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I love helping others. I may be young & to be honest I have NOT experienced everything there is to experience, but nonetheless I am a good listener. I am creative & intelligent, so I can hopefully give you some helpful advice. =]
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OK well i think i might be annorexic. I'm about 4'9 and only like 86 pounds. That never seems to be thing enough for me. I'm always trying to lose weight some how or another. Now i don't know what to do...i don't want to tell my mom b/c i'm not sure if i am or not and i don't want to worry her. I'm just scared that i'm getting myself into trouble with this stuff...does anyone have ne suggestions for me? I'm scared...i dont want to end up in the hospital b/c of this...thanks in advance!
actually your BMI (body mass index) is 18.6.
anywhere between 18.5-24.9 is normal. if you were to loose maybe 1 mor epound you'd be underweight, so that would NOT be good! you need to start eating well balanced meals, but working out as well (although not obsessivley). if you really do think you have a problem, please please please talk to an adult you trust, you will be scared to do this, but loosing your life from an eating disorder would be much scarier. even if you are not sure if it is a disorder or not, you need to talk to your mom, dad, or some one you can trust.
i wanna look really good on the first day of school...i have an outfit picked out...but im wondering wat to do with my hair..
I have thin brown hair...and i can do basically ANYTHING with it
so please help
try taking a little bit of hair from each side of your head (form the front) and pulling it back. secure it with 2 bobby pins, and it gives you a really pretty style! here are some examples:
http://www.juicyangel.net/pgallery/displayimage.php?album=160&pos=2
http://www.juicyangel.net/pgallery/displayimage.php?album=lastup&cat=9&pos=7
hope this helps! (u can wear your hair straight, wavy, or curly with this style too!)
i have this really weird bloated stomach which makes me look like i am about 5 months pregnant(and i am DEFINATELY not). because i am only 14 i am starting to get some weird looks in the street when it happens-one person shouted abuse in my face about it!!. It isnt there all the time, and just randomly comes....does anyone have an idea what it would be?
sometimes people become bloated right before/during their period so maybe this happens then
my sister is 10 and she's had sex so many times that she lost count and each time was with a different guy. i'm jealous cuz i've only had a boyfriend when i was in 6th grade and we never even thought of doing anything. my sister is really my step sister and she lives with my step mother and my dad. my step mother doesn't care what she does and my dad is just clueless. my sis is so young she didn't even know what virgin meant. i think she's going to end up pregnant as soon as she gets her period and i want her to stop having sex. how?
wow, this could be serious. i think you need to have a long talk with your sister, but in a calm way. first of all, how old are the guys she's having sex with...your sister is a minor & these boys can be arrested according to your state law, so you should inform her of this. you NEED to talk to an adult...if your parents won't listen PLEASE go to a teacher, guidance counsler, SOMEBODY you trust. i hope i helped! GOOD LUCK!
I used to cut. Not going to go into details, I used to cut and once I thought I went too deep. I've since realized how stupid and dangerous I was being. However, fo whatever reason, I feel the need to do so again. I don't want to, but I'm tempted and I don't know why. Can anyone please help? Please, no jack asses sayin crap about me bein a stupid "emo" and no bad mouthing me just because of something I used to do
I know a trick that people use sometimes. Put a rubberband or ponytail holder around your wrist, and everytime you feel the need to cut yourself, snap the rubberband on your wrist instead. I have heard it helps...try that to fight the urge! I hope this helps, and please try not to cut yourself...it is dangerous & hurts your body! PLease be safe & good luck!
well the other night i was at my friends house and i was kinda sad becuase my friends wouldnt do anything me or my friends sister wanted to do so me and her sister went downstairs and i said something i shouldnt have and now i dont mean it i wish i could take it back and i want my friends back does anybody have any advice to give me and i told them i was really sorry and didnt mean it thanks
I ADDED MORE (2ND PARAGRAPH)!
Hey...I know how you are feeling, but at least you apologized. I would try apologizing again (only if you really mean it) and tell them exactly why you said what you said. It is kind of hard for me to give you anymore help seeing as I don't know exactly what you said. I am sure I could help you more if you leave me a message on my column, or even just in your feedback about what happened. I really hope everything works out with your friends & you.
Well now that you have told me about your problem, I think that you had the right to be mad. However, next time tell your friends how you are feeling, instead of their sister. I think you should call them up or meet them somewhere and tell them you are sorry you said this about them, but it is how you truly feel. They can either except this, or not...it just goes to show who are your true friends. Apologize in a sincere way to show them you didn't mean to hurt them, but at the same time explain to them that the reason you said it was because you were feeling hurt in the first place. I really hope all goes well!
i'm a 15 year old girl who is friends w/ this guy whose turning 16 in a week. i dont know him that well, but he invited me 2 his party. what should i get him? (i can spend like $30)
I would go with a gift certificate to either a CD, movie (DVD), or book store (borders, barnes & noble, etc.). You could also ask his friends if they can think of anything! Hope this helps.
okay i really like this guy and i have for 2 yrz! the thing is hes 2 yrz older than i am...i kno i kno its a bigg diff...but i still like him...sometimes i see him looking atme and smiles and ugh! i want him to like me but the thing is tat theppl he hangs out with i HATE! and like then theres no way to talk to him...i have his sn but idk wat to say i mean its hard and confusing! so please help idk wat to do!
Maybe you should IM him, just to talk. If you are nervous, just think...he's not in your grade, so you really won't have to face him if he turns you down! Anyways, if u can gather up enough guts to IM him, just try to befriend him first...maybe he is waiting to do the same to you!
ok i only have a few barely noticible blackheads on my nose..i need to know the best product to use..nothing tooo costy either
thanks..i will rate good answers!
I would go with St. Ives Apricit Scrub, it's pretty affective. I just use it in the shower, on my face! Just scrub hard! Also use an acne treatment (store brand is fine) before u go to the bed, and maybe Stridex pads or Oxy pads to wipe on your face during the day beccause it is invisible.
what does it mean when it says choose juicy? by juicy couuture
I think it just means they want u to pick Juciy...to buy their clothes. Like literally CHOOSE JUICY.
where can I go to find pictures of Austen and Slavco from the show Kept, besides vh1.com, and Google Images doesnt have any.
copy & paste this entire link into your internet for a few pictures of slavco:
http://editorial.gettyimages.com/source/search/FrameSet.aspx?s=ImagesSearchState%7c0%7c0%7c28%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c1%7c%7c%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c7%7cslavco%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0&p=7&tag=1
i am not sure if austen is in these (i don't know what he looks like & they don't say names), but click here to check! copy & paste this entire link:
http://editorial.gettyimages.com/source/search/FrameSet.aspx?s=ImagesSearchState%7c0%7c0%7c28%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c1%7c%7c%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c7%7cslavco%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0%7c0&p=7&tag=1
is porn a bad thing to do?
I really don't think that it is right or wrong. I think you should think about your values as a person as well as your desires...if you want to watch porn that is your choice and no one can stop you (except perhaps parents? lol) anyways I think that it is not the most appropriate thing in the world, but if you want to watch it, go ahead...you have that freedom! Hope I helped!
Whats the name of the song/singer of the song in the end of New York Minute?.. the one that keeps saying "Hey Man".. i dont know anyhting else about it so if yooh can help please do.
I couldn't find that song...are you sure those are the right words? anyways, here are the lyrics to all the songs on the New York Minute soundtrack, maybe you can find what you are looking for there! http://www.soundtracklyrics.net/n/new-york-minute.htm
hi. i'm 14. i ws thinking of gettin my belly button piercd. but i want to know whether it hurts?? it gets infected?? i m goin on holiday on saturday and so will be goin in the pool/sea etc . . . . do you think its a good time to get it done or not?? i don't want it to bother me while i'm away!! thanks
I think you should wait until you get back...so you don't have to worry about it on holiday at the pool & stuff. Also, you will need a parents consent, you are underage to legally get it done alone. Good Luck!
hey ..alright my name is ashley ..and im 13..i weigh about 130..im 5'5..but my upper legs are HUGE......... but no one really notices..like..last year i wore pants size 1/3/4..i cant even wear a 5! and its making me very upset..iv gained almost 15 punds since school got out..and school start august 26...but im also very tall..my height is around 5'5 5'6..and i also got a big butt..how can i lose between 10-15 pounds? i hate exercising..and i crave for food everytime i try not to eat alot...please help me......- tear -
xoxo ashley
for food, there are these new snacks called 100 calorie packs...they are a great snack and they are only 100 calories with only 2-3 grams of fat! they come in things like oreo, chips ahoy, wheat thins, cinnamon thin crisps,fruit snacks,cheese nips, and ritz! http://www.nabiscoworld.com/100caloriepacks/
also eat granola bars with low fat!
these are good snacks & they fufill your cravings! also, exercise by doing yoga from a video...it is much better then sports or running! hope i helped!
A couple of weeks ago I was invited to go to the NJ shore with one of my best friends, Sam. I was very excited...each of her siblings is bringing a friend, and she chose me to go for the week with her & her family! The date is August 13th-20th. Just today, however, she called me and was like "I just found out Catherine is coming too, is that all right?" Obviously I said yes...I wasn't going to be rude & tell her no. However Catherine is Sam's friend (their families are good friends too) and she does not go to my school. I have met her before, & she is very nice, but I really don't know her well. To be honest, I am not sure that I am so psyched to go anymore, because she is going to have Catherine there too. I know it sounds mean, & I have nothing against Catherine, but it just seemed rude that Sam never mentioned she would be there before. I am not sure if it is just her, or her entire family comeing (it is a very big house) so I don't know if it was like her mom who invited her or what. I honestly don't know if I want to go for a whole week anymore...I mean I am sure it would still be fun but it is just not the same. Do you think it is silly for me to be upset? Should I just go, or should I decline? I mean I still want to see the NJ shore & go to the beach & be with my friend, but it is just confusing now. Should I talk to her? If so what exactlu do I say? Sorry this is so long!
also, she is my best friend & it was very nice of her to invite me & I would feel bad saying no now...i just don't know!
I babysit a 6 year old girl. Is there any fun activities we can do that we will both like to do? Thanks for your answers. I rate good!!
These are somethings I do with the girls I babysit (they range in age from 5-8). Try playing charades with her, where you each make up your own ideas. Watch a movie that appeals to both children & adults (i.e. Shrek, Shark Tales, Harry Potter, The Pacifier, Racing Stripes etc.) You could bake cupcakes or other baked goods (make sure you ask the parents if this is okay) you could play video games if she has them, you can play school with her, you can have her draw while you read a magazine or book (or you can draw too!), you can read to her, you can take her to a movie playing in theatres/mini golfing/bowling if you drive or can walk & the parents let you. Hope this gave you some ideas! Good Luck!
Im 16 years old, i weigh 110 lbs, and im 5'6, im not fat or anything but i would love to tone my body before school starts, that is, i have ten days and i need some really good exercises, and how advice on how often i should do them!
thanks :)
signed,
Wish2BeToned ♥
Do crunches...if you have digital cabel they have fun workouts for free, those help alot! Goodluck! By the way...you are underweight...your Body Mass Index is 17.8, it should be at least 18.5. You should gain at least 5 pounds to be a healthy weight.
ok this school year is gonna suck because i aint gonna be able to buy that many clothes for school...we are broke and my mom has to buy school clothes for 3 kids so i know its hard for her..and shes a single mom...i was just wondering if yall knew any ways that i could make some money to buy my school clothes...i am only 13 so i cant get a job...please help!!...thanks a lot
well to make money try to babysit..print out flyers & leave them in peoples mailboxes & hang them up.
good stores that aren't very expensive:
1. Marshalls
http://www.marshallsonline.com/index.asp
2. T.J. Maxx http://www.tjmaxxhomegoods.com/home.jsp
(the first 2 stores both carry clothes from abercrombie, express, j crew, rampage & LOTS of other brands...only cheaper)
3. Forever 21 http://www.forever21.com/Default.asp?cookie%5Ftest=1
4.Cohoes http://www.cohoesfashions.com/index.shtml
hope this helps!
I am having some friends over today and there gonna be over for like 5 hours before our cheer practice and I have no idea what we can do I don't have a pool just a trampoline I mean I live in a place where we can go for walks and stuff but thats boring anty ideas on what we can do? I'll rate high
well you can go on your trampoline, watch a movie, have snacks, play a game like truth or dare or ten fingers,play charades by each writing your own ideas on paper, you can make a movie on a video camera (or tv show, or talk show...these are funny to watch afterwards), you could have people bring clothes & swap them & model for each other (maybe take digital camera pictures) you could play a game like dance dance revolution if you know someone who has it that can bring it, you can just talk while tanning outside, give each other makeovers...hope this helps!