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HELP!!
alright the guy who is like a bro to me asked me out what should i do btw i like some1 else who flirts with me alot.
help!
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hey! if you dont like your friend in that way, then dont make him think that you do. tell him that you like him more as a brother. things might get weird between you too, which is why you should try to make him still be confortable around you after you tell him no. for the guy that you like, flirt with him as well, but try not to do it in front of your other friend for a little while, to let him have some time to heal the wounds of your rejection to him. but dont go out with a guy if you dont like him as a boyfriend, he would be hurt to know that you did. if you wanna talk more, drop in a message, peace and love!
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you go for the person who you like better and if you like them both the same tell the person that ull think about it and when its time to make up your mind is the time you should make you desision
cya
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i think u should tell ur guy friend thatz lyk a bro to u tht u dont lyk him lyk tht nd u have feelins for sumwun else nd tht u would rather be friends w/ him...nd if he duznt lyk tht then it'z not ur fault tht he'z mad..u cant force ur self 2 lyk him lyk tht...
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eww ur dateing ur brother! x_X get help!
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Just tell him how you feel. If you're really such good friends, he should understand. But don't go chasing after the other guy, because it may seem like you don't want to date him because you want to be avalible.
Let him down nice and easy though, 'kay? Don't wanna break his heart. Don't use that 'let's just be friends' line though, it's old and hurtful.
-Cat
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Well, first figure out if you like him. If you don't, you have to tell him that. If you do, then decide which one is more important: a friendship that can last forever, or a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that will most likely end later on? Because if you decide you want to go out with him, you're taking a risk of breaking up and losing your friendship. Again, if you don't like him..when you tell him you have to make sure he knows you still like him like a brother and you want to be good friends. If you are both mature enough, you could probably still be friends after you have broken up (if you go out). Don't hurt his feelings, he had the courage to ask his best friend out :)
lAteR :P
casey
<b>EDIT</b> I just re-read your question, and I think you said that you definately don't like him, and you like someone else. So if you don't like him, just disregard what I said above about you liking him :)
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okay well i would probably go out with him. if he's like a brother to you then that most likly means he's a great guy everyone has crushes and they usually go away. i think you should go out with him
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tell him how you feel...tell him that you dont see him like that..that u love him like a brother not like someone you could date..tell him you're sorry...but you dont feel anything like that towards him..about the guy who flirts wit you keep flirting wit him back...show him ur interested...good luck ;) hope he asks u out soon or something :) xoxox effy
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