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15/f
Hey Im getting braces in a week.. i was wondering if there was anything i should do to prevent the pain.. or to get rid of the pain.. or could somebody jsut tell me how much pain there even really is? cuz i get different answers from like everyone i ask.. i just wanna be prepared. I know i should take advil before getting them put on, and i should bring chapstick with me.. any more advice? Oh and btw.. what color should i get lol i was thinking pink cuz i thought it might be cute? or would pink be too babyish for a 15 yr old? thanks ill rate!!

your in luck!! lol, i have braces right now. sometimes b4 you get braces you get spacers. they really hurt but once you get your braces the first day, it doesn`t hurt as much. but no matter what its always going to hurt when you get them tightend. I just got my braces tightend 2 days ago and they hurt, but not that bad. they are only going to hurt for like 5 days. its not that bad. what you can do to get rid of the pain is take something for it. i know ppl have been telling u that but it really helps. For the color, you can get any color you want. pink is a really cool color. it wont look babyish, it will look cute. and you can get other colors, you can get 2-3 colors at a time. you can get like red and green 4 x-mas.

good luck!!
sorry its so long =-)

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ok, im doing a science fair at my school blah blah blah...is this a good project: How does music affect one's ability to sleep well?

please be honest, p.s:im in seventh grade(13)
just thought it might help judge...thanx

Music sometimes 'helps' people sleep. and sometimes they 'cant' sleep when there is music or noise around. i sleep with music and it helps me sleep. Try it, if you dont like it your not one to sleep with noise.

good luck!!
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OK, I am 15 and I like this guy who is yonger then and he is only 13, do you think it is right to go out with a guy that is 2 years yonger then you. O, and by the way he looks like he is 16, but he isnt.

I think you should find a guy thats in your age range. You seem mature for him, bc he is 'only' 13 and you are 15, i think thats a slightly big differnece. besides, there are plenty more fish in the sea.

good luck!!
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14/f

I'm going on a cruise for Christmas. And I went on one a few years ago. The last one i went on I saw tons of hott guys but i was to afraid to say hi. So I spent the entire cruise with my family (which was ok). Well, this time i want to be able to meet people while I'm there. What are some ways to meet new people without being really weird about it? thanks!

Well if you want to meet a hot guy then just go up to him and say "hey" or "where are you from" , just start up a conversation with him.

if you want to meet a friend thats a girl then just go up to her and say "hey whats up?" or "hey whats your name?" or "hey my name is ___, whats urs?" stuff like that.
If you just go up to them and talk by no time you will have a bunch of friends on your christmas criuse.

good luck!!
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okay well i have this problem..there is this guy and i have been going out with him for about 2 months..and i went to a party with him last weekend..and for some really weird reason..it was really weird to be around him..like i didnt want to go out with him ne more..and hes really nice and all..but i keep comparin him to my ex bf..who is going out with my friend..and he was like my very first love..and i just cant get over him! and its irritating..well anyways back to the current boyfriend situation..he hasnt talked to me whatsoever this week..so im thinkin that i should breakup with him cuz i dont think he likes me ne more..and i dont think i like him ne more..

so here are my questions..should i break up with him? and if so how should i do it (like what should i say) and HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX! lol cuz i really want to..but its just always coming back to haunt me

I think you should stick with the guy you like most. If you dont like this guy you are going out with now then i think you should dump him but since your friend is going out with your exboyfriend then there is nothing really to do. If you really want to go back out with your exboyfriend then maybe it would just be best to either wait for him, or tell your friend how you feel about him, she will understand.

somethings you can say to break up with your boyfriend are "its not really wroking out" or "lets just be friends." he will understand you.

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Ok I've got a boyfriend who I love and who loves me but lately he's been really confusing me because he flirts with two of my best friends and it makes me jelous even if he's mine anyway he keeps smoking weed and injects himself with heroin but i don't who if he's telling the truth but he's got little marks on his arm and I'm really worried about him if it's true he could die and I know Id be really upset if he died how can I talk to him about it because he thinks it's cool and his mate does it to

Just sit him down and tell him how you are feeling right now. Just say "please stop all this smoking and stuff, you are really scaring me with it, its really upsetting, please, stop" just tell him how you feel, if he really loves you, he will stop.

good luck!!
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srry if this is long but
there is this kid in my school and he is shorter me and not very good lookin but i still lik him alot and no one understands and ppl always make fun of me for likin him and i already went out wif him lik 3 times b4 and he dumped me all the times but i still rely lik him and alot of ppl make fun of me for it and i hate how no one understands mee

how can i get them 2 stopp??

I think you should just tell them "look, how would you like it if i did this to you" and just walk away. It doesn`t matter what other people say or think. It just matters what you think.

good luck!!
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srry if this to long but i rely need help

my two best freinds used to be best freinds till they got into a really big fite are not freinds anymore so lik when ever i hang out wif 1 of them my other friend will get mad at me n stuff lik that and i no for a fact they will never become friends again cuz the fite they got into was a huge fite

how can i hang out wif 1 freind w/o the other 1 gettin madd??

Tell your friends that either we all are friends or we all or not friends. Its hard being stuck in the middle between your two friends. Just try to fix the fight too. Make them relieze that friends should not be fighting, friends should be laughing about when they 'used' to fight.

good luck!
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I used to like this guy for like 2 yrs. i was soo freaked out that i couldn't even talk to him.(hes a yr older than me)...well then i realized that i had a crush on a completely different guy(3 yrs. older than me) and convinced myself that i didnt like the other one anymore....now me and the 1st guy talk a LOT and its soo cool!! everytime that i talk about my new crush...he either looks away or talks w/ me...i have stopped liking the 2nd guy but i haven't told the first one yet..but my problem is that i never stopped liking the 1st one...and i think he knows....but i dont want to tell him...and loose our releationship. I have also never had a b/f...im 14 yrs. old..im not complaining though..its fun being single!but i also want a b/f!
~Confused
Srry its soo long!!

I think you should stick with the guy you like most. Stick with the one thats a year older then you. I think it would be better to be with a guy around you age. I just think it would be better that way and you talk to him alot and you seem to like him alot too.

good luck to u!!
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Ok, well I met this guys 3 weeks ago, and we both liked eachother a lot! I felt like I knew his hole life honestly I could of wrote a book on him. In that week we would kiss and make out and the sort and he sort of stuck to me in my heart, well last week on monday we decided to be friends, it was better for him, and I wanted to make him happy, so I agreed, later that day I cried my heart out and the next day too, but never in front of him. We give eachother lots of hugs and we talk on the phone a lot too and i Help him out with his love life too, and I feel like a jelous tention. As much as I wanna be friends, I wanna be a little more too... WHAT SHOULD I DO!

I think you should tell him how you feel. If you like this guy you shouldn`t let him go. Just tell him what your feelings are 4 him. Im sure he will like you back.

good luck to u!!
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Hey! (15/f) So I've asked this sorda before but it's a tad different this time. There's a guy on my tennis team that went out with my 'old bestfriend' last year. I'm still really good friends with her but not as close as when last year.Anyhoo, this guy likes me. I don't really want to confront him about it bc i really like being friends with him. I think I've been giving him the wrong messages bc i guess we sorda flirt but it's just friendly, ha so i thought. what should i do now? Ps. sorry for the longness!

I think if you two just want to be friends thats great. you dont have to say anything to him. Just pretend he is not there. And if he asks you out just say "lets just be friends" 'something like that.' you dont have to go out with this guy, but if you want to then thats ok too. you can still be friends with your "old bestfriend" and go out with this guy.

good luck!!
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does anyone know any eyeshadow colors that would look really nice on a dark haired gurl? my face is sorta red all the time too so i duno why tho lol but i heard blue looks really bad on all blondes, but i have a silver and it looks cute.. any others? please!!

I am a brunette so what i use on my eyes is like, a pink and tan and greean and stuff like that. you can use, pink,purple,silver,tan,green any color you want bc it does not matter what other people think anyway.

good luck!!
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I'm so confused. I hang out with my friends and stuff but I don't really have a best friend. I feel like when I'm with my friends I'm just a third wheel or somebody thats just there. PLease give me some advice people!

Try to get to know other people. Try to make new friends. You can still be friends with your old friends, but its also ok to make new friends. be out-going.
good luck!!
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so my best friend and i have dated before and we broke up because me and his guy friends didnt get along too well.. he REALLy likes me now and im starting to like him a lot and me and his 'guy friends' are actually really close this year. i guess imjust scared to get hurt again cuz i really put myself out there last time... help??

I think you should go out with him. It seems you are getting to get along with his guy friends and he likes you and you are starting to like him so, i think you should go for it!

good luck!!!!!!
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I recently got a new puppy, the problem was that my 3 yr old lab mix would not accept her. She was very aggressive and territorial. She has never acted like this in the past. I would like to get another puppy, since I had to return the other one. What would be the best way to intriduce them?

take them both for the same walks, let them both go out in the backyard together, let them sleep next to each other. Let them get used to each other. Dogs are kinda just like humans, if they dont like someone they wont really bother with them. Just make them do stuff together for a while. But dont put them together too much. Dont force them either.

good luck!!!
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Hi, i asked this kid to a football game 2nite and my friend who was wit me, sed he looked sorta excited whjen i asked him, he sed he didn't know if he cud make it to it or not and i was like ook ad then jjust forgot anout it hten at the game tonite, i saw him there. Do you think that he was perposuly ditching me? or he really wasn't sure if he culd make it, and he had no way of reacing me when he realized he could go? He didn't have my # or anything either.

Maybe he thought he had other plans but he didn`t and he was able to make it to the game but he did not have your # to call you but he was probably hoping to see u there.

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im kinda shy not as bad as i used to be but id like to be more outgoing with people i dont know! i don like anyone rite now but i still wanna b more outgoing incase i start to like someone. well anyway i wanna kno if anyone has any like tips for becoming more outgoing. thnx

just be sarcastic. Be random. Start talking to people you dont normaly talk to. invite a friend over to chill that you dont really talk to that much. Just, have fun with it.

good luck!!!
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im starting to like a guy who goes to my school thats a junior-- two major problems: 1. im only a freshman... 2. hes the best friend of my x boyfriend and we didnt have what u would call the "best break up". we get along really well tho so i think there might be a chance but im also really shy when im around him... any suggestions?? i could use all the help i can get! **friend of kenzis...

I think he might be a little too old. Im not trying to judge but i dont think its such a good idea. I dont want you to get hurt.

good luck!!
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Ok, well my good friend has a boyfriend, I've known her since I was 6 and her and her bf go on the bus. And it turns out that now I have feelings for this boy and it doesn't go away, and I'm starting to get jelous when he kisses her and things. Am I a bad friend, what should I do?

Well i think you should tell your friend how u feel. She is your good friend im sure she will understand. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.

good luck!!
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ok..this question is kinda stupid but i was wondering if anybody knew how to make holes in jeans that look like they were made like that thnx!..i rate

you could cut them with a sicssor. Im sure that will work.

good luck!!
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