HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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So this isn't a question about liking boys... I DON'T like anybody! I could think they're cute, but that's all. I'm 13/f and I'm not that comfortable thinking about being in a relationship. It makes me uncomfortable, and I can think "ewwwwwwwwwwwww" Some people like me, and it just makes things worse, because I do NOT like them, it's just, "eww".... I even feel weird about my dad or one of my boy teachers. I'm ok around people who I know probably don't like me, and if we're really good friends and stuff. I'm just not interested. One person who likes me, KNOWS that I don't like him, but he's obsessed or something, and it creeps me out. The other guy who likes me is my friend, which still makes me feel awkward. There was a rumor going around that he liked me, and it was annoying how people kept saying "guess what?! so and so likes you!" The same with the other guy! I could honestly care less about boys (no offense) and I love being single :] Boys are also rude, etc, etc, etc! (if you girls know what I mean) but girls can also too. Am I just not ready? I just wish NO ONE would like me! DDDD: D:<
(I'm still thinking, ewww, gross, bleh.....) (link)
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haha don worry your definetly not a lesbian..your just living your age RIGHT and i respect that.Your not ready for a realationship at all and thats not bad..ur too young anywayz...most guys at your age are trading pokemon cards and gurls still think guys have cooties at that age lool its totaly normal dont change...time will change your point of veiw anywayz i used to think the same as you trust me lol your compleeeeetly normal
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13/F
If you hump or have butt-sex are you not considered a virgin? And, is it okay to have butt-sex at age 13??? (link)
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when your cherry(hymen) is popped you are no longer a virgin.and i think it is totally not ok to have it when your 13.Your waaay to young and if you end up pregnant youll become a child with a child and both need mothers.And you wont be able to be a good mother cuz your still in need of one.You should wait till your a little older then that like 16 or older then you gota make sure its with someone you KNOW your going to be with forever not just any guy
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What age do you think is the right age to have a boyfriend? I am 13 but Im not sure what age is the right time. Thanks! (link)
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when your mature enough to know what is it you want in a relationship...when you know that being in a realationship means wanting to be with this guy forever and not because you want to look cool infront of your freinds.When you know your ready to be loyal and COMMITED tothis guy and only him.if you ready for all that then youre in the right age^_^
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13/F
I posted a question before about this and I've been depressed for several days now so... What's wrong with me??? (link)
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ok theres a reason behind it and you need to find out..theres SOMETHING thats bothering you or mabey your close togetting your period and when you get it you usually get all moody.But you should sit down and think of what it is thats makingyou like this and solve it with the help of an adult...
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On july 13th, 2005 I started dating this boy who I really liked. I was so in love with this boy, even though I was so young. He is in my grade but he is a year older than me because I should be in a grade lower than I am in. I liked this boy so much because he was my first love. We were so open eachother and I told him more than what I would tell my best friend or my mom. If I needed help, or someone to talk to, he was the first person I'd call. Same for him towards me. We were inseperable and spent everyday together. We hardly ever fought, and if we did, we would make up the next day. Me and this boy dated for exactly 1 year and a week. We both just needed a break and dated other people. After about a month or two, we started going back out. Then we were on and off until February 21st, 07. He broke up with me because he thought I liked another boy but I didnt. Ever sense then, he has made out with some of my so called "friends" and he has completely ignored me. I want him back more than anything in the world right now. My friends have tried to talk to him but he says he hates me. Even I have tried but he just ignores my texts, or walks away. I've tried everything. I've tried ignoring him, ive tried making him jelous with his friends, he doesnt care. I dont know what to do and im dying inside, please help me get him back !!! =/ (link)
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i know you love him but seriously you cant let a guy mock your dignity like that!he said he HATES you and your STILL all over him?!hes taking advantage of that!you need to NEED to get over him and stop asking for him back!your making yourself look so small infront of this guy.Forget him and walk in skool like nothing ever happend and dont give a fuck just like he is doing.now THAT is probably what might piss the crap outta him.we all have a time of heartbreak even celebriteis that seem to have it all go through it and get through it^_^im sureyou can too.Like you said you asked him back a million times and he just brought you down...enough of that!!no guy is worth you losing your dignity ever!
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Look...i really like this guy and he really likes me but i also like this other guy...and i think about them both all the time....wat do i do? the guy that likes me back means the world to me while the other one is just a "man Whore" but i like them both...help me (link)
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dude leave the man whore alone if you dont want to end up being played.The other guy means the world to you and if you let him go...you will have lost your whole world to a man slut that will one day play you.
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Okay...im going to try to have this make as much sense as possible so there is this guy lets call him kyle =) well today kyle asked me out and he's really cool and sweet and stuff but im not sure if i could ever see him as a b/f...and i dont wanna hurt his feelings either and there is another guy let's call him matt =) well he's a year older than me and goes to a different school but i see him all the time at the park and we hang out and have a good time and he's like always hugging ma and sometimes we'll play tackle football and he'll run towards me making it look like he's gonna tackle me and he'll put his arms around me and his firnds will be like dude tackle her and let go already and he'll be like i dont want to and im going to see him tommorow at a game at his school so yeah but one more problem...there's a 3rd guy let's call him christian my ex-b/f...he broke up with me about a month ago but when he did he still loved me and really cared about me it's just a lot of "stuff" was going on and he didn't wanna drag me into it and he promised me he wouldn't get another g/f but when i was his g/f he wasn't a very good b/f and i'd alaways end up walking to class after brak or lunch crying so idk wut to do? should i wait for christian the guy i still kinda love? matt the sweet funny guys who's always hugging me? or kyle the guy who just asked me out and is really nice and seems to really like me thanx alot and i would appriciate if you would explain who i should pick and why it would help alot thanx!!!! love yvette
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first of all,FORGET COMPLETLY abouut your ex,hes past and you need to think of the future.He doesnt love you if he makes you cry llike that all the time and the reason he leaft you is because hes not ready for commitment not because hes going through alot of shit,thats bull man.Second of all...the guy that you just met...needs time to see if you like him so...if your in a rush then the dude that hugs you seems mad sweet,but DOES he like you?you need to put in mind hes not at your skool and what if he dont like you and is a player...and just randomly stops going to that park one day?you need to be sure of that be4 you make a decision....you need to look for the one who loves you not who you love if you dont want to end up heart broken..if you find that the dude that tackels u aint good...then give the new guy a chance(klyle)
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okay i like this guy and he likes me and we're not going out because i cant date yet and he said he'll wait for 2 years to date me but we cuddle a lot and stuff and this guy friend who has a gf likes me saw us hugging and stuff and he was like "if your not going out why he be grabbing you and when he calls you your like a pet to him you go right after
not to be mean but if you really werent.. then i am ashamed of you cause you should KNOW better soo do you really let a guy do that to you when ur not together? just think about it" what is he trying to say? am i being ****/easy? i like him but then im kinda confused because i like this one guy too >.< any advice? (link)
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woman,you need to sort out your feelings.You cant like two guys at the same time becasue your gonna end up being unfaithful to both and losing both.Whats goin on here *speaking honestly* is that the guy that said hed wait to date you is surpriesd youd do stuff like that with a guy your not even with yet,while this guys being true to you to the point where he wants to wait for two years JUST to date you.He might get a really bad impression of you and not even wana get with you anymore.I dont think your slutty,i just think what you did mighta been.Please think bout this so you dont end up regreting it.
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I have everything I wont in a family like a great mom,step dad,Brothers,sisters and a dad but he is in prison right now.But We do fun thing lke a family but before I go to bed I think that there is something miising in my life and its like I have a hole in my heart I know that sounds weird but it is true.I can't figure out what this is can anyone mabe tell me pleez b/c it is always bugging me. (link)
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well you need to sit down and think about what it is that your missing...is it a best freind?a boy freind?money?Whatever it is you need to know that noone is completly happy,noone has everything they want,its how life is,cuz if you did have everything it wouldnt be fair to others who have nothing at all right?Sometimes it is because you think you have everything you just start feeling sad for no reason,trust me it happens...you just need to love life how it is...to accept like with all its imperfections and understand that there are people longing for a family like that.Be happy before its taken away from you
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^_^ur pretty good
keep up the good work ull one day help make a difference here^_^
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Ok, so I think my hymen might have broken, but I'm still a virgin. I'm only 14, and sex seems like a scary thing to me. I think it might have broken while putting a tampon in. Later this month, I have a doctors appt, for kidney stones, and they have to go up inside me. I'm worried that if it really did break, they'll tell my mom. She would freak out. I don't think she'd believe that I've never had sex. Do you know maybe what I could do? Like, what I could maybe tell her?
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when you go to the doctors and it turns out your hymen really did break,just tell them the truth.Tell them how you were trying to put a tampon in and your hymen just broke,then for sure the doctors will tell your mom that.And when your mom asks if you had sex tell her your true opinion bout how youd never and you think its scary.
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All of a sudden my bed got this really weird smell, and it smells horrible. Even though I've washed the sheets a million times, it always comes back. Also I'm a very clean person, and very into hygeine so I know it's not me. Any ideas? (link)
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its probably not from the sheets,its the bed itself....when you wash the sheets the bed starts smelling good only for a short while cuz the sheets smell really good,but the odor is coming from the bed...try to get it cleaned and washed somewhere.
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I had this boyfriend for 4 years and he dumped me tons of times, then decided we should be friends. After a while, he questioned about getting back together and I said I wanted to. Then bam, he hit me with the news of saying theres another girl and that he can't choose. I told him theres no choice because I'm gone. Did I do the right thing? (link)
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HELL YEAH!!!u rock.dont ever get back with this loser cuz if he dont know how make a decision of wether or not he wants to be with you then definetly hes not ready for no realationship.hes a kid and immature as hell.dont ever get back with him cuz you are NOT under his command...dont let him play you!
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i actually dont know exactly what size i am in for bras. and i have push up bras that pretty much don't push up my breasts. it acts like just a padded bra, am i in a size too big or too small? (link)
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if you wana know what bra size you are then chek this out
http://www.85b.org/bra_calc.php
bra calculator lol weird but helps you find out what size you really are
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I am looking for a new perfume scent, but have no idea which one I want. I want something pretty popular, but not cheezy. Any suggestions? (link)
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i would reccoment just me by paris hilton it smells amazing,seriously lol
curious by britney spears,moschino couture,ultra violet,insolence,
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15/f
me and my friend ryan have been friends since freshman year and this summer.. we hungout all the time ;; when this school year came around he stopped talking to me completely and i was like what the hell? my friend kate told me that ryan is not talking to people that remind him of this girl sam (a girl he REALLY REALLY liked since freshmanyear that broke his heart) so he stopped talking to me and i got really upset but he's talking to kate and jill who was also really close with sam and like everybody else but me and sam (sam doesnt really care) =/ but a few weeks later i leave him a myspace message saying that friends dont do this to eachother you shouldnt throw away ourfriendship..blah blah blah he said sorry and stuff and i'm rightbut he still wont talk to me
he waves when i wave but nothing else
and it reallly makes me sad =[
idn what to do stop being friends with him
try to like talk to him more
like jill kate ryan and a few other ppl
sit at lunch together and i'd like to sit with them because jill and kate are really good friends of mine but idn if ryan would want me to
ah what should i do?
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i think you should talk to him ONE last time face to face.Tell him im sorry i dont remind you of sam like absolutley EVERYONE but were best freinds and lately youve been making me feel like weve never even known eachother.Him hanging around other gurlz that remind him of her wont really get him anywherre...but still you need to be there for him in away...he could be going trhough a really hard time trying to get over her so he goes talking to or doing ANYTHING that reminds him of her....before you think about to stop talking...confront him first and see if he is going through a hard time and advice him with what i told you....if he still ditches you out..dont eeven bother telling him your not gona be his freind anymore...just stop talkin too
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please help,i'm only 5'5 and i'm nineteen and a guy,i heard that guys can grow up to 21 years old so i still have hope left....
what exercises should i do?i know that gym exercises only make your muscles bigger and not your height taller,cardio exercises like jogging only loses your carbs,so what do i do to grow taller? any food? exercises? medications?
plus my friend has a short dad but he is like 6 foot.so yeah,do you guys have any suggestions?thanks (link)
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being short isnt bad:)
i heard playing basket ball somehows makes you look more spread out and might give you a sence of tallness,
try taking calcium stuff and youve always got high heels to save you^_^
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Hi Im 15 and I have 1 or 2 friends that smoke weed and my brother does I am sooo tempted to try it but I know its illegal and wrong I dont care if its wrong but I have soo much stress I cant get rid of my stress any else!! please dont say dont smoke just tell me exactly why I shouldnt do it!!
or why I could!!?? plzzz help (link)
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all the people around you that are smoking weed are WRONG,theyre going to get themselves killed,if they all go jump off a building would you do that too??i don think so^_^ well to get rid of stress wha your trying to do is solve a big problem with an even BIGGER problem!weed is only gonna stress you out even more later on when you start hallucinating and drop outta skool and all your freinds leave you!To get rid of your stress...try telling someone what is it that is stressing you out.Then find different activities to do to get these stressy things outta your head.
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Alright, well usually I'll agree 'age is just a number' but this situation...
My friend is a 15 year old girl and she's dating a 12 year old boy. I mean, yeah age is just a number but this is weird. People usually say on here 'Remember someone who is older wants a different kind of relationship' and that's true. A 12 year old boy has just left his "Girls have cooties" stage for gods sake!
Well my question is, do you think it's right that they're dating? Or is just me thinking it's wrong?
Also should I just let her be happy, or should I say something? If so, how should I put it? (link)
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I think thats mad weird yo...12 year old boys will be mostly trading pokemon cards not really dating lol i think you should tell her once and advice her that its weird and shes not going to find the protection and love and COMMITMENT she needs from a 12 year old kid!That kids gona grow up and look to other girls cuz hes still young and dont even know what he wants yet!Tell her that and if she dont listen then let her make her own mistakes so she can learn it the hard way...
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16/F I really am motivated to find a religion that will have me feeling purified. I've already taking some quizzes to see which would suit me, but those weren't of use. Here are some of my beliefs which will not change.
-Against abortion
-Abstinence until marriage
-Strongly against smoking and drinking
-Reincarnation
This is for my own practice and mainly to achieve inner peace. I am very self-aware.
I'd prefer if it were a religion that isn't so common because chances are I've rejected it in the past.
Thank you for your help! (link)
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I think what you might be looking for is islam...it meets all the needs your asking for
its sinful to drink and smoke
anything that has self harm is a sin
its wrong to have sex until your married
if you want to know about islam more
id be glad to tell you,just drop it in my inbox
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