i had sex with the person my best friend liked and she found out about it a few days later. she is pissed / upset and she keeps ignoring my calls and texts. i work with her sunday morning, so it's gonna be really awkward. what should i do and what should i say to her? :\
bestfriends stick together through thick and thin!
she may be mad at you for awhile, and she had every right to, but you guys are bestfriends! always remember that!
tel her how you feel and if she ignores you, let her be and let you have some time to think, if or when she's ready to talk to you she will!
dearcandore answered Friday June 24 2011, 5:23 pm: Before you start your shift tell her you're sorry and you know it was a crappy thing to do and you understand if she stays mad at you for a little while. Then let her stew. She'll get over it, but you hurt her, you betrayed her trust and she just needs a while to mope about it. [ dearcandore's advice column | Ask dearcandore A Question ]
julie75 answered Friday June 24 2011, 5:23 pm: If you're truly sorry, you'll let her know that you'll never do anything like that again. Let her know that you were an idiot and let your hormones get the best of you and you really didn't mean to hurt her. Tell her you won't bother her for a while and when she's ready to forgive you, you'll still be waiting to be her friend again. After that, don't send anymore texts or try to call her, until she reaches out to you. I hope this helps and good luck. [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
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