Okay so ive been with this guy for about 6 months and well, we've been getting more physical as time goes on. Last night, as previous nights, he inserted his penis, not all the way however. well that's what he says anyway. I mean it hurt and everything but as I started to pull him into me he stopped me and said "no, don't put it in all the way." Does this mean we are still both virgins? Another thing is that he likes oral but im not too crazy about it. Ive told him before that im not too comfortable with it and he said he was fine with it, but when we're in the moment he starts to beg for me to give him oral. what do i do?
As for the oral, if you don't like it, don't do it. It's that simple. There are other ways of making him feel good without giving oral, such as a handjob or dry humping.
Another thing you could try is the 69 position. Perhaps if he is giving you oral at the same time, you'll feel more comfortable giving it to him. It's worth a shot and if you don't enjoy it, you don't have to do it anymore. [ sugarplum07's advice column | Ask sugarplum07 A Question ]
christina answered Saturday March 3 2007, 10:34 pm: If you don't like to give oral, then don't. You told him you didn't like it, and he said he was fine with it, but he's obviously not. Tell him again, and if he doesn't accept it, I'd get rid of him. It sounds bad to dump someone over that, but if he really loved you, he'd accept your decision.
thelaura answered Saturday March 3 2007, 4:13 pm: It doesn't matter if he didn't go all the way in. A penis still entered you, therefore, you're no longer a virgin.
andalixsays answered Saturday March 3 2007, 4:05 pm: Youre not a virgin.
If his penis was inside you, then you lost your virginity.
but to correct the person below me, your hymen breaking doesnt mean youre not a virgin anymore. You can break your hymen playing sports or inserting a tampon. it can happen when youre quite young, too.
blujay answered Saturday March 3 2007, 4:04 pm: hunny if a man puts his penis in your vagina then you are so not a virgin even if it is just the tip the question is if you blead or not if you did then you are so not a virgin [ blujay's advice column | Ask blujay A Question ]
mitzi answered Saturday March 3 2007, 4:01 pm: If your hymen is broken you are no longer a virgin. If he put it in you you are no longer a virgin. I hope he used a condom because even if a man puts just the head in you can get a STD. The only difference between true love and herpes is that herpes is forever.
All men beg for oral sex. If it makes you feel uncomfortable you should not do it. Don't allow someone to preassure you into something you don't want to do. You can also get a STD from giving oral sex.
Of course he is "fine" receiving oral. If you know he's going to preassure you to have sex with him I think you should stay away from him. You don't want to get a nasty STD or pregnant.
I assume you are a teenager and you shouldn't give it up for a boy you've only been with for 6 months. Does he love you or does he just want sex? I say let him get sex elsewhere. [ mitzi's advice column | Ask mitzi A Question ]
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