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Ok, so I've liked this guy and I've liked him for at least 4 or 5 months. We are pretty good friends, like we hang at parties (if he doesn't have a gf at the time) and we talk to each other online ALOT. Well, he doesn't know cuz he's had on and off relationships and I'm scared if I tell him it will ruin our friendship. But that's not what I'm asking advice on. Well, I told a best friend of mine that I liked him a loong time ago, like when I started liking him. And I still like him to this day and this friend told me she has started liking him too. And she tries to brag to me about funny conversations they've had and I feel like she's taking what I have of him. and i just don't know what to do....:(...I'll take any advice you have...please...
Ok,be calm about this. You've talked to him A LOTT longer than she has. Well keep talking to him and have funny times and have fun conversations. You have to be outgoing!! I think your best friend forgot that you like him...since it was a LOONNGGG time ago,she probably figures you've moved on,and thats why she likes him. I know how your friend is..they jump all over the person and try to make them forget about you..the EXACT same thing happens with this girl i know. You could do two things--
Have funny times and fun conversations with the guy..and maybe ask him out or dont.. Just remember hes just a boy and friendship lasts longer than boys.
Or you could play dirty and--
Brag back about all the funny times you had with him and say how awesome he is and how your makeing plans
Your friend seems kind of intimidating [[sp?]] dont let it get to you..be easy going,have fun,be outgoing!
I would recomend the 1st option.
My bestt friend in the whole world..talks about other girls a lot(he's a guy). And I keep telling myself and everyone else that all we are is friends because i know thats all we ever will be. but why do i get so annoyed/jealous when he talks about other girls?! i dont want to like him like that..because i know my heart will get broken. ive told him i dont like it when he talks about other girls, but he still does? how in the world can i get over him or tell him..well i don't know what i should do about it! pleaseee help!!
You know what i think? I think that he likes you,because i had a boyfriend,tom, who always talked about girls when i was with him. He fucking LOVED me soooo much! He like..bought me lunch everyday!! But he would talk about girls and i got mad,my friend told me he said he did it to try and impress me and make sure i would never give up on him,and make it seem like i was really lucky to have him. It also depends on how he talks about them.. dose he go like "i love this girl shes so cool and awesome"--that means he's sharing stuff with you because he likes you as a friend and hes hinting for you to ask that girl out for him or is it "this girl kept flirting with me today!!" --that means hes showing you how all the girls love him and how you should love him to.. he wants to be the big-shot around you
or dose he say -- " this girl asked me out but i turned he down because i like someone else" That might me he likes you..or someone else!!
If you no he dosent like you...and he talks about girls...then talk about boys!! Be like "omg ik theres this boy that kept doing this blah blah"
I say you dont tell him right now,but get more info,like what he talks about girls and how he acts around you..and other people. Dont tell him yet
if you want to,you could tell me how he says things about girls in a seprate question and i'll try to help !
[[im good at this stuff!]]
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i really like this guy (lets call him n) but none of my friends know him! but i also like another guy (lets call him z) and i have never said 5 words to him. and my friends know about Z just not N and N is really sweet and nice and i think he might like me but i am not compleatly sure and Z i do not think he even knows i am alive! i mean ya sure i probly said hi to him once or twice but that is about it! and N know i am alive because i talk to him all the time cause well we are kinda friends well more of aquatenses and he is almost the same age as me just likeone year younger than me but Z is one year older then me wich is weird because i am like right in the middle! so wich one should i go for?
Hm...this is hard! I would try to get Z to notice you more,like say hey and have fun and be fun around him! He'll notice you more if you are outgoing.But on the other hand,N sound cool to.What i would do is-
Make Z notice you a lot more,and still talk to N,maybe your friends have 3-way and you can talk to N on the phone and 3-way your friends so they'll no him more! Try both out and if Z still dosn't notice you go for N
[[try like...3 days to get Z to notice you but if he dosent then dont go for it.]]
but i would go with N to give you a straight- out answer
Ok my parents piss me off SOOOOO much. I want to move out because I can't stand them most of the time. When I am around them I act like nothing is wrong, but really they piss the fuck out of me. I can't take it anymore. I'm starting to not talk to the at all but my mom is always talking to me about stuff that I don't want to talk to her about. I like when I'm with my cousins(who live like 2 hrs away)cuz I can talk to them about like all the shit thats going on but I can't stay with them forever. I want to leave so bad like move away from home, but I'm not going to run away from home.
14/f
P.S. I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE.
I think your partents are trying have a stronger relationship with you..its not bad but they talk about some stupid shit right? Then just maybe change the subject to something you want to talk about..if you aviod them they'll think something is wrong,then they'll REALLY annoy you..so i would say just change the subject and if they go back to the other one you did not want to talk about just say "i dont know.." or "i dont care" or change the subject again
sorry if this didnt help much
but i hope it helped some
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how long after a break up should you wait before the next chase? I mean like... looking around for new people... if the relationship you've just come out of wasn't that serious... but I don't want to hurt his feelings by jumping straight back in... :S
16/f
I'd say 2-3 weeks,because people need to get the news that you broke up,talk about it for a little,then they'll forget. And NOT 1 week because people will be like "oh my gosh she never liked him that must have really hurt his feelings how mean is that?"[[they also might not even care though..]] if it wasnt serious then he probably isnt sad over it...unless he was obbsessed with you,then you have to stay awayy from him!
bUt yes 2-3 weeks.
hope i helped!
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what are some good foods to take with you to eat in the car when your traveling?
Thanks
I rate 5 for good answers
Cheese-its Pringles, Doritos,Popcorn,Trail mix,dry Cerial,all those good things
Drinks--Caprisun,koolaid,Water
i hope i help you :)
ok i have to decide which highschool to go to next year. first i am going to tell you a lil about the first highschool. this highschool is what you call a ghetto highschool it is full of gangs. it has a bad reputation and used to have cops there. the good thing about this highschool is that most of my friend are going there. the second highschool. this one is a prep kind of highschool that is full of rich people and people that are my same race. expect allt he people that are my race are way to preppy and think they are so cool with the luxury cars. i was thinking of goin to the 2nd highschool but people say it is full of drugs and violance. which one should i choice? i knoe they arent the best of highschool but those r my choice becasue the rest arent even close to me and they are already full. please help me!
I'd have to say the first one. Just think about it--you do not want to go to a school that judges you because your not rich,think they are cool but they are not,full of snobs,and still have drugs and violence. Were the second one you will have friends,have fun,do good in school,sure it has a bad rep. and full of gangs,but if you stay away from those people and stick with your friends you can aviod all of this! While if you went to the second one you might have no friends,and still get enrolled with violence and drugs. So i say the first one.
does anyone know any good new cd's that have recently come out??..i need some ideas..thanks
PS. Any Kind Of Music But Country And Like Reall Hard Rock& Metal
Thanks anything will get you 5's...just give me a few suggestions tho.
Ciara
50cent
Pretty Ricky
The Killers
Kelly Clarkson
T.I
Now 18
...thats all i can think of thats some-what new!
first of all i rate high. also i no i always ask the same question but i never get a good enough answer. no makeup suggustions please. ok so the thing is that i have a big nose brown eyes a long face light brown hair a tan and a really really small upper lip. i always keep my hair down. but my question is how do i make my lip look bigger nose smaller hair better face prettier. thanx and i rate HIGH
Well if you are young which i am assuming you are, you will grow into your nose. You cant change the shape of your face. Maybe a hair cut? There are these things called lip plumpers..and they make you lips bigger [[google it i guess]]
my sister needs to make a new sn -- something that her and her boyfriend can both use --
((there names are jeff and nicole if u need it))
help would b appreciated and I RATE HIGH!!
JeffxNikki143
NikkiNJeff224
Lovas4eva143
x3Jeff x Nikkix3
My1ndOnlyx3
WeRhawt2getha
those are some.. hope i helped!!
okay well lately alot has been sucky. we had to move to another town and now i go to an up-tight sucky school. i hate the people there are judgmental and all that crap. they lable people and stuff and the friends i do have my parents do know their parents so i cant do anything with them. my parents are stucky. the only thing i have that is good right now is soccer. i might even have to quit though because my knee cap, it is shifting over the more i use it the worse it gets and another peoson on my team has the exact same thing and she just got sugury done on it and she is out all summer. well lately i have been writing lyrics and i dont want to show them to anyone because im afriad they will get scared that im depressed and put me in a rubber room. but anyways i guess all i need is some help. i was talking to my bf's cousin today (because my bf is on vacation)and i think that i give her the wrong impresstion because at that time is was really thinking about runaway and just i dont know dying but now not as much but now im afriad she is going to tell my bf that im going to break his heart because i told her i was going away for awhile i didnt know if would come back. i guess i just need comforting.
thanks thoose who help
i moved away from a big city to a suburb. it sucks i know,just dont change that much. I mean you have to adapt to your enviorment now but just dont change to much. Dont become a snob that judges people. Dont judge the snobs. Just be open to anyone that is willing to talk to you in school,and if no one is you have to talk to them. Maybe say "hey whats up?" or something and then you'll just keep getting into good conversations. be happy with your self no matter what happens. Sing your lyrics and maybe if there good and stuff you could show them to people. Never let anyone bring you down because you are strong.
a quoet--
Dont ask for a different life ask to be a stronger person
its ook we all make spelling mistakes...heh
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My friends the other day were talking about bases, like " i heard __ got to 2nd base with __" what are the bases, who eva answers this will get a 5
Its like ... in the dateing world
First-- Just dateing and having fun
Second-- Kissing
Third--Makeing out kinda big time
Fourth-- Sex..
Ok,i have this "friend"...Sarah. I dont like Sarah...and i dont want her to be friends with my friends...cause if she is i know she is going to soak up all the attension,they'll like her,she'll turn them against me, and leave me out of everything. I hate her..shes so mean to me. How can i stop thinking about her,not care about her,and just make it so im not her friend..but not her enemy? Please dont be mean in you answers...i want to let go of her..but not be an enemy. Please help i'll rate high.
i dont no, im sure some people no this stuff tho..
Well my friend invited me to her party shes having, and I told her I could go but now I really don't want too. There like renting the Excercist and I REALLY REALLY do not wanna watch that. I told my parents and they said just tell her you don't want to watch it...well my friend Carina would make me watch it and everyone else wants to and her dad would make me watch it too. And I like hate the one girl she invited and the other one is okay and the girl who I'm actually friends with can't go. And if I tell her honestly why I don't want to go she'll get mad at me(yes stupid i know). I don't know what I should tell her sooo could someone please tell me what to say?
i think you should go anyways. Maybe you could make friends with these other people!! but if you really dont want to your friends might brag about it...and if you dont want to go maybe you could say your not feeling well or somethingg
LIKe OHNOS I JUST MICROWAVED MY MUM N I DUN NO WUT 2 DO????
WOW...sorry but HOW THE HELL COULD YOU MICROWAVE SOMEONE? WTF?! THERE TO BIG TO PUT IN THE FREAKIN MICROWAVE ANY HOW!?!!? WOW...just WOW...thats hard to believe... i guess you could call the hospital? i dont no... get a wet clod cloth?
OMG! I don't have any friends anymore all the guys at my school hate me and my "friends" don't even talk to me. No one talks to me. and no i'm not a "loser". I had "friends" but they keep discludeing me! HELP?!
Just hang out with the group you have you really only need one best friend to . Someone to share laughs. You dont HAVE to have a lot of friends. Im sorry though :( i know it hurts. thats what happend to me to ...but ya sorry things can get better tho...but they could also get worse.
i have two friends and one of these friends i like much more than the other. the friend i like more is called "rosie" and the friend that im not fond of is called "mary". so mary is really boring and not very social, im only friends with her through rosie. when im with both rosie and mary mary kind of shuts down and it looks as if she is very uncomfortable. i dont want to her to feel uncomfortable anymore. we dont really have a lot of stuff in common. what are some things that i can do to make mary feel more comfortable around rosie and me? thanks so much. i rate.
bring her into the conversations pay attension to her and rosie..dont leave her out and only dont look at rosie if your haveing a funny intersesting conversation.Like i said bring mary into it to. Compliment mary and say shes cool and you like what she was wearing. Laugh and be funny around her. Soon she'll be extremly comfortable!! Also have you rosie her and some other people make plans! but dont make her look like the least favorite one because that really hurts when people think you dont care about them [[for both sides]]. I'm sure she'll feel a lot comfortable around you ! good luck !! Just be outgoing and stuff and she'll click into it!
Latelty I've put on a bit of weight.
And too much weight for my liking.
I think I'm becoming somewhat obsessed with the way I look, I've started dressing in dark clothes and baggy jeans to hide what I've put on although I know that you can see it anyway.
It's too hot to wear what I'm wearing when walking home from school and I sometimes feel faint from the heat but if I wear something else, it feels like people are staring at me.
I have thought about not eating but I've heard it can just make matters worse so I just kept excersizing and dieting but it's not working! I've been at it at a month and it isn't working!
I don't want to go to a doctor because they'll send me home saying I'm not overweight which I'm not but I don't like the way I look.
I want to skip meals but then I'm scared it's accidently going to get into my head and it's going to become a regular thing and I don't want that. I'm trying hard not to make myself sick after every meal and I'm trying even harder to actually eat.
I just need advice on how to cope.
I don't want to tell my mom, so please don't suggest it. I honestly don't want to tell anyone I just know I need some help.
-- I am NOT doing this to get attention, the only reason I'm asking on advicenators is because it's the only place I know that lets me stay anonymous so it is not for attention and please, if you have nothing helpfull to say please do not say it.
well,if you eat right [[and eat lots of fruit..i personally think thats the best thing and you should eat some every day,but thats just me]] and you feel right,then you should be fine. But there are these things in your body that make you happy--the more u have the happyer you are. Like chocolate carries this thing [[i do not no if it is a chemical/or something but,anyways]] Chocolate and sugar makes you hyper and raises your endorphins[[i think these "happy" thinggs are called endorphins..but im sorry if im wrong..lets just call them emdorphins]] So you should eat not a LOT but a very little amount some times.[[not a LOT though. very little amount]] Maybe your bome structure is big. Maybe you should work out 2 or 3 days out of the week..or everyday if you have time. Make a sceduale. And you are pretty in your own way. Make-up increases your features and makes them look very pretty,so maybe go to a store and ask a lady what id the perfect make-up for you. Hair--if you have and oval/round face [[which is what i have]] i would go with hair to the tip of your boob,layers every wear,and lengths in the back. round head-- hair a little under your sholders and side-swept bangs; heart shaped head--any style. I think you could wear clothes from ambercrombie and fitch'areopostale,those places. Carry a purse. You are going to look so hott!!! =)!!!
hey okay i ahve this best friend or did im not sure okay i kno this person olivia and like she is such a bitch to me we were best friends in 6th adn then in 7th we did nothign but fight now she had taken my best friends boy friend and my best friend didnt kno that they were broken up no one told her nething and like all olivia could say was sorry now corey the same dude says he still ahs feelings for my best friend and like broke olivias heart not my beset friend hates olivia but now since the same guy hurt them its like im out the picture and there bf's now i dont kno what to say to my best friend in stead of talking to me she was on the phone wiht olivia comforting her but like i understand but man she does nothign but talk about olivia and now there together...........i dont kno what to do i have no one like ne friends cuz olivia turned trhem all against me and now everyone hates me for no freaking reason.........how can i get my best friend back or tell her that olivia is just useing her cuz she is...........sorry for the length....thanks
maybe they have a stronger friendship now.. than you and your other best friend did..sorry i dont no what 2 tell ya tho
i really need help with my makeup..i have light skin, blue eyes, and light blonde hair. Like what color of eyeliner and mascara do i need to wear, b/c i think black looks to harsh with my skin..brands and colors would be helpful! thanks so much!! katie_xx
Navy eyliner,or brown,you can mix these if you want,u'd want clear gloss on your lips,maybe a pinky tint. mascara--black. its good for eyeliner around the whole eye..but not to insane..i would kinda stay with under the lid. Maybeline is a good brand,or cover girl. Eyeshadows--blue pink bronze light brown. Blush - light pink.