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friends before hoes? =/
15/f
me and my friend ryan have been friends since freshman year and this summer.. we hungout all the time ;; when this school year came around he stopped talking to me completely and i was like what the hell? my friend kate told me that ryan is not talking to people that remind him of this girl sam (a girl he REALLY REALLY liked since freshmanyear that broke his heart) so he stopped talking to me and i got really upset but he's talking to kate and jill who was also really close with sam and like everybody else but me and sam (sam doesnt really care) =/ but a few weeks later i leave him a myspace message saying that friends dont do this to eachother you shouldnt throw away ourfriendship..blah blah blah he said sorry and stuff and i'm rightbut he still wont talk to me
he waves when i wave but nothing else
and it reallly makes me sad =[
idn what to do stop being friends with him
try to like talk to him more
like jill kate ryan and a few other ppl
sit at lunch together and i'd like to sit with them because jill and kate are really good friends of mine but idn if ryan would want me to
ah what should i do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
The columnists before me have pretty much covered it, but I just want to ask a favor of you.
Please never use the term "hoes" to refer to girls in general, or girlfriends, or whatever you were referring to ever again. I know you didn't mean anything by it, but still, it's not a smart thing to do.
Thank you. Good luck with your situation =)
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i think you should talk to him ONE last time face to face.Tell him im sorry i dont remind you of sam like absolutley EVERYONE but were best freinds and lately youve been making me feel like weve never even known eachother.Him hanging around other gurlz that remind him of her wont really get him anywherre...but still you need to be there for him in away...he could be going trhough a really hard time trying to get over her so he goes talking to or doing ANYTHING that reminds him of her....before you think about to stop talking...confront him first and see if he is going through a hard time and advice him with what i told you....if he still ditches you out..dont eeven bother telling him your not gona be his freind anymore...just stop talkin too
good luck
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Agreeing with casiababyy. I just wanted to add to this that just because he has decided to end his friendship with you don't let that alienate you from your other friends. If he's sitting with your friends I see no reason why you shouldn't be able to go and sit with your friends. He shouldn't be putting you in a position like this in the first place.
Also, I just wanted to point out that something similar had happen to me as well. it was different circumstances but similar in ways and in the end it got to the point where I had just got tired of waiting and said fine have it your way and deleted the girls number. Now I don't talk to her at all. She has friends who I also am close to but I don't let that stop me talking to them because I refuse to be made to look like the one who's in the wrong when I'm not and when the situation was their choice not mine.
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you should talk to him in person. myspace is okay, but it doesnt actually show your feelings. when you talk to him in person he'll understand that your really upset about what hes doing to you, and how much you want to be his friend. he shouldnt drop all of his girl friends that are somewhat like this one girl. thats not right, and you need to explain that to him. just tell him that you want to be his friend and you dont understand why he doesnt want to be yours because of sam. i hope everything works out.
:]<3 casia
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