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How do I tell him?


Question Posted Wednesday March 28 2007, 1:22 am

Well me and my boyfriend have tried having babies and every time it ends in a death so we gave up trying and I just found out I'm pregnet again (this would be the4th time we lose a baby if it dies) I want to be happy but its hard because of the past and I know he is going to feel the same way how do I tell him?

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charmed3fanatic answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 8:54 am:
tell him that you both have the chance to try again, you just have to take extra extra percautions and hopefully everything will turn out okay best wishes hunny.

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Elcee answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 5:30 am:
This really is a very tough time for the both of you. Losing a baby is one of the worst things I have had to deal with, and facing it for a fourth time must be hell. You need to be honest with him about your feelings and give him time to have his say. Then the both of you should go to the doctor/hospital and ask to be monitored closely because of your past history. Should you sadly lose this baby too demand that someone looks into your case to try and find an answer. The doctors may well be able to give you some guidance or clues. Unfortunately, sometimes there may be no answer and it is just down to bad luck and mother nature. I wish you all the very best for a successful pregnancy this time, but if it all goes wrong again, you will need to give yourself time to grieve before trying again. If you are offered counselling please take it, it will help. My prayers and heartfelt good wishes go to you all.

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1993 answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 4:55 am:
Well keep having sex with him. And just be hopeful and if you want to tell him, just tell him i'm sure he will understand.

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