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Well I sent a comment on this one guys myspace and for some reason it didn't get through to him and I don't know why! So I was wondering if anyone knew why that is???
Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanx in advance!:)

Its been doing that to me too lately. I think tom is updating some stuff. Maybe he has a blog/bulletin/or an update saying why. I know how you feel... I wrote a very long comment to someone the other day and it didn't go through. But I'd suggest looking for toms update or contacting him.

Goodluck.

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Can anyone who has read the Gossip Girl books (FIRST!) and watched the show (AFTER!) tell me if the two or anything alike? Or does the show just completely ruin everything the book held up? I want to know if this is a show I might want to watch. I've read all the books, by the way.

Dan isn't as dark as myseterious. Not poetic or a smoker-that I've seen so far. Jenny doesn't have huge boobs, I haven't seen Blair being bulimic. Its a cool series and I like it so far, but its only been 2 episodes so far. I hope it follows the book more as it goes on... Because right now its leaving out a few details. Its less descriptive.

You may like it though, so check it out!

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hey people!!
okay i like rock/emo/techno music.
and i'm looking for some new bands.
like:
head autimatica.
the medic droid.
family force 5.
like bands that a lot of people havn't heard of...

stuff like that.
thanks so much

You may like:
Rise Against
AFI
Blaqk Audio
She Wants Revenge
Still Life Projector
Black Maria
It Dies Today

Hope you like.

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I've been so tired for a little over a week...almost constantly. I'll sleep 12-20 hours then stay up 5 and be exhausted. And its not BAD sleep...thats what gets me. I'm sleeping really well, and I have vivid dreams. It surprises me that I actually remember them.

I didn't use to be like this...it sorta came out of no where. Lol I use to be the opposite - staying up 20ish hours.

Gah...I just don't know whats wrong!
I searched online and all I've found is Narcolepsy...but that can't be it, can it? I've never been this way before...

16/f

Any idea whats wrong or how I can fix it?

You could have seasonal depression that's getting you down physically. It could even just be a sleeping problem you've aquired.
Go to a doc to ask him. He'll have more answers and be more accurate.

Goodluck.

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So this is how the conversation over facebook went...


me:We were having such a good conversation in the courtyard, i was hoping we could continue it with an exchange of numbers.

her:ohh really?..wellllll maybe you'll be brave enough to ask me for it next time.

me:haha ouchh, i was brave enough to walk up and talk to a good looking stranger, that deserves at least the first 3 digits...

her:hahah.. oooh a compliment and everythingg im gunna have to think about that

Keep it up... Your doing a good job and she likes your sense of flirting. She knows you're into her and wants you to keep up the chase. She's flaunting herself in front of you and that she likes you, but she's not so easy to get so you must show her more. Let her know you, and win the girl.

Goodluck!

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hey guys..well, lately I've been getting into like Electronic music. Some artists that I'm like obsessed with :

Imogen Heap
Frou Frou
Ladytron
Kraftwerk
Yello..

does anyone know more like these? :)

I don't know if you'll like them, but I'm crazy for Blaqk Audio. Its two people from the band AFI. They just had their first album out last month.
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So lets say Bob is in my chemistry class. me and bob sit next to each other, he is a year younger than i am. he has gone to school with me for a while, but we never really talked. So bob will like kick me, hit me with his id string, hit me when im trying to take notes, he will try and knock my stuff (books and papers) off my desk onto the floor, he always takes my papers but gives them back after, and he was going on about how many things he has (like a boat and a car), and sometimes hes not that annoying. Today he kept stabbing me with a pen, and he asked me for my number and was like yeah we can text each other all the time. and he wrote his name on my notebook. like the front. so would you say that bob likes me? or is just friendly/annoying?
thnx in advance.

Boy, I hoper your not in high school...otherwise this boy needs to take his Ritalin! Anyways, a few things that lead me to believe he likes you is that he told you he has a boat and a car (guy like to impress girls they like), and that he asked you for your number. As for his ADHD thing... If that's your type cool, if not, let him down easy.

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Hi, i was wondering,what really is the purpose of the extra padding on the panties where the girls (areas) would be?

For comfort and so you don't have irritation. Some women get yeast infections from irritation and non-cotton underwear. That's why the extra material there is usually cotton. Hope this answers your question.

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okayyy so i have darkkk brown hair.. with some blonde on the top. my hair was alllll dark almost black before and when i bleached it, it turned out like a yellowy blonde... obviously.. i've had it like this for about a month today. and now i want to dye it back darkk. like almost black.. but i cant get an appointment soon, so i want to do it myself.. well if i put dye over it it will easily dye it darkk right? since i'm putting a darkker color over it.. or will it turn out like orange?
my ex boyfriend had blonde in his hair like towards the back and i dyed it alll dark brown with dye from the store and it turned out fine.. but his blonde was more whitish platnium.. mine is like yellowy sorta.. is it gonna make a difference???
help..?

My friend bleached my hair a year ago and it turned a yellowish color. I dyed it back to my natural color-dark dark brown 2 weeks later and went to school the next day with brownISH hair that was green in the sun! It was so horrible. Since then I've dyed my hair like 4 times black. It stayed for a couple weeks then went back to a orangeish tinge. STILL I have my ends orangeish, but people think its highlights now. I had so much trouble because the color always faded and never stayed. I tried stripping the bleached color out of my hair, getting it professionally dyed, did it myself, dyed it and did a color rinse, etc. Such a pain!

I hope it works out better for you!!

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What does it mean when people go, "Hey you with the face"? I know an example is "Hey you with the hair" meaning someone with a cool haristyle is being called but for face does it mean your facial expression (smiles,frowns,etc.) or troubling features like acne. Someone said that to me and said hi but I'm wondering if that "hi" was a fake one to make me feel good. So if it was my look I'm good but if it was my face I'm gonna ignore people who says stuff like that to me =/.

I use to say that and see who would turn around! Its funny because everyone turns around thinking you're talking about them til they realize how dorky they look falling for it along with like 10 other people.
He was probably joking to see who would turn around, and you did, so he felt obligated to say hi to you. Nothing personal.

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Monday is "Character Day" at my school, anyone have any cool or fun ideas of characters I could be? Blonde hair, green eyes, 5'5", normal weight if that helps with any ideas or anything. :] thanks!

If you want to be funny you can be tore up brittney spears, or if not you could be Alice from alice in wonderland.
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Goodluck & Have fun!

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My boyfriend and I both work at Six Flags, and we're both seventeen years old. On October 4th, we're going to an employee party and we wanted to dress up for the costume contest. The two ideas we had in mind, were:

- Fifties couple.
- Bacon & Eggs.
[http://www.spirithalloween.com/index.cfm/fuseaction/products.detail/categoryID/66EEC82B-8D52-4DBE-93F9-28D6C0F1C6AD/productID/766701EA-C27A-4509-AE20-E24A64A01F9E?UTM_Campaign=FR&CAWELAID=52226658]
That's the picture to the bacon & eggs costume, so you can get an idea of what it would look like. Me and my boyfriend are known for being funny, so I think we'd be able to pull off the bacon & eggs thing, yet, I think the fifties couple would be nicer in a way.

We'd also, probably go trick or treating with his little sister, so we'd wear it then. Also, there's events downtown where people dress up, so yeah.

Any ideas would be appreciated. We'd like to dress up as like, things that go together. Not like separate if that makes sense.
(: Thank you very much.

A few I thought were funny were gangster imposters, white trash, or a couple of nerds.
But if you decide you want to go cute- prince+princess.

Goodluck& Have fun!

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k so i had my homecoming last night and i had a date but he got suspeneded the day before so he couldn't go but i also had a thing going with my friend who took this other girl that i hate. At homecoming my friend and i ended up making out and his date, including my date who got suspended friends are very mad at me and him. I don't know what to do it fix it all and convince everyone that i'm not a slut and it was a mistake. How can i make it up to my date that got suspended? PLEASEE HELP!

Honestly, I think that was some of the best possible advice you could have gotten on this situation. I agree 100% and could explain it any better than she did. Hope you take her advice!

Goodluck!

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im a trannyboy...well working on it ;)
im only 14 so yeah thats why im still "working on it"
so im biologically female...for some brief background info.
now to the question...
me and my g/f have been dating now for a little over 4 months
we are doing great and i love her so much...and she feels the same way back.
i would like to do something to make her smile,something really sweet but i cant think of anything,any ideas people?

If she likes music- make a mix cd of all the songs that make you think of her. Like the soundtrack of when you look into her eyes. =)
Orrr... A funny cute thing could be to have a candle-lit dinner at McDonalds or some fast food place. Its something she'd never expect. Cheezy yet thoughtful. Just make sure you OK it with the place first! You'd set it up before she came so she's surprised. Lol.
..Or You can buy her a little tiara and make her wear it all day, saying she's your princess.

My ideas are pretty much cheezy... But cheezy enough to make someone smile.

Goodluck with this, and with your transformation!

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can you have sex while you're on your period?
what are the effects if you do?

I've heard that it feels more sensational... But like the other person said, messy.
Some people like it, & some have a hard time with it and can't take the messy bedding or chance of getting pregnant.

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I heard a song on the radio and it talks about my chance, its on KROQ alot (if anyone listens to that)

I listen to KROQ. You must be in SoCal...?? Anyways, I don't know this answer but I'll keep an ear open for it and let you know if I get an answer for you.

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Okayyy--
Lets see here'
i want to be a site model for those contest sites, i site model for like to but thats it x(
aha; im sure you have heard of whitney or whitney wreckless whatever she is my space famous and site models for every site!
dude thats what id like to do anything you can think of like how to get people to want me to site model for there site?

anything please thankks :))

I don't know too much about this site modeling, but I'd suggest sending them a few photos of you. If they like you, they'll contact you and ask you to become their site model. I'd send out pics to all the places you want to hire you.

Goodluck!

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what is the average height for 12 years old girls?

Its a big range because that's when the growth spurt occurs. My younger sister is 12 and about 5'3, she hasd friends that are like 4'9, and some that are 5'8.
This answer may have confused you a bit more-Lol- but I hope I helped!

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i'm 16 and have had the same hairstyle for ages, i have long layered straigh brown hair, i have a side fridge, which isnt a propper one because my hair is naturally in a side parten because on my cows lick, i can't have a fringe or anything because of my cows lick because it sticks up to much

does anyone have any ideas or hair tips that i could use
would be much appreciated =D

Use some pomade or hair wax. Bed Head has some and got2b have some that's good. One smells like oranges. Anyways, if you use a little to make your cowlick hair stay down, it'll probably stay. I use it for my cowlicks. Lol.

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is there anyway to not sweat so much...during sports i sweat like crazy and its soo gross. pleazzz help

To a certain extent sweating is needed. It's a normal part of your body's cleansing system (We sweat about 1/4 a cup of sweat into our shoes without any physical activity all day...imagine how much it is WITH physical).
So it sounds like these people already answered your question, I just thought I'd add to it by saying this.
Oh, and by the way they have some powder you can sprinkle in your shoes to stop tons of feet sweating.- Lol- I sound foot obsessed.

GLuck.

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