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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap
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how much does ."with love" hilary duff's perfume costs?????
around 55$
so there's a guy i like, he's hard to read, i don't show my emotions... he might have a girlfriend... there's another guy that is waiting on my reply to go out with him... the guy i really like doesn't get along with almost any of my friends... and with all of these complications i don't know what to do. do i make a move on the guy i really like? do i go out with the guy i don't really like, but really likes me? do i just hook-up with the guy i like? what do i do?!?!?
what do you feel is right? if you go for the guy who you like and he doesn't like you then there will be a problem. and plus he doesn't even like your friends? that's goign to mean more problems.. but don't go out with a guy you don't even like? lol that woudln't be too nice. and you could really break his heart...
Well me and my boyfriend have tried having babies and every time it ends in a death so we gave up trying and I just found out I'm pregnet again (this would be the4th time we lose a baby if it dies) I want to be happy but its hard because of the past and I know he is going to feel the same way how do I tell him?
tell him that you both have the chance to try again, you just have to take extra extra percautions and hopefully everything will turn out okay best wishes hunny.
why is it that when we tell our frineds a guy is hot, alot of times they say "eww!" but then when they like a guy, we think they are "eww!" too, until we actually like them, lol. well, just thinking that the guys are cute.
because you have different tastes in guys.
for example, all my friends like preppy, clean cut guys.. but i on the other hand like hardcore tight pants wearingn guys who usually won't shower for like a week hahaha
so pretty much it's just because you both like different types of guys =]]
I'm a 15/f who's trying to get her boy friends to teach her how to skate but firs ti need some shoes. and one of my friends who use to skate told me not to get shoes from the mall but online. whats a good online store that has good quality skate shoes but arn't tooo expensive.
pacsun.com
etnies.com
adiofootwear.com
www.dcshoecousa.com
www.vans.com
and by the way. it's more expencive to get them online. i WOULD consider getting them at a store =]]] GOOD LUCK
i no the age of consent is 16 but if iam 16 and the guy that i want to have sex with is 22 is that still ok?
as long as you want to have sex with him it's okay. your 16 so you ahve to consent to it and your good
ok so i want to get my belly button peirced & my mom is still thinking about it. but i want to know if its going to hurt a lot and what i should do to keep it not infected & anything else important!!
thanks in advance=]
your piercest will tell you how to keep it clean. just pretty much clean it with salt water every day for like a month. it doesn't hurt too bad. but the next two days your stomach feels all tight and weird lol good luck
so basically. im 15/f. well my mom is putting me on birth control because my period is wayyy irregular and because she thinks ima have sexx and get pregnant. [[virgin. ugh]] so i said ill do it. but i heard that u gain a lot of weight but it goes strait to your boobs. and that interested me fo sho. haha. but im not sure if thats true. does anyone know if that is. because i really need sum extra boobage. haha if that makes sence. plz help. thankss :]]
never heard of it going to your boobs. but you gain weight because it treats the body as if it was pregant. some gain some loose.. it all depends on how it affects your system.. some yeah it may go to your boobs but most it will go other places esp. your stomach
Well , I know loosing your virginity is a big thing in all but why?
I mean yeah i know that its the risk of getting pregnant and getting disceases but other than that why is sex such a big deal?
Why do people think other people are slutty if they give a blowjob or get fingered?
It feels good, its not like your hurting anyone by doing it.
I just dont see whats so bad about it sometimes.
Please inform me, because ive done all that stuff and I dont feel bad or regret it at all, i thought it was very enjoyable.
it is a big deal because it's something that you'll never get back and that you should share wtih someone special. to many people it's so important because of what the bible says.. many people just say that their slutty about that stuff... just to say it.. i don't regret it either. only because i'm glad that who i did it with was the one who i have strong feelings for.. everyone just has different opionions. to lots of people their virginity is precious to them
I'm pretty sure I'm paranoid,but my boyfriend and I have been fooling around, for a while,and well I just get nervous.
We don't do anything but oral sex and
such. I'm still a virgin, and even though when he fingers me I make sure that I got first and then I'll touch him just so my pants are on.
I don't think I could get pregant.
How long can sperm live?
If you have sperm on your hands but don't penarate you vagina is is possible for sperm to enter on it's own?
I'm just nervous. I've been thinking about it all week.
your okay. the chances of you getting pregant is one to literally a million. since you only had oral that night when he went to finger you the sperm was on his hands which means it hit air which means it died. so odn't worry so much
more likely to be more horny if hes had sex,gotten a blowjob,fingered a girl, etc.
over a guy who hasnt done anything?
a guy gets more horny if he has already done things wtih a girl over a guy who hasn't
okay so ive had sex for the 5th time already. the first time was march the 5th okay. well we did it twice that night. then a day after we did it 3 more times. and it still really hurts and im not getting any pleasure. can u please tell me whats wrong or should i see a doctor i mean what should i do? what could it be?
it's only your first time don't worry it's normal you don't need to see a doctor you'll be okay =] i promise.
About 2 years ago I was "diagnosed" with perfectionism. (Yes, it's a real disorder.) I got counseling for it, and it hasn't really interfered much with my life since then until now. I've recently found myself faced with more serious dating relationships, but because of my disorder, it makes it really difficult for me to want to get close to a guy. I've met a guy that I adore, and we both like each other. But it's hard because I'm afraid of being "imperfect" around him, which is ironic because that's pretty much inevitable. No one is perfect. But you'd have to have perfectionism to really understand what I mean. Anyways, it's gotten to the point where I don't want to eat around him. I might get something stuck in my teeth, spill on myself, get gas (haha), have an allergic reaction, anything. I don't want to do things that I know I'm not good at because I don't want to fail. (Example: I'm really good at acting, but I got cast in a show as an extra! I usually land large roles, and I was so disappointed in myself. When he said he was going to come watch me, I begged him forever not to come, then cried backstage for an hour before the performance because I didn't want him to see me.) I don't want to go places that I'm unfamiliar with because I might look dumb or mess up.
This is so hard to describe online, and for people to understand, but if anyone has had this similar problem, is a perfectionist, or has any helpful advice on how I can get over this and not let it affect my dating life, I would really appreciate it. I'm desperate!
i always need to be perfect. ALWAYS. i feel the need to be better than everybody else. i understand how you feel. i dread doing things i've never done before because i'm afraid i'll mess up and he'll hate me or something? it's weird. example: i never did anything wtih a guy. but then i realised that it's okay with him because i was comfortable around him.. so listen this is my advice. if you dont' feel comfortable around him you should be with him.. and if you do feel comfortable then you shoudl be fine just take steps.. first maybe eat chips or somethign in front of him etc. just little steps everythign will be fine hunny =] promise
OK, im doomed! I stayed back last year and they think I dont shower, im gross and all this stuff.Well I do have friends and I hang out with this kid named Steven, and I like steven. Now kids know I like steven but I dont want steven to know.. Its not as easy and I ask him out everyone would lauph and it and it madders to me. And it sucks because we have to do tis inventors thing and he's my partner and he does nothing! and its hard to try and concintrate next to the kid u like I really need a good grade so how do i concintrate on my work and not flirting with him??
flirt while working =] or flirt then work. take it home and work on it at home if your allowed to.. or if not. just flirt while you can work. just doubt task =] good luck
Well...there is this boy in my class who picks on me everyday.He only makes fun of me and not the other girls in the class.I laugh when he makes fun of me but on the inside it hurts me!and one of my friends encourages him and that hurts me too.What should I do???
P.S.he is very tough so if I tell him to stop,he will hit me.
when you laugh with him it makes him think that it is OK for him to do that. don't laugh.
& most of the time when they pick on only you they like you and think it's a way to 'flirt' because they don't really know HOW to flirt.
is it just me or do condoms like suck you up too? everytime we use them they like somehow suck up all my "juices". does that happen to you? we bought some ky lube stuff and used that, but we had to keep using more because it would like get sucked up too or ware off.
me too; somehow it's always dry and hurts like a mother. i hate condoms haha they suck at life
I playfully punched my guy friend on the cheek. Now he keeps saying it hurts, and I should kiss it. Thing is, I really like him, but Ii'm super nervous to kiss it, even though he keeps telling me to. I want to, I'm just nervous. How can I work myself up to do it?!
do it do it DO IT =] it would be soo cute
what are some tips for making out and kissing?
i need to know everything!
here's a really awesome website =]
http://209.85.165.104/search?q=cache:e1oGbdndml0J:www.howtokiss.info/kissing_games.htm+kissing+games&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=3&gl=us
it'll teach you the basics/games/everything =] good luck hun!
i hated when people told me that 'it comes naturally' but it really does.. just let him be the leader. and follow his moves pretty muchhh. tongue wrestle haha
Okay so ive been with this guy for about 6 months and well, we've been getting more physical as time goes on. Last night, as previous nights, he inserted his penis, not all the way however. well that's what he says anyway. I mean it hurt and everything but as I started to pull him into me he stopped me and said "no, don't put it in all the way." Does this mean we are still both virgins? Another thing is that he likes oral but im not too crazy about it. Ive told him before that im not too comfortable with it and he said he was fine with it, but when we're in the moment he starts to beg for me to give him oral. what do i do?
when your penis enters you vagina you are no longer a virgin sooo yeah. your not a virgin anymore hunnyy
Ok I've been on the Depo shot for a while now and just recently my boyfriend came in me. So what's the chance that I could get pregnant .
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