So this isn't a question about liking boys... I DON'T like anybody! I could think they're cute, but that's all. I'm 13/f and I'm not that comfortable thinking about being in a relationship. It makes me uncomfortable, and I can think "ewwwwwwwwwwwww" Some people like me, and it just makes things worse, because I do NOT like them, it's just, "eww".... I even feel weird about my dad or one of my boy teachers. I'm ok around people who I know probably don't like me, and if we're really good friends and stuff. I'm just not interested. One person who likes me, KNOWS that I don't like him, but he's obsessed or something, and it creeps me out. The other guy who likes me is my friend, which still makes me feel awkward. There was a rumor going around that he liked me, and it was annoying how people kept saying "guess what?! so and so likes you!" The same with the other guy! I could honestly care less about boys (no offense) and I love being single :] Boys are also rude, etc, etc, etc! (if you girls know what I mean) but girls can also too. Am I just not ready? I just wish NO ONE would like me! DDDD: D:<
caramella answered Friday October 26 2007, 5:08 pm: haha don worry your definetly not a lesbian..your just living your age RIGHT and i respect that.Your not ready for a realationship at all and thats not bad..ur too young anywayz...most guys at your age are trading pokemon cards and gurls still think guys have cooties at that age lool its totaly normal dont change...time will change your point of veiw anywayz i used to think the same as you trust me lol your compleeeeetly normal [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
SmoothKalyn414 answered Friday October 26 2007, 5:07 pm: You're 13. That's a perfect age to be happy and single the way you are. Unfortunately, guys, as well as girls are going through changes that might increase their interest in you or your girlfriends... I know, it's like "EWWWW."
I know, I was just the way you were when I was your age. (I'm old now lol)
But there will be a time and place when your opinion does change about boys and when it does, you know you will be ready. However, for now, be happy being single and enjoy it, because boys don't get much better in college. They still have their gross habits and think it's funny.
exohhmelissa answered Friday October 26 2007, 5:02 pm: You will definately grow out of this! And, yes you aren't really ready right now. Just know that, at this age nothing is really going to come out of having a boyfriend. You're not going to get married...you're not going to date for ten years. My point is that you should enjoy it while you can. but at the same time, if you enjoy being single tell those guys that, they will get the point and leave you alone!! Being single isn't bad and a lot of times it's better than dating someone. =)
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