Hey:) I'm Julie. I'm a fun girl and I like to live life to the fullest. I have a lot of friends and I guarantee I have either been in your situation or know someone who has. My friends always turn to me for advice and I would like for you to feel that you can too. Anyone who approaches me on this site I will react to as though you are my friend. Your problem is my problem and I will help you with finding a solution. I have dealt with everything from drug addicts, to people with depression, to men saying every line in the book. I've been to all time lows as well as situations so weird and funny that you don't even know what to do. I have asked the questions that seem too awkward to ask face to face so do not fear asking me anonymously. I love awkward, embrace weird and live to help. Ask me anything and I will help you to the very best of my ability. Thanks for reading.
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This is your mapquest/walk your dog buddyy
tehe dont sya my name lol
my friends are gonna talk to you know who for me lol im nervous =/ hehe but excited! we musttt hang out again before summer vaca. (link)
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ahhhh good luck hun
hopefully things great!!!
yes to planss =]]
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k 14/f hereee
okayyy.. so theres this guy, justin i met at the beginning over the school year, and he had a thing for eachother ever since.. like basically we're in love.. we've been talking for like 9 months.. and i pretty convinced i love him, and i can tell he loves me also.
and well we wanna date and stuff but our school=drama.. i mean when me and justin started talking, so much crap went around. it was crazy.. and if youre wondering why, im 14 and hes 17. but in my case i dont care bout age. but everyone bascially knows we're in love. so everything is cool with people at school.
but my mom, doesnt like him.. although shes never met him, she just thinks he wants sex, but hey i havent slept with him and hes still here, after 9 months. and i told him that i wasnt gonna have sex with him, cuz basically i think im too young, and he totally understands.
But anyway, i had to beg my mom for me to even talk to him.. and she just doesnt understand.
and well me andhim really want to date.
any advice?
thanks, i rate all 5's
but if you say im too young to be in love;
no rating. (link)
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i think its great that you two have fallen in love.. and age really DOESNT matter. have your mom meet justin thought so she can see what a great guy he is and love him like you do. and as for the kids in school ignore them or tell them to lay off. well i hope this helps
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http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90102&navroot=clearance&productId=0352_5324
What skirt would go good with that cami? And what's a cute sweater I could wear over it? Please help.
Would this skirt go with it?
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90104&navroot=clearance&productId=0319_3046 (link)
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that skirt and that cami would be really cute together. in my oppinion is would look better without a sweater cause the outfit is really summery and sweaters are really wintery.
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I'm a 20yr old female and my boyfriend is 21. To try to cut it short i've never met his parents but they hate me they tell him i'm using him and manipulating just every bad thing. We've been dating for almost 6 months we've been best friends for a little over a year we have everything in common but his parents they want us to break up it's his first serious relationhip and i just think that his parents are worried we want to fix the problem with his parents and i but we aren't sure how. another problem is he can't stand up to his parents thanks for your time please help! (link)
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im sorry they dont like you and things arent going the way you hoped.. now i know you dont want to hear this but mabey it's best you see someone else whos parents wont be so quick to judge you, because the worst thing EVER would for them to go all parental control on you.. ahah. or mabey you should try and convince them how sweet you really are, and tell them how much you care for their son.
well i hope this helps
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ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend of 10 months 3 months ago and i was pretty down about it for a while but im pretty much over it now. we stil talk and were friends but i know hes still inlove w/ me because he tells me all the time. besides that when he likes someone he for some reason always compares me to them like shes almost as pretty as u or as smart things like that. i feel guilty b/c i like hearing those things from him b/c hes the only one who seems to think that. i like that he gives me attention and sometimes i manipulate him so i get attention or try to make him jealous. i know its wrong but i dont know why i do it. could it be because i miss him? i also get kinda jealous when he talks about one of his friends that are girls. please help! (link)
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it really sounds like you arent over him.. you love getting compliments from him because deep down somewhere in you you know you still like him alot. and you should stop playing games and manipulating him and be true to your heart and see if you truely like him... if you do and u feel you wanna get bac with him tell him how you feel. if you kinda like him but dont wanna get bac with him then you are just having trouble moving on and you should look for someone else.. theres other fish in the sae and if you dont like him tell him you dont have feelings for him so your not leading him on.
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ok so im with my friend *Laura like atleast 6 days outta the week sometimes 7, and we're mostly at her house..and im always sleeping over at her house. cuz we always go to late movies then i just sleep at her house. do you think im over at her house way too much or im with her wayy to much? thanks
*name has been changed
thanks again (link)
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itz fine to spend alot of time with friends... but mabey you should hang out with more then one person.. you dont want it to happen where you and *laura get in a fight then your bored with nothing to do until you make up. you have to have other ppl your tight with as well.. but itz really good to have such a tight friend you can spend so much time with.. just expand your horizons
well i hope this helps
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So theres this guy...and we r like best friends...and ppl think we like each other (and we do...i think...we flirt constantly) anyways, i have a feeling he is gonna ask me out, but my mom wont let me date (im 14/female) because she thinks i would go to far...which i wouldnt
anyways, so i have a feeling this guys gonna ask me out (and ive been told he is...) and hes older then me and i dont wanna look like a kid (if i say no...and also...he knos i like him...)
WHAT DO I DO??????? HELP! Thanks! (link)
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try and talk to your mom and do little things to show your responsible and that she should trust you. (like doing extra work around the house). or if that doesnt work, you said your like best friends with this guy... if you tell him whatz up.. ( how your mom wont let you date) if hes such a good friend he'd probably understand. and if he really doesnt understand then theres other fish in the sea.
well i hope this helps
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So i like this one boy and his bestfriend hates me. I have to get him to like me so i can use him get to his best friend easier. Any ideas?
ahaha =] (link)
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using someone is NEVER the way to go... they will find out and you will be in big trouble, plus carma will be out to get you. and then the boy you like will hate you as well if you use his best friend
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I'm 17/f and I've known my best friend, Ryan (well, ex best friend) literally my whole life. Our dad's were best friends in high school and they live next door.
Well, Ryan and I used to be really close. We hung out all the time and were really good friends. We hung out with the same group of people and I thought I knew everything about him. About 2 years ago, I was in his room waiting for him to get out of the shower and I was just looking around when I found LSD tabs and pills that I couldn't identify.
I waited for him to get out and I asked him about it. Turns out that he had some friends that I didn't know about and he had been into drugs and such for a few months. I couldn't believe what he was saying and even more so, I couldn't believe that I didn't suspect anything.
He told me not to say anything to anyone but I refused and said that I at least was going to tell his older brother and see what he thought about it. We argued about it for a while and he told me that he did not do it that much, it wasn't a big deal and that he would stop. So I trusted him and didn't say anything.
Long story short, I shouldn't have trusted him. His parents put him in Rehab a while after and he's supposed to be clean now.
Well, we haven't been talking as much lately and I don't really see him at the usual parties and friends' houses and things but I just thought he didn't want to see me because we had gotten into a big fight a few months ago (reason to why we weren't talking).
I was at the mall yesterday and I saw him there with a guy named Zach. This guy was the one that had gotten him into drugs. Seriously, he's the biggest druggie anyone knows.
Know I don't know what to do because I'm not certain he's doing drugs again for sure. But, I don't want to keep it from his parents again because I don't want it to end up like it did 2 years ago. And, I'm not sure how he'll take me asking him about it considering we don't really talk anymore.
What should I do?
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ANYTHING involving the use of drugs is always really tricky and theres alot of choices that you have to make about what you want to do about it. this boy seems to have an addiction and i really dont think confronting him would help. honestly i think itz best to confront his parents and let them know whats going on so history doesnt repeat itself. plus once you tell them a giant weight will be lifted off your shoulders.
well i hope this helps
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just saying hi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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heyy [[=
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i met some girls a few months ago. i got to know them pretty good. i have much in common with both of them. i liked 1 of them so i told her how i felt, but she has a bf. after she said that i said it's kind of awkward talking to her. she said not to worry and she'll forget about it. i'm ok with that because i wasn't deeply inlove with her anyway. but now i think i'm starting to like her friend, she seems real nice and always calls me cute and i say the same to her. is it too sudden to say i like her? note: she doesnt have a boyfriend (link)
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im sorry things didnt work out with you and the first girl. you must have been bummed.. now itz good your getting over her. but it seems like your trying to replace your feelings for her with another girl. slow down!!!!! take a little time to get to know the girl and really see if you like her alot and if you really cant go with out her tell her.. but if you can it's always best not to travel around a group of friends.
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juliee my ex boyfriend, hm lets call him gary, is a loser. and you know it very well. i'm just not sure if i want to be friends with "gary" in the future. i know it wont be the near future because well like i said, hes a jerk ass, but i kinda feel bad about what people are saying to him because they're taking it way too far. and i miss being able to talk to him so i just dont know.. hes actually being nice to me about this whole thing so should i give him another chance at being friends? and jeez julie if you tell me to listen to my heart again, i'll kick you. (link)
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honestly i dont think you should stay mad at this boy for ever. everyone makes mistakes, and holding a grudge for a long time isnt healthy. Now i see your talking things out with him, and thats good but mabey the best thing for your friendship will be time.. you need to take a break off this boy before you jump right back into his big life of confusion and mistakes. so take a break and once your a little bit more comfterable about everything you can slowly do things to see how much you can trust him. and once you feel as though he has regained your trust a bit you two will become friends again. And also if you feel your friends are acting to strongly about it tell them that you appreciate it but you would rather them just talk to you then be mean to gary...
well i hopes this helps
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