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well the other night i was at my friends house and i was kinda sad becuase my friends wouldnt do anything me or my friends sister wanted to do so me and her sister went downstairs and i said something i shouldnt have and now i dont mean it i wish i could take it back and i want my friends back does anybody have any advice to give me and i told them i was really sorry and didnt mean it thanks
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yeah you should just tell your friend that you only said that because you were kind of in the moment like you didnt really know what to say so you just said the first thing that came to mind try to get her to understand that you dont always say things because you mean then and if that doesnt work try to get her sister to talk it over with her hope it helps
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i know how your feeling. i have been in this situation a time or two. the best advice that i can gove you is just to talk to her and be completely honest about what you said. then just tell her how much her freindship means to you and that she doesnt have to forgive you. over time, i'm sure that she'll forgive you and you guys will be freinds again. i hope that it works out for you.
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WELL WHY DiDENT SHE WANT TO DO ANYTHiNG? iF iT WAS BECUASE SHE WAS BORiNG JUST JUST BE LiKE iM SORRY AND i DiD NOT MEEN TO BEE LiKE THAT AND LiKE iF SHE HAS AiM LiKE iNSTEAD OF 'HEY' TELL HER iN ONE MESSAGE LiKE HAY i AM SORRY i DiDENT MEEN THAT!! OR BLAME IT ON PMSiNG LOL!THATS WHAT i DOO!!! BECAUSE LiKE HAHA iONO!!!
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Hey...I know how you are feeling, but at least you apologized. I would try apologizing again (only if you really mean it) and tell them exactly why you said what you said. It is kind of hard for me to give you anymore help seeing as I don't know exactly what you said. I am sure I could help you more if you leave me a message on my column, or even just in your feedback about what happened. I really hope everything works out with your friends & you.
Well now that you have told me about your problem, I think that you had the right to be mad. However, next time tell your friends how you are feeling, instead of their sister. I think you should call them up or meet them somewhere and tell them you are sorry you said this about them, but it is how you truly feel. They can either except this, or not...it just goes to show who are your true friends. Apologize in a sincere way to show them you didn't mean to hurt them, but at the same time explain to them that the reason you said it was because you were feeling hurt in the first place. I really hope all goes well!
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I've been in the same situation minus the sister, I told a friend somethign about another friend something I really shouldn't have, but truly there is nothign you can do now. You said sorry and if they know you mean it it's really up to them if they're willing to let one secret ruin a friendship. What I did to make sure she knew I was sorry? I wrote her a letter, letting her know how sorry I was and how much her friendship meant to me.
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