hey everyone! i'm from france. i'm in high school. i'm alright at giving advice so if you ever need any help i'll do the best i can! i'll check this pretty often so that i can be the best advice giver i can get, peace and love
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is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone? (link)
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hey! it depends on a lot of things. it depends on how you flirt, how much you flirt, if your guy flirts, and most importantly if your guy is OK with you flirting with other guys. if hes ok with it and you dont "overflirt" then you should be fine. peace and love!
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hey..i like my boyfriend...but i miss my ex alot... and i think i still love him... but i still like my boyfrind...should i break up with my boyfriend since i like some1 else? or try t get over my ex? because for some odd reason my boyfriend likes me alot and i dont want to hurt him... please help me... ill rate high... (link)
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hey! its a tough situation. listen to your heart and find out which one you like the most, and which you would have a chance with. so if you like your bf better, then get over your ex, maybe its hard because you went out with him for a long time or maybe because you liked him for a long time before you guys went out. if you decide to get over your ex, remember why you guys broke up in the first place, things were probably not going too well. however, if you find out that you like your ex more, then find out who he likes and break up with your bf, cause he wouldnt be pleased to know that you went out with him even though you liked another guy better. be honest with yourself and with the guys that you like, its the best way to go. hope this helped, peace and love!
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alright the guy who is like a bro to me asked me out what should i do btw i like some1 else who flirts with me alot.
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hey! if you dont like your friend in that way, then dont make him think that you do. tell him that you like him more as a brother. things might get weird between you too, which is why you should try to make him still be confortable around you after you tell him no. for the guy that you like, flirt with him as well, but try not to do it in front of your other friend for a little while, to let him have some time to heal the wounds of your rejection to him. but dont go out with a guy if you dont like him as a boyfriend, he would be hurt to know that you did. if you wanna talk more, drop in a message, peace and love!
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If I start exercising almost every morning for 30-60 minutes by walking and I start doing Pilates and also start eating healthy, how long do you think it will take to lose some weight and get skinnier? Thanks!! :) (link)
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hey! it takes a few weeks to see the result. but you should see it result, what you're doing is good, if you're doing it on a daily basis you'll definitely become thinner in a few weeks. it takes time. peace and love!
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okay im about 125 lbs n i dont think im a fatty or anything but how can i lose wieght quickly and tone my body? (link)
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hey! exercise and watch what you eat. run or do some sport that you like. also, only eat healthy snacks like fruits. but exercising once a day or a couple times a week will definitely help you get your body in shape and you should see the result in a few weeks if you do it regularly. hope this helped, peace and love!
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i want to lose 10 lbs in 3 months cuz on my bday i am geting money adn i want to buy clothes but i want to look cute in them i am 118 and i waer size 5 but i am not satisified.oh i am short i am like 5'3 ish.. My question for you is this: A) is that unrealistic? B) anyideas on how i could do that?
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hey! you would look to thin if you lost 10 pounds. maybe lose like 5 or something i dont know. well, if you do wanna lose ten pounds in three months, you're guna have to exercize and watch what you eat. exercize atleast once a day. a good exercise to lose weight fast is running and always just jumping around and never stop moving. dont that for a while like 30-60 minutes depending on how much you're able to exercize and how much time you have on your hands. also, if you have time, try to so some exercises where you tend to gain the pounds. for example if its your stomach then do crunches in addition. for your diet, try not to eat snacks, and if you have to, then try to eat healthy snacks like fruits or yogurt or something like that. dont stop eating fatty foods, your body needs them, but eat a little bit of everything. eat fruits and veggies, meats and fish and pasta from time to time. try not to drink soda except from time to time, like on week-ends only or something like that. if you follow this, then you will lose the extra pounds. but once you lost them, if you wanna stay the way you are, keep on exercizing and still watch what you eat. maybe not as much as before so that you dont keep losing weight, just so that you stay the way you are. hope this helps, but dont over do it! peace and love!
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Why is giving others mean advice actually considered ***FUN***, yes, it's not a typo, some people considers it fun. However sick and disgusting that is, I would like to know why? (link)
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hey! i understand what you mean. its because people can be stupid and have nothing else better to do. its their idea of a fun time, although it doesnt help anyone, not even them. they are very bored by their lives, and thought about something to do, couldnt think of it, and therefore did this. dont let them get to you. peace and love!
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ok, i love this guy "John", but we currently arent together. but yet i still love him. and a freind of mine is trying to get me back together with one of my ex's "David". i mean, i like David, and would love to date him again, but i would feel ba cuz i cant give him my whole heart like i did last time, cuz i am in love with John. so i dont know what to do, me and David are still really close and are soooo alike, and i guess his friend picked up on it, and i dont know what to do, cuz, if i wait around for john, and thigns dont work, i could miss out on David, and vice versa. so someone please help me!!!! (link)
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hey! dont let others tell you who you should date. listen to your own heart. if you really dont know, then see if you have a chance with john, if you dont then go with david. vice versa if you like david more. but you probably like one guy more than the other, so choose that one! if you're not sure, just wait and see how things go with both of them and who you get closer to (bf/gf wise). hope i helped, peace and love!
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I haven't had my period for about two months or so..and I've been showing all the signs for having my period ( cramps, pmsing, extra discharge..the usual ) so I started wearing my pads..but it hasn't come for a while..like the signs have stopped for a week? Is this normal? (link)
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hey! yeah, at your age its normal cause its not regualr at all. it was the same for me. even though you're showing the signs and not getting your period, its still normal, dont worry, theres nothing wrong with you. hope i helped, peace and love!
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ok im 12/f and not very popular but im not a loser and i like this one guy and hes popular and we flirt all the time and talk a lot and but he doesnt really act like he likes me its like all he wants to do is flirt and thats it but i really like him...what should i do to try and send him hints that i like him more like a boyfriend then just someone to flirt with
o yea my friend likes him to but like weve talked about how it would be ok to date this guy if he ever asked either of us out... sorry this is long thanks... (link)
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hey! continue to flirt with him and talk with him. in class, maybe you could pass notes to him or something and sit next to him in class. during lunch, go up to him and start a conversation. invite him to do stuff with you and a couple friends. he should get it with these hints. otherwise, just tell him that you like him, it will hurt if he says no, but you'll never had that regret of the "what if i had...." hope i helped, peace and love!
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Well see i'm 15 and i'm a female and i'm not going out with this guy, but i gave him head and he ate me out at a football game in the back of his van. I was caught up in the moment and now everyone is calling me a slut. I have no idea of what to do, should i stick up for myself or just ignore them. The advice would be very helpful. thanks! (link)
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hey! by ignoring them you are standing up for yourself in a way. my advice to you is to ignore them. after a while they will get bored of saying that stuff about you if they see that it has no affect on you. and something else will come by, and they will forget about what you did at the football game. it will eventually just be a bad memmory of them saying that stuff about you, and if you ignore them, they should stop pretty quickly. hope i helped, peace and love!
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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".
I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?
Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.
Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.
So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.
what do you think?
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hey! its true that life isnt fair when you think of the guys that beat up their gf and they love them, but you cant do anything about it. there is probably a girl out there waiting for you. you're not the only one without a gf, many people dont have gf/bf when they're your age. but dont give to try to find a girl, maybe you're too obssessed with finding one right now and that blows it all. but whatever you do, dont stop to look out for a girl, there has to be someone out there that will be worthy of you love, and you will be worthy of theirs. dont give up hope, you'll find someone! hope i helped, peace and love!
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i love my boyfriend VERY much, but hes always So down on himself. he calls himself stupid, ugly, and says he doesnt deserve me ALL THE TIME. when i talk to him about it, he says his mom is always putting him down and he feels like hes nothing and he has no future and he feels like hes just going to bring me down if i stay with him. i want to be with him forever.... but its hard to deal with him always putting himself down. he tries not to but sometimes it slips. i really wish i could make him love himself. What can i do? Im almost 16, female.... (link)
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hey! tell him you love him for who he is and that you wouldnt be with him if he was stupid and nothing. make him feel like he deserves you and that you truly care about him. its hard to deal with those people, but you probably know him better than anyone, if anyone can make him love himself, you can! just try your best. it will make a difference no matter what yuo do, cause he knows that you have tried because you care. you can do it! peace and love!
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i'm 15/f and i want to have sex with my bf. am i too young? i dont know, he is pressuring me to do it, but i want to. well, i am not sure. help me please. (link)
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hey! dont have sex if you're not sure, especially if it with a guy thats pressuring you to do it. tell him about how you feel, if he understands, then he's great. if he doesntm, then be glad you didnt do it with a guy thats not worth it. plus you have your whole life ahead of you to have sex, so why do it if you're only 15? hope i helped, peace and love!
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i can never find a good guy for me. all my friends are going out with a guy, but me. is there something wrong with me? am i not good for a guy? please help me (link)
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hey! ofcourse you're good enough for a guy! your friends just have found a guy that they like and likes them back. maybe there just arent any guys your type out there yet. maybe you havent found them and they havent found you. so dont give up, some day you'll find a guy that will like you for you. there is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend. most of my friends dont have a boyfriend right now and that doesnt mean that they arent great inside and out! hope i helped, peace and love!
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Me and my boyfriend are trying to get me pregnant but it seems to be not working. I just got out of collage and im living in an apartment with him and we have sex every other day .. it isnt working.. is there something I shouldnt be doing?
Thank you.
Victoria (link)
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hey! go see a doctor to see if theres something wrong with one of you. they'll find out and tell you. sometimes theres something that doesnt work with one of you, which doesnt necessarily mean that one of you is sick or anything, it might just mean that theres something that isnt doing its job. hope i helped, peace and love!
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Last night,I was at a hockey game with my dad and my girl (ex girlfriend now) called me and started cursing me out. She said somebody called her house and cursed her mom out,and her mom said it sounded like me,when it wasn't me who really did it. So she broke up with me and Heidi (my ex) is punished for a very long time. Her mom took away her cell phone,and a bunch of other crap,and Heidi simply refuses to speak a word to me. I don't know what to do. Should I:
1) Give her a couple of days and hope she'll listen to me when I try to explain to her it wasn't me that called her house (I have my dad as proof.)
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2) Just move on with my life
This girl means everything to me,and I would do anything to get her back,no matter what extremes I would have to take. I love this girl with all my heart and I really want her back. Please help me out. Thanks (link)
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hey! if Heidi loves you the way you do, then she will come to her senses and will want to here your side of the story. but do give her a couple days, girls tend to get mad and then theyc ant stop thinking about it, and then they think clear and come to a decision. what she thought happened probably really hurt her and she probably didnt know what to do so she called you and yelled at you. whatever you do, forgive her for acting this way and let her know that you'll love her no matter what it takes. make her feel wanted, but wait a couple days, maybe even 1-2 weeks for her to think things over. if you wanna talk more, drop a message, peace and love!
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hey.. my parents r super protective like they wont let me "date" 1 on 1 till im 16 and they have to meet him and all that crap..althou im dating now and its really hard to go out w. him kas i need to have my friends go w. me so my parents dont explode.. what can i do so i can go out w. him but not get in trouble.?
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hey! i've been single and double dating and i have found out that double dating is a lot more fun. maybe your parents will let you do that. its not dating 1 on 1, you can have a good time and a lot of fun. hope i helped, peace and love!
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I'm in my early twenties. I was raped as a teenager and never told my parents. Should I ever tell them? If they knew, they might be able to understand me better (I've got some psychological issues) but I don't want to upset them - if they knew, they'd be so so sad and would probably feel like it's their fault somehow. Is it worth it to tell them, or is this something that's best to keep from them? (link)
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hey, i'm sorry to hear that you were raped as a teenager. you should definitely tell them. they might be able to help you feel better about yourself, and even though you have told some people, you cant keep these things away from your parents. i dont know what you feel when you're around them, but i know that if that happened to me, i would always feel weird and guilty around them for not telling them. its like they're missing a part of you, tehir own daughter. i dont want to tell you what to do, you seem old enough to take your own decisions, but i strongly believe that should tell your parents about what happened to you. hope i helped, peace and love
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i recenlt attended a party at my friends house...... im 14 female. anywayz. i went out with this boy ryan for 2 months last winter and then again for 3 dayz in september. we broke up then second time because we became too good of friends and it was "weird" n e way.... at my friends party it started out with talking and he was flirting with me. then i was sitting on his lap and i must have been there for 45 min then all the sudden we started making out. the rest of the night we couldnt keep out hand off eachother. He had his hands on my waiste or butt or he was holding my hand. well i talked to him recently and he says he likes me and this other girl. and i kinda wanna go back out with him. but im confused... we were too good of friends to go out but we can still make out? and obviously we like eachother as more then friends... i dono... what do you think? (link)
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hey! maybe you thought that it was weird for you two to go out before, but i like it better to go out with a guy who i'm friends with before going out with him. it seems like you guys like each other, and it also seems like you guys were acting like you were going out at that party. i say go for it! go out with him, you guys definitely like each other as more than friends, so why not go out again? hope i helped, peace and love!
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