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Im melissa and im 16 living in Illinois. I'm very good at advice and i will try my best to help you as much as i can! I will give you advice that i think is right and appropriate. I will answer any question of any category.(: Thanks.
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I have this guy I like. I try to talk to him but he seems so uninterested so i figure he don't like so I leave him alone. But then when Im across the room from him he keeps staring at me. Even my friends say so. They think he likes me but that he wants me to chase him around like other girls. But why does he want me chase him? I mean I reach out to him and try to be friendly what else does he want? Does he really like me or does he just want attention? What do I do? (link)
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if i was in your position i would stop chasing him... if he really liked you, he would go after you. you tried and he wasnt helping, so you stop trying!
"sometimes the best way to get someones attention, is to stop giving them your"
good luck, hope i helped.(:
if you have any questions feel free to ask!(:
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theres a guy that asked me out and ive been crushing on him for 2 years. so he asked me out and i said no. now i regret it. how can i fix it?
im female and im 12 years old (link)
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well depending on how long ago it was, you can say something like: iv'e been thinking about your questions lately and if it's not to late i wanna be with you."
or you can say:
ive liked you for a really long time and got freaked out when you asked me and i would like you to give me another chance." or something like that
hope i helped, and i hope everything works out.
if you have any more questions, feel free to ask(:
melissa f/16
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I need a cute nuckname for my bf we r both 14. Hez really shy, he haz a sense of humor, he tries hiz best 2 make me smile, he cares for me, he haz red hair n hez taller thn me. He callz me some nicknamez such az princess, hot stuff, n sexy. I asked if he wanted me 2 giv him a nickname n he sayd kinda. I gav him some but he didn't like thm such az: my prince, cuti, dummpling, Romeo, sweetheart n much more. I ran out of ideaz n I need some help thx :) (link)
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i was in the same situtaion as you awhile ago and i would call him baby, or babe. (usually babe)
and then i would play around with him and say something like..."damn why are you so cute?" or "im so glad to have you" haha something lame like that(:
hope i helped and hope everything goes well
if you have any questions feel free to ask!(:
melissa f/16
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As a young kid, I was always fat. It never really bothered me until I starting going to public school in 5th grade. I wanted to do something about it, but I never ended up doing anything until 7th grade. That year, I was battling depression (I know it seems like a young age but I get upset really easily) and I started to skip breakfast and eventually lunch. I would eat a snack when I would get home and then a large dinner. Despite what health specialists say, I lost most of my stomach fat. A few months later, I stopped all of that. Recently (I just finished 8th grade), I started to feel fat again because I started gaining more weight even though all of my friends assured me that I'm not. I don't consider myself to be vain, but I just don't want to relive the fat years of my early childhood. I don't want to be anorexic again so what should I do??? (link)
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you should not go back into your anorexic days because that is very bad for your body!
its a fact that if you starve yourself, you can gain weight faster when you start eating again!
if you keep starving yourself you can put yourself in major trouble! you can even be brought to the hospital, and im sure you don't want that.
im sure your not even fat! but if you want to lose weight, you should just eat healthy. eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner, but eat healthy. when you want a snack, dont eat chocolate, eat a peach or apple.
hope i helped, and i hope everything goes well.
if you have any questions about anything, feel free to ask.
melissa f/16
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i am 10 and i wanna have sex so badly with a boy ,is it okay?!?!?!? (link)
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a lot of people may think about having sex, but it's not a good thing to have it at such a young age. if i was in your situation, i wouldn't do it and i would wait until im older. Im 16 and i still haven;t had it yet. You should wait for a guy you are really into and a guy you can trust!
hope i helped and if you have any further questions feel free to ask!(:
melissa f/16
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how do you know when your period will srart. (link)
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when you first get it it's a little off. but when you have had your period for awhile, your period will be constant, meaning it will fall on the same day mostly, right around there(:
if you haven;t gotten your period yet, you never know when your going to get it.
hope i helped! if you have any questions about anything feel free to ask!(:
melissa f/16
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Hey everybody, I was wondering- I have had fairly bad face acne since I was about 10. No medication seems to work for more than a week or two. Any suggestions as to what I can do? Thank you answerers (link)
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well i just started using products at the body shop and they seem to be good and i like them! as i said i just started so im not 100% sure on this product, but i like it so far(: i got the idea from a friend and she said it works good and it doesnt make your acne worse before starting to look better.
if you would like to know which products i use (was told to use haha) or want to know my routine feel free to ask.
if you go to the body shop, when i went, this lady helped me pick out products that worked well for my skin.
hope i helped and i hope everything goes well for your skin!(:
feel free to ask me questions about the products, my routine, or any other questions of any category you have!(:
-melissa f/16
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Ok so there's this guy that iv been in love with for over a year, he's 18 and loved me to but had a girlfriend so the things we did didn't technically count as going out. But now I really love this other guy named Ben that is 24 and we'll let's just say he can play in the "special olympics" if u get what I'm saying. But despite that, he's sweet, funny, caring, everything I want. I'm 14 and I'm not sure how to deal with either boy! What the hell do I do?????? (link)
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you may like both of these guys but you guys are to far apart in age... wouldn't you want to find a guy your age and have something in common that both of you guys can do?
it would be weird being 4 or 10 years apart!
there are many other boys!(:
good luck!(:
and i bet you will get even better and the same age guys as youu!(:
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Wat is the best facial cleanser & mask for bad skin wit blemishes & blackheads? My skin isnt really that dry but its not oily either. (link)
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i just started using a toner and face wash from "the bpdy shop" and i like it so far! and i heard your acne doesnt get worse and it works very well.
i also use a light moisturizer.
if you would like to see pictures or want to know my rountine feel free to ask!(:
hope i helped and good luck(:
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Ok so My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months, when we had our first kiss i felt something i never felt before, im guessing that's the spark, So we just kissed like normal (not making out ) then after 2 months of dating we decided to start making out, every since we started making out i dont feel the spark .... Is this normal, I love kissing him and all but i havent kissed him normally for a month now :/ i havent felt the spark for a month, should i tell him or... Can i make there be a spark when we make out ? (link)
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"true love is not about the hugs and kisses, the "i love yous" or the "i miss yous" but about the chills that hit every part of your spine when you think about each other."
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17/f
so i've had this problem for as long as i can remember. i over think EVERYTHING and always make things a bigger deal than they really are, or even make up things and convince myself that they're real- mostly health related. sometimes i'll over think things SO much that ill have like a panic attack and just start freaking out. i'm so sick of freaking out about things and being anxious, i want to enjoy life and get this under control, especially cause ill be going to college in the fall. also if anyone knows of any simple stress relievers that would help too. thank you!! (link)
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well firt of all you have won if you already know what you are doing wrong. if you know you over think things, and all that stuff try to cool things down.
when im stressed out, i heard to blast your favorite music, sit on the floor cross legged and close your eyes and count to 25, or howver much time you need.
tell yourself the truth and believe the truth and make yourself believe the truth, not the lie!
if you already know what you are doing wrong, theres a start!
good luck and i hope everything is fine and gets better!(:
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20/f
Okay so i work at a drugstore, in the front of the store, and we just got a new pharmacy intern a week ago. I swear that he is the most gorgeous guy I have ever seen..he makes me melt when I see him and gives me serious butterflies, kind of like a middle school crush. The issue is that hes very quiet and shy and I have a social anxiety disorder so us ever speaking at all to eachother isnt looking promising. Me approaching him is never going to happen no matter how bad I would like to due to my anxiety. So my questions are, how would I even know if he's interested? especially if he's shy..and how do I get him to notice me? I usually have no problem with guys but he's different, he's very very intimidating.
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if i was in your position i would pretend you don't know what to do or where something goes and ask him, and after he helps say thanks and give him a smile, and keep talking to him each day, and see if he startes talking to you.
maybe ask for your number or say hey after our shift wanna grab a bite to eat? or something.
hope i helped, good luck!(:
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well theres this guy who i used to like, and he didnt like me much back then, now i dont like him and he likes me. How do i let him know i dont like him, without hurting his feelings? any answers would REALLY be appreciated ! (link)
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if i was in your situation i would tell him that you just want to be really good friends with him, because if you guys were to go out, your friendshiip may not stay the same. and then try to hang out with him and stuff as a friend.
maybe say what i said then be like but we are friends,(and smile or something) and then ask him if he wants to hang out that night or something.
hope i helped and good luck!(:
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In the past few years, I started listening to many types of music including hip hop and rap. I found out that I really enjoy listening to Eminem, but my dad is especially close minded about him. I know that he has some bad songs, but I believe that he is still a good person and does have some meaningful songs. How can I get my parents to understand my point of view of Eminem even if I am a Christian? (link)
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i was the same way! i dont really listen to rap, my sister does though. maybe try to talk to your dad and say something like i know you dont like him but i do, can i listen to it if you dont hear, maybe go in your room with the door closed or something.
and if he doesnt like you listenng to it period, then you will have to listen to him because then he will just get more mad,
good luck, try to talk to him and i hope everything goes well, hope i helped(:
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What is Love? I always hear people sayong they love someone or something but what does it all really mean? Why do people like my parents and family say they love me? Is there actually something so ridiculous and naive out there? (link)
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love is when you have feelings for someone and care for them and want to spend the rest of your life with that person ( wheather its a child or hussband or wife ect..) so much that you would take your life away for them!
i know i didnt give much info but i hope i helped!(:
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i had sex with the person my best friend liked and she found out about it a few days later. she is pissed / upset and she keeps ignoring my calls and texts. i work with her sunday morning, so it's gonna be really awkward. what should i do and what should i say to her? :\ (link)
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it was wrong for you do that! tell her how you really feel and tell her why you did it. dont lie to her and make it even worse because she may catch you in the lie.
bestfriends stick together through thick and thin!
she may be mad at you for awhile, and she had every right to, but you guys are bestfriends! always remember that!
tel her how you feel and if she ignores you, let her be and let you have some time to think, if or when she's ready to talk to you she will!
good luck and i hope i helped!(:
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I've had boyfriends and guys who liked me that I liked and there's a guy that I like that likes me too. I'm a 13 year old girl and I really like him. we text a lot and stuff and I wanna kiss him:) ive never made out or kissed anyone before. he has. he barely knew the girl and wished he hadnt kissed her. He said he wished he kissed me, he would of and that he would date me but he knows I don't want a boyfriend. Is there something wrong with me for not wanting to date the boy I like that likes me back? but any tips and or advice on kissing really would help. :) (link)
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no its not wrong if you dont want to date him, if your not ready for it or just dont want to do it, then dont.
and think if you want this boy to be your first kiss... if you really like him then go for it. you may be nervous not knowing what to do at first but he will make the first move and dont be nervous at that point, play it smooth! im sure it's going to be great!
good luck and i hope i helped!(:
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Well ok long story short im married, and both my husband and i are lookin to find another female partner to help us spice up the bedroom, im all for it and he says he is aswell but im just not convinced and am worried that if we go ahead with it a few months or years down the track he is going to turn around and throw it back in my face, we have talked and talked about it but i still feel since it was my idea in the first place he is just more or less going along with it so not to dissapoint me, is there any way that i can really be sure that he does want it as much as i do??? any advice would b great plz. (link)
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if this was my situation i wouldnt do this because you pretty much allowing your husband to have him have sex with another girl. i dont think you guys should do this,, but thats my opinoin.
i would really think about it and if your not sure about it, hold off on it because once it happened you can never take it back!
good luck and i hope i helped!(:
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Is it normal to pretend you're pregnant? I don't want to actually be pregnant until I'm married, but I'm always curious what it is like. Thanks. (link)
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no, you shouldnt pretend your pregnant. what would be the point of that?
you tell everyone your pregnant but then your stomach stays the same and everyone is going to talk behind your back and laugh and call you a liar, maybe because they think you want everyone to think you had sex or something.
that's not a good thing, just try and tell the truth because you will start burying yourself in your own lies.
good luck and i hope i helped!(:
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Well I am 13. I am a girl. No this is not period cramps because first I dont them and this isnt where I would get my cramps so dont suggest it is my period. I have this weird pain in my belly button. It was a lot worse yesterday. It hurts when I move, bend, stretch, and laugh. Its like in my belly button (I am an innie, dont know how to spell that)and in a thin line around it. It hurts to touch. Yesterday when it was a little worse I looked at it and it was kinda pinky red but not swollen. I tried looking it up but all I found were people asking about their gross pussy belly buttons and apendicitis. So please help do you have any idea what this is? (link)
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i have been been through this before or heard of it but maybe try asking a parent ot family member or try going to the doctor because you never know how serious something can be.
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