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I am going to a school very far away from home in the city. I come from a rural town and now the mass populous was overwhelming. So now I don't know anyone here and I can't make any friends. Back home I didn't have to try because I had my buddies I grew up with. This is getting hard though, I feel depressed and lonely and can't figure out how to solve it. I am a open guy once you get to me and I'm very intelligent, but I feel like everyone thinks I'm strange or weird. I've lost a lot of weight just because I don't want to go the dining halls. I feel like it's rude to invite myself to things with strangers like my parents keep telling me to do. I need some help fast please. (link)
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First of all, go to the dining halls. I've gone up to random groups and random people have come up to me and it's been fine. College is different- they don't look at you strangely the way they would in high school for something like that... at least in my experience.
Secondly, have you thought about joining a club? I know it's cliche, but it really does work! It's like my second or third month in college and I'm just starting to get invited to things, but I've had to put myself out there... so don't be afraid! Trust me, people care a lot less about the way you come across than you think they do.
Another good idea is to ask people to join a study group or apply for a job on campus if your schedule allows for it. It's a great way to meet people from your school.
Intramurals sports are awesome too- they're not too competitive but you get to be part of a team.
Believe it or not, everyone has this problem in the beginning!
Praying for you!
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I was an elementary education major to which I realized my heart was not fully into. So I recently changed my major to sociology. My neighbor said that wasn't very smart because I have to do a lot of schooling for that. I read I can complete four years of schooling to earn my bachelors and still get just as many jobs as a normal person. Now, I'm nervous about my choice to major in sociology. Please help me out. Are you in sociology? Did you hear sociology majors do a lot of school or are unhappy? Thank you! (link)
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If it's your passion/interest... go for it. I'm sure there have been some soc. majors who were miserable because it wasn't for them, but once you get into it you'll just know.
If anything, your neighbor sounds like the one who isn't so smart. I admire your ambition, and that you're willing to go to school for a while to get your degree... but I don't think you have to be in classes longer than the average student unless you're double majoring or something. Worst case scenario, you take some courses over the summer!
It's true that sociology is not the most marketable subject to have a degree in, however. Aside from being a sociologist, writer/journalist, or teacher, there isn't a whole lot out there. Regardless, there's a lot you can do with your knowledge in those areas.
God bless, and good luck
xoxo
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What would be the economic advantages and disadvantages of privatizing oregon's now public kindergarten-12th grade schools? which would cause schools to compete for patrons dollars? what are the arguments for and against school vouchers and what would be your advice as an economist? (link)
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I once wrote a 10pg economics paper on the benefits of the voucher system so maybe I can help out.
The main and most obvious benefit of the voucher system is that it gives private schools the ability to educate students more efficiently. That's what economics is all about: efficiency, and how resources can be allocated best. By privatizing these institutions, schools would have to compete for peoples' money- but this time it's a positive incentive, as opposed to a negative one, such as with the No Child Left Behind Act.
Another benefit is that it gives families with less money the opportunity to give to their children something they never had- a more valuable education. That's where the American Dream comes in as well- passing on something better to emerging generations. What better way to do so than through education?
A major factor of the voucher system, however, is that public schools would eventually be out of the picture completely. Depending on your political ideology, this can be good or bad. If you're liberal the idea of public schools disappearing is probably scary. In fact, it's a scary thought to conservatives as well, but the reason it might worry a more liberal minded person is because there would be less government involvement. Schools without federal funding means the government has to stay out of another area. Other people might like this idea, however, because with private schools left fighting for the patron's dollar, the federal government has more money to spend on other important things. Thus, the government could tax the people less (in theory, of course). Your view of course depends on more than political perspective, however.
This is an extremely brief analysis of the voucher system, but they're good ideas to start with.
God bless
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We can't have spikes, and i found a really good pair of shoes online and i'll just take the spikes out. Can I have some advice on what I need to know for track? Like tips? I'm in middle school, so nothing major but any reccomendations for events? (link)
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In addition to the other answer, I would recommend drinking throughout the day in class if you're allowed. During my cross country season we were allowed to bring water to class to stay hydrated because we had some really tough practices and meets. I can't stress what a huge difference this made for me... I drank a couple bottles of water before practice and had so much more energy! And I'm really bad at keeping hydrated, so this was a big deal for me. Also, running is an insanely mental sport. If you can harness your thoughts and make them constantly positive, you'll run better. Try coming up with a mantra for hard races or practice days when you just feel like giving up. I listen to Till I Collapse by Eminem because the intro is so motivating for me. Learn to love the pain that comes with running and you'll find that the run always gives more back than it takes away. Good luck & God bless.
I remember my track days.. that was how I was introduced to running :)
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Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. And hence the makeouts were a mutual desicion. I am falling for him. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps on telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He hasnt had a past record of cheating or anything it's just that he tells me he wants to be sure before he asks a girl out that he will be completely loyal to her and not flirt around with other girls. He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. we actually act like a couple in love. we also talk all the time. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
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I think it's definitely a red flag that he is warning you about himself. Honestly, it sounds like his way of trying to continue the casual makeouts, without having any responsibility in the relationship. To me, it sounds like he really enjoys your physical relationship but doesn't want to be limited to making out with ONLY you. A no-strings-attached kind of thing seems more his style. I understand why this would be hard... I'm sorry you're in this situation.. I was once in one somewhat like it, and when I realized who he really was, it repulsed me every day (even now). And he wasn't a bad guy... he just wasn't good enough for me. I don't think this guy is a BAD guy, I just don't think he sounds like boyfriend material. Remember that you deserve the best no matter what, so do not lower your standards because you have chemistry. In long term relationships, the initial chemistry's strength will fade anyway, so you want to make sure he's in it for more than that to keep it alive.
I really hope this helped~ I'll keep you in my prayers.
Best of luck & God bless!
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What is this NO2 people are talking about? And where does the average person get it? Thanks for all your time (link)
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1-800-273-8255
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hey there. i saw you answer someone's question regarding school and i hope that maybe you can give me some advice. I've asked some questions here before and everyone was so mean! So, I'm glad to have found you! :)
My story goes like this. Right now I go to a state school in Florida. I am having to transfer to a private school because of them not having my major in my school. My major is secondary education. Since I started school, my family has expected me to work. If I haven't had a job, they are always helping me look for one. Living in my house is so stressful. Despite how much they love me and care about me, they don't understand me. I live with my mom and my grandparents. My mom is a mess. She makes a mess of my room. It is so bad, that I can't even sleep in my own bed. I can't do homework on my desk. I've tried, sincerely, to talk to her and tell her that I need this from her. But, she doesn't listen. I have been struggling with this for years now.
I would do my homework in the library. But, the issue is... that with work, I can't. The library closes at a certain time. There is no "kitchen table" or any other space I can use because my grandparents are always watching television. I can't ask THEM to stop because this is their house and they are set in their ways. Even with work, I cannot afford to live on my own. I live in Miami and it is MAD expensive. A STUDIO apartment is almost $1000!!! On a part time job, I can't even make that AND keep up with school. So, I can't even imagine full time!
I feel scared to go away to college because I recently found out I was adopted and it has left me a little uneasy for a while. I don't want to go away. But, I can't live in my house. My parents WILL NOT pay for a dorm. They say that is a waste of money and they are traditional Cuban, Catholic and they don't want me living with roomates. That's just how they are.
I am convinced that if I went to the private school to begin with, my mom wouldn't be making such a big deal out of me working. Let me just add that SHE DOESN'T WORK!!!! SHE HAS NOT WORKED IN OVER 10 YEARS! I am extremely stressed trying to keep up with everything. All my friends from high school are away from home, not working, focusing on school, and their parents give them money. My half brother was in nebraska for some time, and QUIT school. My dad was sending him money up there. He wasn't working. He was partying and drinking and all of this stuff. I am an ANGEL. I don't mean to gloat about myself in any way, I just want to get the point across. I'm turing 21 in January, and I've never had sex! I have NEVER come home drunk. I don't smoke. I get good grades. I have a job. My best friend is my mom.
I sincerely need my parents help. At this private school, they barely tolerate C's. I'm going into education and it's IMPERATIVE that I get A's!!!!! I need all the time I can get. I am willing to stay working part time (like 15 hours). But, I need my own space. I saw a studio apt that was $900! That's SUPER cheap for Miami. I am willing to pay for HALF. That's $400! But, I need my dad to pay for the other $400. My mom wants me to move out because she sees how stressed I am. She's not willing to change her lifestyle and I am going to have to keep on sleeping with her and doing homework on HER bed till 5:00 in the morning because of what I'm going through. I just need them to pretend that their my roomates and help me pay for the other $400. I am not trying to sound like a brat or say I am entitled to anything. I know I'm not. But, they ARE my parents. And if he did it for my brother, why can't he do it for me? Just because I'm not his biological daughter? :'(
Please let me know how you would handle this! God bless xoxo (link)
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Wow. You've certainly got a lot on your hands! Let me first start off by saying that perhaps it would be a good idea to tell them what you just told me. I understand you've tried, but for some reason it's just not clicking with them.
I strongly suggest moving out as soon as possible. I believe there are studio apartments available at Waterford Landing for about $790. I think you should definitely explain to your parents how hard you've worked to get this far & how essential it is that they help pay at least for some of your independence. I wouldn't approach it quite like that, but explain how you are wise with budgeting, need space to do well in your classes, and plan to keep in touch. If your parents are REALLY against helping you with rent, maybe you could propose a plan to start paying them back once you get on your feet.
Since it'd be too overwhelming to take on new hours at your job along with your classes, I would suggest looking elsewhere for a job. Don't up and quit your job just like that because it may take a while to find another one-- but do your research around town and see if the pay is better somewhere else. If not, stick with the job you have now and pray for a raise. On that note, if you've had your job for a long time and do well at it, there is no harm in asking your boss for a pay raise. While this can be awkward, it might work in your favor. Tell your boss you are currently working toward a more independent lifestyle and that a raise would really help you to get there. Explain to them that you wholeheartedly understand if they cannot give you a raise, but would like them to take it into consideration.
Understand that if you don't get the raise, it's probably more to do with the economy than your skills.
I don't think your father is withholding funds from you because you aren't his biological daughter. Did he give money to your brother recently or a while ago? Money might have gotten tighter. Regardless, I believe it is inexcusable for them not to provide you with the tools for success unless they are financially incapable to do so.
Start applying for any college scholarships you can find. There are A TON out there I didn't know about until a few weeks ago. Essay contests, book awards, etc. really give a lot of money. As for the essay contests, sometimes you win scholarship money just by showing up because no one else in the area even applies! Usually, your local American Legion center will host them.
I wish I could offer some wiser advice but since I'm in a very different situation, it's hard. But prayer is the most powerful weapon, and I will certainly be keeping you in my prayers! I am confident that things will turn around for the better in due time so keep on keepin' on and don't lose your strength. You are a very strong person! Have patience and cherish the moments at home you have now, no matter how unbearable they are right now.
God bless, and Hope I helped!
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Hey there! I am 18 F
Well since the beginning of the year I started thinking about writing a book, I had a really good idea and I wanted to incorporate my art into it. Well I started writing my book in may, I got a boyfriend and kind of got distracted, but I got a good 50 pages into it, well after we broke up I was going through my purse one day and found the jump drive I kept my story on, well I plugged it into my computer and basically went through it and finished it, I rewrote a lot of the story and changed a lot of things, I even spent a good portion of time drawing some art for it, I put it on my jump drive after I edited it and made it look really nice. I put it in my pocket and changed my clothes and forgot I usually do my laundry and take everything in the pockets out and such, Well my mom was just trying to be nice and do my laundry since I had been working all week, well, stupid me didn't take the jump drive out and it got destroyed, and even more idiotic of me I didn't back the files up.
The story is basically about a couple and the girl ends up murdered, the man finds her and makes a deal with the devil to bring her back, he basically has to do whatever the devil wants until he becomes completely consumed and isn't even himself anymore, basically a psychotic, violent person.
I spent months writing and making the art for this story, I thought it was really good but after I completely did all that I feel unmotivated to rewrite it all over again, and I know it won't exactly be the same.
How do I get motivated to write again? And is it even worth writing again, it's basically a gory horror story.
Advice from writers is highly appreciated, thank you in advance.
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Wow... as a fellow aspiring book author, I can't imagine how I'd feel if I lost my books. You just have to remember that you write for YOU. You don't write for money. You do it for the love of writing.
Maybe take a week off before you start writing, and just brainstorm. Try to rewrite some major scenes after you've cleared your head. Sometimes good things are destroyed so better things can take their place- perhaps it is a blessing in disguise and you will not only make it a better story, but learn more about yourself through the process.
I can relate a little bit because I lost a piece of my book I hadn't yet copied onto the computer. I rewrote most of the scene and felt amazing afterwards... I really like the way I wrote it the second time BETTER.
Good luck & all the best.
I'll pray it turns out even better than before! God bless. Never stop writing :)
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I am a biology major in college. My grades are usually A's and B's but this semester is really hard for me. It's almost over and I havent had any A's on any exams. Im taking Chemistry and Physics 2, along with Ecology, with a few others. My main concern are my science classes. I might get C's in these courses and I am really worried about my future, medical school wise. I am very stressed all the time and am almost in constant worry. I barely sleep and I don't have any time to myself. What should I do to relieve some stress? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. I've had exceptionally rigorous courses for the past four years and whenever I'm on break I don't know what to do with myself because I'm so accustomed to being busy with work! All-nighters and cram sessions to finish papers or study for exams have basically become a way of life for me. It's 2:30 in the morning as I write this.
With that being said, here's what I do to relieve stress. I'm on my school's cross country team, and used to hate running. Once I got adjusted though it became the perfect way for me to relieve stress. Even if all you have is ten minutes, go for a quick jog around campus and forget about everything- zone out with some music, focus on your breathing as you run and see how you feel afterwards.
If you don't think that will work for you (but I suggest you at least try!) try writing down some things on the computer or a notepad to vent. That always helps me... I usually write it in song form.
As for the C's, I'm willing to bet A TON of successful, brilliant doctors got those grades in college too. Chemistry and Physics are not easy courses. The same is true for Ecology. Your course schedule is filled with harder classes this year so of course your GPA is going to suffer a little bit- but your mental capacity certainly isn't.
Sleep is another important one. I can hardly say this because I get no sleep. Ever. But I do know that from experience, without sleep your brain can't retain important information. Try just once a week studying a few hours for an important exam then sleeping at a reasonable hour. Or taking a nap after class then working... anything you can do to get some more shut-eye. Take advantage of your weekends. You probably already do, but try to go to bed extra early on weekend nights and such. It will help you catch up!
Also, you're probably aware that biology is the hardest major at almost every college. Considering that & your other courses you are doing outstanding-- don't be so hard on yourself. With your work ethic and ambition there is no doubt you'll get into a fantastic medical school! They care about your course load more than your GPA, I believe, anyway.
All the best! God bless & I will pray for you
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what is the of meaning of this quote “There is nothing of permanent value (putting aside a few human affections) nothing that satisfies quiet reflection—except the sense of having worked according to one's capacity and light to make things clear and get rid of cant and shams of all sorts.” (link)
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Here's my interpretation (a couple possible ones actually):
Nothing is as satisfying as working your hardest and seeing it pay off. The mind needs to be challenged, and when challenged it can grow to its full potential.
Meditation puts the soul at peace. The world around us is busy and crazy, and sometimes one just really needs to get away and think.
That's basically the gist of it to me =]
Good luck & God bless
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Im 13. How can i tell my family im a cutter? And once i tell them, how do i get help to STOP cutting? (link)
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I cut when I was 13 too... it was addicting and hard to stop but when I prioritized what was important to me and busied myself I didn't feel the need anymore.
The main reason I did it was for attention. One day I couldn't stand it anymore that no one had noticed (I wasn't obvious about it at all) so I finally blew up and told my mom all about it. She was so understanding and helped me through it. Is there someone in your family you can talk to like that? A sibling? An aunt or uncle or parent?
Another thing to keep in mind is that you don't have to tell your entire family... you can just tell one member that you trust. However many you want, really.
I got help by going to a counselor. I just felt soo much better! I hated the idea at first but four years later I'm still seeing her and it's a great relationship to have as you get older and your problems and surroundings change. Trust me.
I will pray for you so God can help you every step of the way... I've been there!
Hope this Helped!
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Do you really believe that there is life after death because I've been thinking of ending mine. Than I realised eternity is a long time to spend in the company of the things that made me end it in the first place. (link)
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I firmly believe in life after death. Whether you believe in God or not there MUST be a point to us all being here.
I know how you feel. A few years back I wanted to end mine, too. I was in a very dark place and felt unloved, unappreciated, and depressed. I can't even begin to explain how horrible it felt. I had almost no one to turn to.. my world was flipped upside down & I couldn't see the point in trying to help myself. But then I thought about everything to look forward to- getting married, having a family, my future career, having an impact on others etc. That meant too much to me to let go. Even if that doesn't mean as much to you, I'm sure you can find something that DOES to help you through this.
Don't ever take your life for granted. Think of all those young kids in children's hospitals dying of something- they'd give anything to be you and have the power of whether or not they see tomorrow. I don't say this to make you feel guilty! I say it to help you realize what a true gift you have in your hands. God put you here for a reason... even if you have not found it yet.
You are valuable. You are loved. Do not give up.
1-800-273-8255 That's the number for the suicide hotline in the U.S. Please do not hesitate to call. Think of the wonderful life you have ahead of you, people who love and treasure you who would grieve from you being gone (even if you feel unloved).
I will pray for you. God loves you and is holding you.. and I love you through Him (:
Hope this helped!
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Hi! I m 27 years old Male young guy. From last one year I am suffering sexual problem. I want to having sex with my own Mother. So tell me how can approach her for this? She is 42 years hot women. Plez suggest me for the same. (link)
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It sounds like you have an Oedipal Complex. It's a psychological problem that manifests itself in sexual desires causing men to be physically and sexually attracted to their mothers. I would suggest that you talk to a psychiatrist or call a doctor. They can give you something to fix the problem and help you go about your life normally again. And don't approach her about it- it's wrong to have sex with her.
Hope I helped & God bless
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hi im a 16 year old female and i started working out about 2 moneths ago. all im doing is going on the tredmill, just a fast walk everyday for at least a n hour sometimes 2. i started doing it at 5 in the morning cause of school but now im doing after i eat dinner which isn't that good because i heard you burn actuall fat when you excersise on an empty stomach. i was 143.5 and i am not 128.5. nobody can realy tell the difference though. i've been trying not to eat any sncks and eat healthy but after school im hungry so i will eat 13234657543 peanuts and crackers! idk how to stop myself haha!
by next summer, which is in about 9 months i want to be in shape. i want a flat stomach and nice thighs. i have some wrinkles on the back of my legs and i hate it! do you think if i keep up what im doing but stop the crackers and peanuts i will be in shape by next summer? i want skinner thighs!!!!!!!!!!!!! do u think i will get that by just fast walking on the tredmill. i dont want to build a lot of muscle because it makes your thighs bigger! pleaseee any suggestions or comments would be great!
thanks! :)
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Try to log your calories each day. Stay between 1300-1700 since you're on a diet. Restaurant websites often have the calorie amounts cited on their pages or sometimes menus.
Stick to diet drinks. You don't wanna worry about logging drink-calories, trust me it really adds up. Have something low-cal like a gatorade to rehydrate.
Generally the fastest way to tone your legs, as much as this sucks if you don't like to run, is to jog up hills. Do that a few times a day a few times a week along with your usual walking. Walking, unfortunately, doesn't build any muscle and thus can't tone your legs, contrary to popular opinion. But it's certainly good for losing weight :) Don't be alarmed if you start running up hills and gain a few lbs- it's probably muscle, and no you will NOT bulk up!
Also start doing some crunches (10-20) after your daily walks. It strengthens the core & will shape up your abs.
As for the peanuts and crackers... well, we all have our guilty pleasure. Allow yourself a reasonable amount because if you don't cheat a little once in a while, it'll hit you REALLY hard when you finally do. Start weening yourself off them by eating one less every day.
Hope this helped :) And don't become obsessed with losing weight, 128lbs sounds very thin to me. :D
God bless!
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Okay so i guess my question is how can i get my fuck buddy to actually admit her likes me more then a buddy? It all started about 6 months ago we met talked most of the night after me and my roomie were out at the bars.At the time he had had a girl friend and well i never asked we just talked. Then they broke up and and him and I would hook up quite often. Well about 2 weeks ago my roomie went outta town and i didnt wanna be in my conplex by myself as we had recently had a murder happen.My roomate and I had also asked him if he wanted to be a 3rd roomate and he said yes. Well its coming up on the last couple days of 2 weeks during that time he has introduced me to his friends saying things like " ya my girlfriend knows how to cook" but when i gatherd the courage to ask him about the whole girl friend thing i asked him " we arent dating right?" and he responded back no were not. But things he says to me here and there insuaiates gf/bf status but when i ask he says no. All i wanted was someone to stay with me to feel safe and hes only been here maybe 5 nights outta the 2 weeks. Im confused and dont know what to do. Any advice would be much apprecaited. (link)
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This may not be the answer you want to hear... but chances are, you're still just a sex partner to him. When you give him all of yourself first, what are you making him wait for? If he gets the benefit of a relationship/marriage he wants the most without actually being committed, what would make him want to be committed?
I'm not saying you're unworthy of his heart, because I'm sure you're a wonderful person. BUT he might not be seeing you as a wonderful person- he might just be seeing you as a wonderful lover. By having sex with him you're not giving him anything to work for. You're basically saying he can have you for free...
Issues like this come up a lot when people are sex partners purely for the sex.. so I suggest you tell him you either want to be in a relationship with him or just be friends without the benefits. Being upfront with him like that will force him to admit that he either has feelings for you, or that the wrong feelings are there.
Hope I helped. Didn't mean to sound harsh if I was.
God bless! I'll pray for your situation to get better.
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ok so my really close friend (aka the guy i like) was staring at my lips today for like the whole day (i wore lip gloss today and i usually dont) and he kept smiling and im not quite sure why... (also we r both 14 in high school and im a little taller than him) (link)
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He probably doesn't realize how much he's staring at your lips. This is a psychological thing, I believe. We stare at peoples' lips when we want to kiss them.
So YEAH- keep wearing the lip gloss... work it ;)
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I'm Male/16. I'm in 11th grade. I feel like I have lost my motivation. In 9th grade I was really motivated, I actually did my work with no problems, I slept fine and kinda talked to more people. Now, I just don't feel like doing anything, I always feel tired and sluggish. I miss work or hand it in late. I can't sleep right and I don't talk to much people anymore. It seems like everything is pointless nowadays, nothing is fun or exiting like it used to be. I miss feeling good about everything. I have no idea what's causing this but its pissing me off. What's wrong with me? It feels like I'll never progress and enjoy things again. I'm really tired and disapointed with myself. What is it? (link)
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Maybe you should talk to a doctor. I know it doesn't sound like a lovely answer... but it might benefit you more than you think. You could be depressed. Think back to when this started... was there a specific trigger? Did you lose some friends, take harder classes, have a rough break up? Maybe your ego is in need of a little boost. Try a new sport-- it's great for confidence and helps you meet new people. I always disregarded that advice but when I finally did join sports I wish I had started earlier. If sports aren't for you, think about a club or a job. If you already have a job... maybe it's time for a new one.
As for the sleep, you're probably in a vicious cycle. Try taking a melatonin vitamin at night. It makes you sleepy because you may be missing serotonin, which you receive from the sun during the day & in turn helps you sleep at night. The vitamin will compensate. Once you get in a routine of sleeping better, it will probably do wonders for the rest of your problems! Trust me-- I've been there.
Maybe God is preparing you for something... pray & ask what He might have in store for you. He had big plans for you, you know. :)
I'll keep you in my prayers.
Much Luck & God bless!
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can i have a good name for my hubby like 20 (link)
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hubster
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Ever since I was little I've had the worst experiences in church I was always badly judged because of my past mistakes and because my father made bad mistakes to I tried soo many churches but it was all the same. I've greatly improved and I've devoted my life to God and doing my best to please him but I get so scared I don't want to go near any churchs so I don't know what to really do. Anyone know what I can do? (link)
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You make God proud... I'm sure He's smiling down upon you right now.
Don't be so harsh with yourself, I know where you're coming from. I questioned my faith for a while and found that there was no church for me but the Catholic church.
Don't let fear of church stand in the way though, as that can be very harmful of your relationship with God. When we take a leap of faith, that's when we truly experience God's faithfulness and involvement in our lives. Ask Him to direct you and guide you to a parish where you will feel comfortable.
Fear is a weapon of the devil- do not let it affect you, you're stronger than that. We are made to be courageous... but courage doesn't mean the absence of fear.
Don't let peoples' judgments reflect God's judgments.... it's not their place to decide your worthiness. God is merciful and forgiving and wants to see you in that church pew I'm sure. :)
Start reading more scripture and start your day by saying "God I devote everything I do today to you. I offer it up."
Things will become clearer in time, but you have to be patient.
God bless! I hope I helped.
P.S. It always helps to ask a priest for advice, or someone a part of a particular church.
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