I'm a 20yr old female and my boyfriend is 21. To try to cut it short i've never met his parents but they hate me they tell him i'm using him and manipulating just every bad thing. We've been dating for almost 6 months we've been best friends for a little over a year we have everything in common but his parents they want us to break up it's his first serious relationhip and i just think that his parents are worried we want to fix the problem with his parents and i but we aren't sure how. another problem is he can't stand up to his parents thanks for your time please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mishieFACE answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 9:52 pm: I know what your dealing with. My parents are the same way right now with my boyfriend its hard cuz i dont know what to say to them to make them realize how much i care about him. We've broken up because of them but are now back together. You are 20 yrs old! You are an adult and so is he! You should be able to make your own decisions and if it gets to the point where you both are talking about marriage then forget his parents! Its your decision if you love eachother eventually they should go along with the idea of having you in the family.
snowbird answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 2:24 pm: Well I hate to be the one to tell you but sometimes things cant be fixed. Ive been married for 7 years and my inlaws still hate me. No particular reason, they just do. And my husband is very good at standing up to his mother.
Try for a bit but if you think they dislike you just because they think noone is good enough for you son you just have to accept it as much as it sucks. You cant make someone like you.
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jewelzx0 answered Monday May 15 2006, 11:47 pm: im sorry they dont like you and things arent going the way you hoped.. now i know you dont want to hear this but mabey it's best you see someone else whos parents wont be so quick to judge you, because the worst thing EVER would for them to go all parental control on you.. ahah. or mabey you should try and convince them how sweet you really are, and tell them how much you care for their son.
well i hope this helps
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