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Hmm.. What kind of advice can I give? Any kind you'd like. Advice on relationships (all types) Getting out of trouble(my specialty) Sarcasim is always fun.
Giving advice is something I do best, I'll awnser any question you'd like, unless they're stupid and extremely pointless ones.
About me?- I like playing basketball, I'm still in Highschool, doing things that will get me in trouble, but always being good enough to get out of it.
My friends mean the world to me, without them I don't know what'd I do.
I could go on, but I don't think I will.
Anyways, if you do ask me questions, try to hold back on tYpInG lyK diZ N sTuFf alright. Other than that Anything you want to know I'll do my best to help with :)
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Hey, on my column..I used to have MORE ratings, but now I have a ton less. What happened?
If you haven't visited your site in a while, they kind of clear them off and make youstart over.
hey, im 14 (gunna be 15 in February) and i dont have my period...i know u can get it as late as 16 and not to worry but i have boobs and im pretty developed, could there be anyother reason thats harmful for not getting your period, like having a disease or something? pleas help...ill rate ya good!!! thx
No, there's no need to worry, your period will come soon enough. And chances are, you'll get more developed when you do get your period. It's compeltly normal not to get your period, sometimes it comes as late as 17 even! So no worries!
hey heres my problem...whenever i shave my bikini line i get lots of red bumps every where around the area i shaved, someone told me there ingrown hairs, but what can i do about it? I dont want laser hair removal and i really dont want to go get it waxed. Does anybody have any little tricks they want to share so i dont get these little red bumps?
It's normal to get those bumps, you're just shaving in the wrong direction, and it's also probably razor burn, you when you get them on your legs too, don't forget to use soap. But also go in the opposite direction from the direction you normally go in...uh, if that makes sense.
I've been dating this guy for over a month now. Not very many people know about us because i know they wont accept us. I really want to tell people, but im afraid of their reaction.
Not many ppl like him cause he smokes pot and stuff like that. I was going to tell my older sister, but she said if its something shes not going to like .. dont tell her...
I sneak out a lot at night to see him. I'm talkin about 11:00 pm or midnight until 3 or 4 am. I dont get much sleep at night, and i have to get up EARLY (5:00am) for work.
What should I do? Should we just go ahead and tell people about us? or should we just keep dating "in the dark" Also, is there any other way we could see each other without being "caught"
You should definatly come out with it. You shouldn't hide your relationship just becuase you're scared of what others think. This is between ya'll two, not anyone else.If they don't like it, it's too bad, if they don't talk to you over it, they werent' real friends in the first place. People might crtisize you for it, but if he's worth it you should definatly take the chance.
My best friend likes this one guy, but secretly I like him, and I think he likes me! I read in her diary, which she let me read, trhat she was mad for him! What can i do!
Ohhh that's a tough desision. But be carful, I got into this with one of my good friends sometime last year, it's NOT worth messing up a BEST friendship... you don't want to do that, a guy you like isn't worth fighting over, I had to learn that the hard way.
I had sex 5 days ago, and im still bleeding from it. at first i thought maybe it was just my period, so i treated it as that. my period only lasts for 4 days, so i dont think its that.
Is there something i could have had torn during sex that would cause me to bleed this long?
It may be that he popped your cherry... I don't think it would make you bleed that much though.. it might just be your period, or it could be that.
okay i love singing and i sing alot... i think i have a good voice.. and so do most of my friends.. i dunno if i should risk it and try out for a talent show. or sing at a party.. im worried ill mess up>... should i risk it.. or just sing when im just with me and my best budies?
Risk it! If it's something you want to take a step further, it's all about the risks. It's always worth taking risks, even if you don't make it, you'll know you tried.
If most of your friends think you're good then you should definatly go for it, chances are..alot of the people wil think you're good too.
how d'u become a moderator?
50 or more questions, be on the site for it least a month,(I think) and over an average of 4
If you want to read more about it... then go to the HELP section. It'll tell you all you need to know.
What is a moderator?
A moderator is someone who can rate the questions, you have a little more freedom I guess, level II moderators, and the level III one, have more control than the others.
Go to your HELP section... it'll tell you all you want to know.
Hi i have a gf and her 16th birthday is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get her.. I was thinking like a necklace with a heart on it... Do u have any suggestions?
Depending on how long ya'll have been going out a necklace would be nice. Also, I think she would like it (I think any girl would) if you did somethign sweet for her, like do something out of the ordinary, suprise her in some way. If you don't know about the necklace, some parfume would be nice too.
I got my first period over a year ago, July 2003. I have gotten 4-6 periods when i should have had 12. i go long periods of time without getting a period. Like I got one in December and my next one was in March. I have one like every 3-4 months and what really sux about it is that when i actually do get them its not the same day of the month. My first one was on the 1st but i've gotten them anytime of the month. Im really skinny and some ppl say if u dont have alot of body fat it messes up ur periods.. is that true?
thanx... kt
There's nothing to even worry about! You're just now starting off with your period really, not having a regular cycle is normal. In your case it just doesn't come around as often which is good. Soon it will start going on a normal cycle, in the meantime, nothing to worry about!
this year im totally changeing.. im wearing more make up and way more PiNkK.. but does n e one think that i will be made fun of bec im changeing.. thanx i rate
No, not at all, you're changing your style, it doesn't mean you're changing who you are. And make sure they're aware of that, and they know that you're still the same person, you just want a new look.
this year im totally changeing.. im wearing more make up and way more PiNkK.. but does n e one think that i will be made fun of bec im changeing.. thanx i rate
No, not at all, you're changing your style, it doesn't mean you're changing who you are. And make sure they're aware of that, and they know that you're still the same person, you just want a new look.
okay, this mite be weird, especially cuz i can't think of all the lyrics and i mite get them messed up, but does ne1 kno this song..
what would u do if ur son was lyin at home all alone cuz he's hungry, and the only way to feed him is to....
im pretty sure i messed up the lyrics, but it's just been drivin me CRAZY!! thanks in advance!!
"What would you do" by City High
theres this song that i know and it goes "it was 1980 somthin in a town that i grew up in.........." do you kno who it's by!!! i rate good plezz help!!
Mark Wills- 1980 somethin'
That's who it's by, and I'm almost ceartain that's what it's called.
hey..
What kinds of clothes and accessories do you suggest getting for back to school things? I am entering high school this year and I want to know what you all think! Also..it would be nice if you had any tips for fashion in high school or any tips on high school in general!? Thanks so much!
Alright, highschool isn't going tobe too big of a transaction. Basically, you should wear what you did in Jr. High, there's no need to change. I don't have any different stores that people didn't already name off, except maybe Pac Sun, and Buckle.
When you go to highschool you don't need to act cool, but being outgoing is the BEST way to make friends. You're going to make tons of new friends and probably grow distance from old ones. Just try to keep your group, and make it bigger. Don't be afraid to talk to people, most of them won't bite your head off. And don't be afraid to be different. Dress different, set trends in some sort of way. Just basically to survive highschool don't try to make other people happy, do what you want, and don't forget to have fun.
Hey guys! Okay well my column is really blahhhh...it's like brown and black and white..not too nice to look at, anyone kno how to make it all colorful and such ?? I can't figure it out !! Help me outtt =) thanks xoxo!!
Well now you're going to be able to do tons of things with it. The admin has done this new thing where you can design it to your liking. It'll be coming up really soon, I think you might be able to find it in the help section I'm not too sure yet.
I need to know who sings that song
" I don't wanna be anything other than
what I been tryin to be lately . All
I can do is think of me as a peace of
------- . I'm tired of lookin 'round
thinkin about what I gotta do or who I'm
supposed to be . I don't wanna be anything
other than me".
It's the song off of 'One Tree Hill'
Gavin Degraw- I don't wanna be
An awesome song. "Chariot" is a good one by him too
Ok lets start with this i have been dating my boy friend for a year and a half. But for some reason i want to hurt him. I dont know why though I write weird stuff about him then the next morning i dont even remember writeing that. Or being mad at him. When he asks me to call him i say no he asks why i say i dont know, When he asks for a kiss i push him away. Me and him have kids together and im ingaged to him. And im happy very happy with my choice but latley iv been wanting to be mad at him and wanting to hurt him. He is a very nice smart kind funny sweet guy and he wont do anything wrong to diserve it. But iv just wanted to. What triggers it most the time is when he is with his friends hanging out talking about other girls and stuff and he doesnt mention me. And that he will pick on my favorite bands and movies and stuff. But i also say that this other guy is cute to so it gives him rights to say that about other girls. If you can help me please please help!!
Well, more than likley it comes from you being bi-polar. I know a few people who are bi-polar and it is, as you know, something that causes drastic mood swings. You should go to a doctor to take pills for that. That's more than likley the problem. If it's not, then maybe you're just feeling frustrated over being around him so much, and you need some space away from him. Just try and remember ya'll are both not going to agree on everything, so if he doesn't like your bands it's alright. I think it would help if you went to the doctor and got some medicine to help you out, if you have it, then just make sure you're taking it. OR just spend some time away from him, go on a vacation by yourself maybe with a few of your close friends.
when i go into my own advice column it says rated: 0 times and average rating: 0 . but if i go to view feed back i have three 5`s , so why does it still say i wasnt rated? how do i fix it?
It's nothing you can really fix, it will be updated very soon, it doesn't come up right away, it takes some time.