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Hey, I'm Kayla. I'm eighteen years old. I love giving advice as well as receiving it. I'm finally out of high school!

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Does anyone know any sites that are similar to Greatest Journal or Myspace?

www.bolt.com

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when i sit near this guy.. i get this little fuzzy feeling in my stomach.. i really dont know what this feeling means.. thats why i need help.. i kind of like this guy too... the only problem is i have a boyfriend:(:( but i havent seen him in about four weeks and its driving me crazy..
please help me:(

Yeah what they said.. that fuzzy feeling thingy is butterflys so your going to have to go to the doctor for a major sugery to get them out before the die.. that guy you like you need to get him you ain't seen your boyfriend in forever! yeah so i'll ttyl..

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How can you still love another person if your goin out with another??
WHAT IS LOVE????

HELP ME:p


of course you can love another one silly..

love is a natural feeling, or some may call it when they have sex they call it "making love"

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What should I do? there is this boy i've been dating over a year and i have feelings for someone else that likes me alot. the boy i'm dating can't seem to make up his mind about if he wants to be with me or not. so should i choose the new guy or stick with my boyfriend?

you should go with the new guy.. =P

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okay lets say im dating a boy right.
and..... stuff and we are only in 7th grade.
and..... is it possible for people to date in 7th grade to stay together forever like.. get married i mean i know we are young but can it happen?

Yeah I know someone who met two old people and they dated since 6th grade

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What do split ends have to do with how fast your hair grows? It doesn't make sense. I know that when you get your hair trimmed it helps it grow faster because it gets rid of the split ends. I know that. I just don't understand why. Hair grows from the other end, so split ends shouldn't affect how fast it grows, right? Somebody please explain this to me it's been bothering me for years. Thanks.

Cutting off your splits end don't hope make yoru hair grow faster.. It just makes it more healhier

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hi, about that book you suggested me, i looked into it and it looks really good. i went to Borders Express today to purchase it, and i couldnt find mcdaniels in the romance section, nor the fiction section. i may not have been looking hard enough, and i was too embarrassed to ask the lady for help (im very shy) so i came home and i wondered if it could have been in the young adult section since it's kind of teen-ish? thank you!

It should be in the young adult section..I hope you like it

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I currently finished reading The Notebook and The Wedding. I absolutely LOVED the Wedding. I'm interested in those sorts of books, like true love, life-long companionship, etc. I was wondering if anyone knew any good books that I could buy at Borders. None of that one night stand, steamy sex crap. Thank you!

Don't die my love-By Lurlene McDaniel

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i have written twenty something songs and believe they are actually really good and i love singing, playing guitar & piano... so i'm just wondering what are some ways i could record my music onto a cd that isn't extremely expensive and doesn't involve a recording studio and also what are some good ways to get my music discovered since i want to sing?

American Idol

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ok so i REALLY love my boyfriend..but lately since i told him that his best friend rapped me..he started getting...controlling and like now whenever i say somthing hell scream and say BITCH SHUT UP...then hell say "oh im sorry baby" and everything is fine but he hit me a couple of times..i told my best friend and she told me to break up with him..but i LOVEE him! and..if i i do decide to break up with him..im scared hell like..kill me or somthingg!

plz help me.i dont know where else im going to get help!

~lila

What he is doing is against the law.. you should sit down and talk to him and get help..If i was you I would break up with him..

hope I helped

&Hearts;

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If I have strech marks left over from me losing weight...will they ever go away?

I got stretch marks and I use Cocoa butter and yeah it does help it fade =)

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How can I make some of my pictures Black and White with some parts still colored? Do I need a special editing program? If so, where can I download a trial of it? Thanks :)
-Kymmiee x3

(EX: Me laying infront of flowers when I'm B&W and the flowers are in color)

I use Picasa you can do just about anything on it it's pretty cool. You have to look it up for it cause i don't have the link to it.. sorry

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i had this convo with my bestfriend and i feel like if my bf knew i said those things with my bestfriend that he would be mad... do you think that i was wrong to talk to my bestfriend like that even if it was joking. (the whole fuck thing is an inside joke with him) btw my bestfriend is a guy.

me: loserface
him: fuck you
me: fuck you better/more! HA!
him: haha
him: got me
me: of course i did
him: fuck you harder/faster
me: ugh. fuck you longer/hotter? haha
him: sounds good.
me: you know it!
him: you dont know nothing about sex.
me: maybe not.
him: haha you dont
me: is that bad?!?!?!?
him: yes
him: duh
him: these days you have to have sex 40 times before your 11
me: haha well i just broke the damn rules
him: oh goodness.
him: to the death pit for you.
me: haha well atleast im a virgin!
me: oooooo!
him: at least im not.
me: well your a bad boy.
him: sex is fun.
me: i bet.
me: and the only reason i dont before i get married is because if i do then ill be completely attached and if i was to break up with the person i did that with or they break up with me it would be bad... like heartbreaking bad... and all and it would end up being the on and off thing because were so attached to each other.... its not for moral reasons... its for....logical reasons.
him: haha yeah
me: i just dont want to be that serious with a guy right now.;
him: yeah i understabd.
him: i forgot you're only 14
me: if i was ready to be that serious with someone it wouldnt bother me to have sex before marriage. but the thing is... if your ready to be that serious with them your pretty much ready to marry them! haha.... so yeah. im sorry im only 14 :( i know i dont act it.
him: yeah you dont
me: well that cant be a bad thing
him: its not.
me: gooood
me: your the best bestfriend ever.

so my questions are:
1)is that wrong?

thats not wrong

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who sings that song that goes "Sara beth is scared to death" i dont know the rest...
thanks

Skin-by Rascal Flatts

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This sounds like a stupid question but is there any way to make your hair grow faster?




cutting your dead ends off don't make your hair grow faster it just makes it more healther. Search on goole aj or yahoo to see if you can find something to make your hair grow faster there is alot of things on there i'm sure you will find something.. hope i help

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I wanna put the song "Let U Go" by ashley parker angel in my xanga .. can someone please give me the code for it? thanks

You could go to www.filelodge.com and sign up for it(free) and then upload it onto there then get the code from it there..

or go to http://www.mp3-center.org/top_mp3_songs look for it on there.. sorry i didnt give you code

;hearts;

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I've been shaving my arm pits for a while now and whenever I do I can't get them all the way shaved. I don't know why but when i get out of the shower there are still little prickles of hair there and it doesn't look like they are there in the shower. Does anyone recommend any good razors or just any tips on how to get them completly shaved?

Thnx.

You razor might be dull but I once heard your hair under your armpits grow in all diffent directions so try shaving it in different directions as shaving going up down from left to right, right to left... hope I help!

;Hearts;

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What is the average amount of days to have your period?

5-7 days.. maybe shorter than that but no longer than it though

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ok i get bored easily,i really want some sites that are fun and maybe addicting like theres millsberry.com where you make your own house and person and of coarse thers myspace and facebook, but does anyone know of any other sites that are fun or entertaining?

www.albinoblacksheep.com
www.ebaumsworld.com
www.miniclips.com
www.uproar.com

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i cant listen to any music on the internet because i dont have some sort of program? but idont know what it is because i used to be able to listen to music on myspace but now i cant, does anyone know the software/program that i need to download in order to listen to music? please help! i will rate anyone a 5 if they help!!!

If you don't want to do it illegally there is yahoo launch, itunes, and rapsody. If you don't care to do it illegally there is Ares, Limewire, Kazaa, and Bear Share

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