was pretty much going out with him in the summer, and I've never gotten over him. My friend thought I was over him (thats what I told her), and so then they started liking each other. Now, Tyler likes me AND her, and I like him back. Should I tell my friend this, or just wait to see what happens?

Personally, I think that you should just wait to see what happens. If you told her that you like him, she may be really mad, y'know? Because, some people are like that. She'll probably be mad that you said you didn't like him, and she'll assume that you liked him the whole time. OR, she might not. If he were to ask you out, and you did say yes, then your friend may confront you about it. You could just easily tell her, that you were confused about your feelings towards Tyler, and you weren't exactly sure if you liked him as just a friend or a boyfriend. But, now you know you do!

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what exactly does corny mean?
my friends say all the time oooh he's so corny, thats so corny.
what is corny???

also can you give examples

thanks

Corny means like, stupid or like just something really pathetic.

Like if I were to crack a really dumb joke that wasn't even funny, you could respond with saying "that was SO corny."

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how much does it cost to get your hair back to its natural color..i don't know how to spell the word...someone please help

Depending on if you get it professionally done, can vary. If you do it by yourself with a dye remover, (which I don't recommend doing) it can cost anywhere from 6-12 dollars. I dyed my hair dark brown (or tried anyways, lol) and it turned out REALLY bad, so I used the dye remover, and it made my hair turn orange/green & bleach blonde every where else. It was REALLY ugly.

If you go to a professional, it can cost anywhere from $50 - $70 dollars. Depending on where abouts you get it done, and how much hair you have.

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Ohkay, my winter dance is coming up soon. I've been trying to lose weight for it. Let's just say at the time of the dance, I'll be 160 pounds and 5'5. Does anyone know any dresses that would look cute on a girl that size? links to specifc sites would be apprectiated.

*THIS IS AN OPINION QUESTION. ALL ANSWERS THAT PEOPLE PUT EVEN SOME DEGREE OF THOUGHT INTO WILL GET 5'S.*

Have you seen the two pieces that there is? I'll try & find you a picture of one. You honestly can't tell that they're two pieces, and I don't know if you're self conscious about your stomach or what not, but this really looks good on any time of girl, but specifically targeted for ones that have a little meat on their bones!
http://www.alfredangelounitedkingdom.com/images/products/0/42552d5e-4802-415f-b1f3-bca919cf3848.normal.jpg
That's what it looks like, but of course you might not want it THAT dressy. You can get dresses like these EVERYWHERE, seriously.

I personally wouldn't go with black, because black is such a bland color, you know what I mean? Like it just seems everyone would wear that color because it's slimming. Although, black is a pretty color & if you can get a really cute one that you like with other colors, then of course that'd be nice too.

I wouldn't wear, like a dark blue, dark green, or something along those lines, because it might like "wash you out." You know??

Plus, showing chest off can really take attention off of other parts of your body, so people will just be drawn to your neck? Maybe you could wear a strapless dress. Personally, I don't like spaghetti strap dresses, But I do like off the shoulder straps.

http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.belk.com/media/images/general/events/bridal_dresses_03/bridal_dress_14_large.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.belk.com/main/bridal_attire_specific.jsp%3FCONTENT%253C%253Ecnt_id%3D2114451%26FOLDER%253C%253Efolder_id%3D2050307&h=432&w=324&sz=29&tbnid=CVIlFshziw0J:&tbnh=123&tbnw=92&hl=en&start=37&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dcolors%2Bapple%26start%3D20%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26lr%3D%26sa%3DN
I hate this dress style, but I think all of the colors would look nice. :) Especially the apple one, on the far left!

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