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hey everyone! im caitt♥ yes, im only 13, but trust me ive been through alot. from parents getting divorced, to bad relationships, to losing friends, to people from my family passing away, to my whole family being on a hitlist. so yeah you can pretty much ask me anything. i usually get a chance to get on this site at least once a day. dont hesitate to ask me questions. send me something in my inbox and your question will be answered the same day! also if you add me as a favorite columnist, i automatically add you because you added me =]. thanks for reading. byee♥
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What attracts guys to girls? Like what personality traits or whatever?
hey, go to http://www.links2love.com
also flirty girls who make the first move and stuff usually attract guys.
-caitt
hi i finished my boyfriend today as i havent seen him since tuesday but i have only been going out with him for a week anyway and dont know him as well as i would like if i had a boyfrined. but i finished him as he used to go out with my best friend ages ago but they decided that they would be frineds instead although they absolutly hate each other now!! and if i had still have been going out with him i would have had to see them both separatly and i didnt want that! and people alway say that you should chose you friends over you boyfriends but i think i have realy hurt him and hes a bit anoyed with me do you thik i have done the right thing??? i have said i still want to talk to him but he dosent seem to keen.
hey, well go with your gut feeling. if you feel likebreaking up with him was the right thing to do for you, then it probably was. friendship is more important then a relationship with a guy.
-caitt
Is a Metropolis Cermaic flat iron good?
I need help finding sites with reviews about it.
Please don't recommend other straightners.
hey, yepp it works good for me. i have it =].
-caitt
13/f
Ok. I dont know why, but My abbs are all deformed looking. Well, I guess I shouldn't say "abbs" It is more like, my almost flat stomach. I dont have a problem with the upper part of my stomach its just the part below my stomach that looks "poochy." Does anyone have any ideas about what kind of exersizes to do or how I can get rid of this?
Thanks
hey, do sit-ups and run around the block.
-caitt
hey, thanks for reading.
so i'm working at a summer camp this year and i became really great friends with this kid, josh. we started talking online and last night i hung out with him , his sister and her boyfriend, and his sisters best friend. ( i know his sister and her best friend really well .) so we went out to eat and hung out for a little and then saw a movie. we sat next to eachother , and we were both kind of leaning towards eachother on the arm rest, but we werent touching or anything. today he called me and we were talking about the movie , and he goes, so my sister was pretty convinced we were on a date last night, do you know anything about that? and i just kind of laughed and said i didnt think it was either. i am really beginning to like him, he's two years older but it seems like we click really well.
what do you think? i'd really appreciate opinions, good or bad.
thanks:)
hey, well first off age doesnt matter. i know people might tell you that it does, but if your in love age def. doesnt matter. anyways if you guys click well then i would continue seeing each other.
-caitt
I dont have many work out things. I have a punching bag 15 pound weights and one of those bike things. I would really like to build some muscel and stay healthy because right now im not very healthy. I am thin and have an alright body shape but im still not healthy. I would like to gain some muscel and if any way possable make my but look a little bigger and rounder and also eat healthyer!
please help me with some ideas of how i can do this
hey, use whatever you have for work out things. eat heathy. eat every meal. eat responibly. dont skip meals because your body will go into starvation mode. do situps and use soem hand weights. if you have a pool swim some laps.
-caitt
my sister thinks she's pregnant...do U think she is???
hey, are you serious?! you didnt give any facts or anything. what am i suppose to do, friggen guess?!
-caitt
i know there's a lot of these questions, sorry.
ok so i'm getting my physical soon, and i'd like to loose a few pounds before it. i know to drink tons of water, and stay off junk food, and eat fruit for snacks, but is there any other things i could do to loose weight quicker? i'm going to the doctors in about 2 days, maybe, but if not then, sometime soon. i'd like to loose about 7ish pounds. hopefully it won't be tuesday, but it'll be sometime soon. thanks for any help!
hey, well you have the eating thing down good. now you just need to take runs around the block. also tone youreself, like do sit-ups and maybe use some hand weights. if you have a pool swim some laps.
-caitt
I don't understand why boys my age think I'm not that pretty but then guys 6 years older then me think I'm soo sexy. I can't find a boyfriend my own age but then I find a boyfriend whos 5 years older then me who thinks I'm gorgeous and loves me !! When my dad is driving me to somewhere and I feel like waiting in the car all of these 20 year olds park their car right next to my dads and they stare at me and start whistling and then honk at me when they drive away and start waving. But then I walk into school and the boys that are in my school could care less about me. I don't get it!!! Why are guys 10 years older then me think I'm attractive and random dudes come up to me saying I'm hot when they are like 22 and the ones my age think I'm just okay?!!?
hey, im not sure. try asking the guys your age what they dont like about you. also havign a boyfriend 5 years older then you isnt a bad thing. age doesnt matter, even tho people always say it does.
-caitt
ok. i pluck my eyebrows, and it leaves like a mark of some kind, that shows that i pluck my eyebrows. it's like, a lighter shade of my color. how can i get rid of this?
hey, start getting your eyebrows waxed. i know it sounds more painful, but in reality its much better and worth it.
-caitt
Last night I found out that my close friend slept over my boyfriends house. He didn't tell me that she was going to even though I was with him all day. That really anonyed me because he doesn't even want me to come to his dad house (it's a 30 minute drive from here & he says he hates it there) The girl is one of my close friends, but I know her well and she tends to almost act like they're going out by doing little things like touching his arm and getting really close to him (and she has a boyfriend) I can flat out say I trust him but I don't trust her especially because she lets other guys do stuff to her and lies to her boyfriend all the time. Yes, their good friends but why was she sleeping over his house in the first place? It just seems odd. Do I have the right to be mad? I want to get back at him so bad for not telling me .. idk what to do ):
hey, yep you should be mad at him. first let him try to explain himself. also explain to your friend that you dont feel comfortbale with them doing that.
-caitt
I read a really sad thing about an abused dog throughout so many years and it made me cry and think about my puppy...and now i cant seem to get it off of my mind...any advice on how to let this go?
hey, just think about how lucky your puppy is to have a nice owner like you.
-caitt
i find myself takeing things to seroiusly and overeacting and i am barely ever happy. and im only 13 and its summer and i want to have the best time of my life. any advice on how to be more happy and forget about the hard thigns and life. And im always thinking about life and it makes me upset because i feel im growing up to fast because im more mature than i probally should be but i just want to have fun and live but i always find myself down any help on to be more happy hyper smiley?
hey, make plans to hang out with your friends alot. maybe plan a little trip to like somewhere local with a big group of friends.
-caitt
okay well i went on an italy trip and when we were in the vatican we were in some church and i said god dammit...is that like a one way ticket to hell? i usually dont beleive some sins wouldnt get me into heaven or if theres even a heaven at all but cursing in the vatican? im also afraid if i tell a preist theyll like ounch me in the face
please tell me if im deff. going to hell or how bad that really is or anythiung
hey, well god dammit in the vatican is pretty bad. i do think that you should confess to a priest. it will help wash the sin away.
-caitt
14/F
Ok...well I have had just some discharge over the past maybe 6 months...so all of the sudden it got a little thicker like I'm having more than I used to. So do I wear a panti-liner or what??? And also I was wondering if because it got thicker if I'm going to start my period soon because I have all the signs so?...umm...what?
Please answer need as many as I can get! ;]
hey, yes i think you should wear a pantiliner. it could mean that your getting your period but it might not be.
-caitt
umm this is an old song and i only know a part to it but i want to put it on my myspace and i know one verse to it its ''Shot through the heart and your to late you give love a bad name'' its like an old band, but i think its like rock or punk music
hey, im not sure the name of it but its by def leopard.
-caitt
ok.i broke my finger.long story how but any way.i got a splint or brace on it and i cant take it of except when i take a shower and that is every single day.well when i take it off the splint it smells like dirty shoes.i washed my hands over and over and the smell goes away but as soon as i put my finger back in the splint it smells again.i tried washing the brace but that does not work.i was wondering if there r any ways 2 get the smell gone.
thanxxxs
hey, when i had my splint on i sprayed mine with febreeze. also after you get out fo the shower let the splint "air out" for a while.
-caitt
what are some other good stores that have clothes like forever21, ae, hollister, delias, charlotte russe, abercrombie?
hey, wet seal and ella.
-caitt
I want to buy this wallet, but its playboy. 14f, im not a slut or anything, but is is kind of lesbian, or saying that I AM going to become a playboy bunny by sporting around a playboy bunny purse?
heres the pic:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&rd=1&item=280011575630&ssPageName=STRK:MEWA:IT&ih=018
please, help me
hey, no it doesnt make you look lkea lesvbian or a playboy. its prefectly fine
-caitt
Does anyone know what designers use to make their clothes is called? and please don't say models. But it's like a torso on a stand. Is it a mannequin?
hey, nope its not a mannequin. its called a form.
-caitt