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Ok..our uniforms are the navy shirt w/ khaki pants or plaid squirts..i have brown hair(past my bra strap) and brown eyes and i have no acne and i have a natural tan..so what kind of eyeshadow should i wear to go to school?

Thnx in Advance!

wooah ok you are exactly like me... even with the uniform! lol ok well i usually wear like a natural gold or brown... natural colors like that... hope this helps!

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Hey, lat night my friend was suppost to sleep over but then at the last minute she couldn't so she said that we would hang out tomorrow, which is today. Then she told me that she was going out to lunch wit her bf so i was like o i thought that we were hanging out today and she is like ya we still are..when i get bak from lunch. She hadn't told me that she was going out with him because we had made the plan before she made the plan to go out with her boyfriend. Should i be mad because she has been out the whole day with him when she told me that we would hang out.

hmm... i have kinda a similar situation cept my friends been ditching me to hang out with her other friends... i think maybe you should talk to her now, but if she does it again, you have the right to be relatively angry with her. thats not fair to you and she shouldnt be treating you like that so talk to her the first time but dont let her do it again. good luck! =)

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im 13 yrs old, and last may one of my friends died. he was 14 and i wasnt really that close to him so i got over it pretty quick. but november 19 my friend (also my crush) died.. he was 14 also.. i dont no what to do.. i've been sleeping in class thinking about him and i just keep dazing off.. i cant pay attention to anything anyone has to say. i no its wierd..but our teacher told us to write letters and burn them so thay will make it up to heaven.. i burn like 3 a day! im really depressed and havent been acting normal.. i cant just "move on" or "get over it" Helllp!

i know itll be though but think about all the fun times you guys had. instead of being sad that its over, be glad that it happened! hope this helped

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I'm sorry if this is a little long...

There are three of us, me and my two friends that I'm going to call Keri and Amber.

The last few months Keri and Amber always are partners with each other for everything and leave me out, they never wait for me, and then always ignore me in many of the classes we have together. I took half an hour to tell Kari how I felt about it on the phone last night and today Amber came up to me and asked me why I was mad at them. I got really angry because I spent half an hour explaining why I was upset, and then she says to only remembers half of it, and I started yelling at her, because it doesn't seem like she cares about how I feel.

My question is what should I do about it, and am I overracting about it?

Thanks

i definately think you should retalk this with both your friends calmly. maybe they thought you were really mad at them so they got mad. if you just ask them why theyve been doing this to you, maybe you can get somewhere. if not, itll probly just blow over after a little while. trust me i know exactly how you feel! maybe you can invite both of them over sometime so all three of you can have some quality time! hope this helps!!! =)

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Okay so i have this friend and he is a year younger than me and is going to call me in about an hour and hes gunna ask me out and i dont wanna go out with him. any ideas that i could use to say no but to not hurt his feelings?
im 13 and hes 12

just say youd rather just be friends...

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I have a party to attend in december, it has a new romantic/early 80s theme, i think its cool but i have a problem, where do i start, what clothes should i go for, for maximum effect, and most importantly, how do i do my make up and hair. Thanks for you help in advance.

oo this is fun!
ok for 80's:
clothes- BIG off the shoulder sweatshirt with a sprts bra underneath(so you can see the straps), cutoff jean skirt, leg warmers n spandex, pumps
makeup/heair- high/loose ponytail w/ scrunchy n headband, light blu eyeshadow
hope this helps you!
(im not sure if this is what you mean but thats 80's style)
and remember: COLOR!!!

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um hey one of my friends is having a party at this place where our friends go for dances. i love going there, but (the dances are held twice a month) i have no beat and no rythem and usually i dont dance because im afraid people will laugh at my poor skills. i also dont know what to wear. im pretty much broke and my mom is pretty srict about what i wear. if anyone could help me. that would be great! thanx!

what to wear: maybe you could go to a cheapo store sometimes they have really cute stuff! or you could borrow some clothes from your friends
dancing: dont worry about it! no one really cares! if youre still uncomfortable get some of your other friends that dont like to dance and find something else fun to do!
hope you have fun!

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Well okay, here's my situation... My parents work all the time and I usually need a ride... Well my friend opted for the position and I know I do at times get annoying and ask a lot of her parents to take me around and do errands because my own parents can't... So, I give her parents gifts and things like that to thank them for taking me around... And now my friend is really getting agitated about her having to drive me around all the time when her parents don't mind at all... So.. What should I do because I mean I'm always nice to her and her parents but she is just getting on me for asking her parents to take me around...

maybe you should just ask her why it bothers her. meybe theres a good reason and you two can fix it. nothing will happen if you just keep quiet. hope this helps!

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Ok, I just bought this new jacket..it's polyester..and everytime I wear it, it leaves lint all over my shirt (or whatever I'm wearing underneath it.) Is there a way to prevent this? Thanks!! I'll give 5's for every answer!! ;-)

try washing it before you wear it. usually with new sweaters/jackets you need to wash them a few times to get all the loose stuff out!

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I recently got a new puppy, the problem was that my 3 yr old lab mix would not accept her. She was very aggressive and territorial. She has never acted like this in the past. I would like to get another puppy, since I had to return the other one. What would be the best way to intriduce them?

maybe when you go to the pet store, you could bring your other dog so that he/she can get used to seeing the nep puppy outside of her/his territory. when you bring the puppy home, you should put their beds in seperate areas and give them their own territories. they should warm up to eachother soon enough! hope this helps!

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any quick tips for getting my dogs to go to the bathroom outside?? or is it true, you cant teach an old dog new tricks?

everytime your dog goes inside the house, scold them (not too badly) and then put them outside. everytime youre out on a walk and they go give them a treat or praise them. if they look like theyre about to go inside put them outside. they should catch on soon enough! hope it works!

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Whenever i straighten my hair, there's always a dent from the straightener @ the roots (where my part is). How do i get rid of the dent/prevent it? thanks i rate high!!

well if you have naturally sorta straight hair you probly dont have to do all the way to the roots, if your hair is curly, then try holding your hair up vertically in little bits. that way your straightener can get closer to the roots! hope this helps you!

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Does anyone know of a good eyeliner that stays on all day and doesnt smear?!?! I can't seem to find a good one!!

oo i have cover girl perfrect point plus self sharpening eyeliner! it works REALLY well and it doesnt smear AT ALL!!! it doesnt even come off in water! (in the shower yea but like for swimming n stuff) try that!

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I am having my 17th birthday party in like a week or so and I was wondering if anyone had any good ideas for games, thing to do, etc. Here are something that might help I want the party theme to be pink and silver and the guys can wear red and grey, I have a pool table, big living room. Any ideas will help or you can tell me something about one of your good partys and I can get an idea from that? thanks and there is another problem how can I tell my mom to stay upstairs since guys are going to be there I don't know if she will trust me and I don't want her to be there cause I mean I am going to be 17 she should be able to trust me and I know that everyone will feel really uncomfortable if my mom keeps watching or checking up on us so what can I say to her ? Help and if u have any other idea, anything for a good party tell me please thanks again.

im not sure what you could do for your party, but about your mom: i think you should tell her that if you need her help or if something goes wrong youll come to her, and let her know that she can trust you to come to her when theres a problem. maybe you can make a deal and tell her that she can come down and check on everything each hour/ half hour (idk how long your party will be). or you could go upstairs and give her an update every half hour/ hour just so shes not worried. good luck with finding something to do and hope your party is fun!

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ok heres my deal, i will be moving to fl from ca and i am shy and i want to know what is the best way to present myself in a friendly manner so that will able me to make friends...??

thank you so much!

i know exactly how you feel! i moved 3 years ago and i had no idea what i was going to do to make friends. all you have to do is be yourself! that way youll make friends who like YOU! not some act! people will be attracted to your original personality and maybe youll find out that theres a kid in your class who plays the same sport as you! or maybe is interested in the same subjects. just show your true personality and dont worry! trust me! good luck in FL!!!

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