Anyone need advice or just to chat i am hoping to be able to help as many people as possibe. I am also on here to look for advice--hey we all need it! So if you need advice you can get to me as you prefer. Thank you and hope all is well
E-mail: Kam98@rcn.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA
Age: 27
AIM: sxeys4
Yahoo: sweeteyez4u2c@yahoo.com
Member Since: November 1, 2005
Answers: 157
Last Update: December 25, 2005
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yeah okay. so i went out with this guy and he dumped me and he was but anyway i was really upset about it. and now he likes me again and i like him soo much and i loved what we had but like my best friend hates him and thinks that he a complete @$$! and like she's always like oh please dont go back out with him please dont. i mean what do i do? do i go out with him? oh and another thing lol um its like i really wanna be with him again, but then again i dont wanna go back to my past, but theres no one else out there and i really like him. lol sorry if its confusing and long but i really need the help (link)
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hunny there are alot of other people out there-you just have to look--and sometimes lloking ownt get you to find it will happen -give it time. as for your bestfriend saying not to go back with him--lets put it this way it is your decision but people who are outside the "circle" really see what the person is about. Also ive learned never chose a man over your best friend men come and gofriends are forever-he obviously hurt you once before do you want him to do it again? good luck
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ok i like this kid and my friend asked him why he didnt like he and he said it was because i was too skinny. like i kno im skinny but not so much that you shouldnt like a person because of it and its really bothering me b.c a lot of people lately have been commenting about my weight.. i just dont gain any no matter what i eat.. its not my fault. but what should i do? (link)
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if someone doesnt like you b/c of your weight then that person is no good for oyu--they should like you for the person you are. As for weight gaining sometimes people can eat 24-7 and not gain nothing. This is b/c your metabolism is very high. Depending how how old tyou are you probobly have alot of time left to grow--but if the metabolism conitnues to be high you wont gain--Dont try to do anything to please a person either they need to not only see the outter beauty but the inner also. The inner beauty is what makes a person beautiful
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Hi,
This is Jasmine. I am 24 and 5'4". My weight is 145lbs. I got married in Dec'04 and we had to stay apart for 5months and now we are together. I was 130lbs last summer, I am not sure if I gained this weight over a year or just in the last 6months. I am a Master's in Computer Science student and I am working on the computer for about 10hrs a day on an average. Rice is our staple food with different vegetables (fried or cooked). I am trying to walk 21/2 miles everyday, but haven't been very regular. My HDL cholestrol is very low and the doctor advised me to lose about 20pounds and I am feeling horrible myself. I would really appeciate anybody's suggestions to help me do this. Thank you so much for your help.
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ok first the fried foods are no good. Drink water and if you like soda make it diet. I lost 30 lbs in about 3 months. I stopped eating junk food,i went to a gym everyother day for about 1 hr and i switched to diet soda. You wanna stay away from breads and pastas-eat little if you have to. Depends on what kind of diet you are looking for. There is Atkins,weight watchers, or the old vegetarian eat no meat.Dont eat after 7pm-that is bad and it just sits in your stomach. try different things out see what helps you the most. Hope i could help and good luck
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ohk for the last 4 years i lived in ** but then i moved to * when i moved the only thing i wanted was to go back to **. the only reason i wanted to go back is cause the love of my life is there and i really miss him but ever since i left he hasnt talked to me but like 3 times in like 6months its so sad and i nedd him to live seriously. but hes not there and another reason is all my friends yea we were awesome friends but when i left ive only talked to 2 of them and thats. only a little bit. like maybe ill be going back in a year im wondering do i really have a reason to go back? i don't really have my lover anymore and he was the most important person in my life he was always there for me and everything.. i know hes not here for me now but do you think he will be when i go back that way he can actaully see and hold me? ok to get to the point like put yourself in my shoes would u go back? do u think he will ever come back to me? or is it really just a waste of my time??
17/f
ThAnx alot In advanCe (link)
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ok check it out--you say he is your lover-and you need him to live--but he obviously does not feel the same way about you--and i say this b/c if he was your lover and he was there for you and everything--he would STILL be there for you now-and he is not. Yes you would be wasting your time and i only say this b/c he is not there for you now.--and you shouldnt have to go back just for him to see you and hold you when he should miss you now--understand? you need to understand when someone is your lover they will stick by you nomatter how close or how far away you are if you need anything let me know and good luck
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Yesterday i killed the person i loved. And i dont know what to do... SHould i go to the police, should i run, should i kill myself? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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wow if you are serious then yah turn yourself in--you ended the life of a person and for whatever reason that may be is unknown but if you love someone why would you end thier life? this is serious and scary at the same time--there should be no reason to kill someone-dang man tuen yourself in before you get caught and things are alot worse
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What shoudl i do when me n my friend keep gettign in to fights for no reason and aour last one was a BIG one n we havent really talked since! should i say something to her or what?! i mean we made up after our last fight n we sadi everything was all good! what should i do!
need advice
ASAP!
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seems to me like you and your friend are clashing right now--you ned ot take a break from each other-just say to her i know we are fighting but when the time is calm we can talk again and we need to break from each other hope all works out for you
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my best friend and i are crushing on the same guy she loves him but dosent even like her and i told him i liked him and he might like me if he asks me out i badly want to say yes but at the same time i dont want to loose my best friend. what should i do? (link)
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first of all your friend cannot possibly love someone who does not even like her--its not right and hse needs to know this-love something you have for anyone and he obviously doesnt even like her so she needs to not waiste her time--as for oyur question i would not lose a friend for no guy--i learned the hard way and men never stick around long enough and if you find one--find out if he has a twin-lol
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hi, my family has 4 animals, 2 dogs, a, cat and a guinnea pig. i REALLY want a kitten for my birthday or Christmas. my mom and dad already said no, how can i get them to say yes? (link)
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well sweets it looks like you have alot of animals already and you cant force your parent sot say yes b/c it is alot of responsibility to have another animail-hey yah never know they may surprise you!
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okay well i been going out with this guy for 7 months and we always make out but after a while it just gets boring just doing that. If we have sex what do i need to no .. i mean i no a lot of stuff ... but what else should i no because it would be my first time and im afraid im going to do somethin wrong .. idk ..
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if you dont know what to do your proboly too young the best thing you can do is to not do it until you know what your doing -dont rush it -your time will come
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ok, i have fat cheeks for some reason and i need to know is there anything i could do to make them appear less chubby? I have greyish-blue eyes, average sized lips, and my skin tone is a little darker than fair. thanks! (link)
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use a littleblush but not a dark color and not alot just enough you dont want to pu too much on it may look not so nice-same with the color if you use a dark color it will be more obvious
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Okay I was just wondering what is the law now for getting your permit and license? Because I heard they changed it. Well I'm 15 now and I'm turning 16 in March. (link)
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depends on which state you live in there are different lawas normally it is 16 but some states are changing the law to 18 so we need more info
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I got contacts a few days ago and they've worked well. The problem is that they seem to be riding on my eyes fairly low, though they still cover the colored party of my eye. I have a stigmatism, so I don't know if that has anything to do with this, because I know I have the special contacts for that conditions. I've tried puting the contacts in different eyes, so I'm positive I have the right eyes. Is this normal. (link)
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ok as for the contacts you just got them a couple days ago you need to give them time to settle. I wear hard and soft lenses. At night time they seem to fit differently because yuour pupils get alger at night and the contact stay the same so at night they may also tend to "fall" down. Give it about 1 week and see if they adjust to your eyes.blink a couple times to position them also. If it still continues you may want to talk to your eye doctor to adjust them in the lab. If you need anything else let me know. I have a condition called kerataconus-i wish i only had a stigmatism-lol. good luck
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yesterday a boy came over that i really like. Ok so things got heated and we started kissing, makin out a lot.yeah. Then we got into my room and he fingered me. Now im afraid that maybe he doesn't like me or somethin or just doesn't have any feelings for me. He's not the kind of guy that would use a girl like me like that because I know him really well and he treats me differently than other girls (in a good way)but for some reason I'm still worried that he's just gonna forget about me and go with another girl or something. What can I do to maybe prevent this from happening??? thankss! (link)
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He is not going to forget about you--does he know you lik ehim? why did he come over? did you ever talk about being in a relationship? what is he looking for? just a booty call? there are alot of factors in this but the main thing is keep talking to him and let things take its course
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My mom went to the doctor to have a pap ( is that right?) scan or whatever and they found some bad cells. The doctor said it wasnt cancerous and that her appointment will be in early December. On the other hand my dad had fooled with a bunch or prostitutes and I am SOOO Imbarrased. My mom isnt sexually active and my mom is afraid that she could have Herpies, or warts, etc. But on the bright side it could be Menapause (sorry bout Sp.) Because she is 48 and she has been skipping periods. My mom and me lived with him because she didnt think you could generally catch it untill she looked it up on the internet. She is Soo afraid that she has lost 5lbs in 1 week! Please help ASAP! (link)
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ok let me start off by saying a pap smear detected whatever it is she has. I have had many of these and i am only 27. I have had abnormal cells and it is ok they will do a cryosurgery which will freeze the abnormal cells.and they will be gone) she will have foloow ups witht he doctor to make sure its ok--i have never had a problem with these and i have had 2 of them. Beings she is 48 it may well be menopause-she is fine and let her know that if she had herpes or warts the doctor would have told her and would have seen this when he did the pap smear--beings she has abnormal cells it could be why she is skipping her periods also--i have had that before b/c of the abnornmal cells. once thise process is done her periods may be off or she may hit menopause--its a process to get it back to normal i am on my second yr now and my periods are finally getting back to normal--i also have endometritis which is the thining of the liner in the uterus. So i have pain in my ovaries when its ovulation time. I hope i could help need anything else let me know keep me posted on your mom let me know how she is
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Okay, I'm 20, and I think I *MAY* be developing some feelings for a guy I know...I'm going to think on this very carefully, and if it turns out that I do like him...
How do I get his attention???
Thanks!
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Just be yourself and he will notice you. If you know how to flirt do it alittle but dontover do it--that will make you seem needy. Trying to get someones attention i think the hard but they should notice you for you dont try to be someone your not--just flirt alittle bit good luck
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What color should I paint my toenails?
I really can't decide and it is really bothering me.
Please help, thanks a lot!!
xoxoxo
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i like neutral colrs and the color you have your fingernails should match your toenails. I like tans,browns and reds. There are alot of colrs. What colors do you have in mind and i will help you choose
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Here is my problem: I recently started to work part-time as a teacher in a private center. I realized my manager is sneaky. He recently asked me for a photocopy of my course material that I wrote for my students . My students have already photocopied this course material, so my manager doesn't need a photocopy. I believe he wants to make a book out of this course material. The thing is I spent 4 whole months preparing this material . I'm not about to let someone take my time and painful efforts and make a profit of it behind my back. How can I tell him that I don't want to give him a photocopy without risking losing my job? I need the money. Waiting impatiently for an immediate answer as I have work today. (link)
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As a managerI will tell you this much,you need to be honest with him and let him know what you feel. Dont let him walk all over you, you cannot lose your job for being honest-there is alot more thanjust firing someone-i know its also my job to do that. Just tell him "Look i dont understand why you need a copy"? and he should give you an answer' f he does not give you an answer you clearly state to him that you dont feel he needs a copy when the students already have it. Also he cannot make a profit on someone else's work there would be a big lawsuit against him and he knows this, The best thing to do is talk to him and make him understand you want ot know why. You cant get fired for something like that and if you would you could fight it with unemployment-there is alot i know and cant just throw out there. But just talk to him--as a manager i dont like when my employees take me for granted,ir lie,or dont stand up for themself. Hope i could help
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okay me and my boyfriend matt have been going out for almost three months.. i really think just making out is getting boring for him but since hes sucha gentleman hes not gonna say anything, if i want to give him a handjob, what should i do? just put my hand down his pants? it seems like there should be more to it? i dont know its my first one! and when he fingers me.. does he like go inside my pants or is it like.. over my jeans? im really confused on all of the second base junk. HELP? please! (link)
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ok its kind of hard to answer when the age is unknown but since everone on here asks advice iwill give it--even if we dont tell you one day you will know--ok if you want to do something to him...when you are kissing just start rubbing you hand up and down his leg and eventually go towards his package and he will know what your doing--then when he is ready he will do the same and at first it it outside the pants then you have to unbutton his jeans and go inside same as him he will also go inside yours,and yes when you get fingered it is inside-goodluck nd remember be safe and if it goes further wear protection--there are many diseases outt here and you dont want to get any.
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im really confused right now. i went to be last night knowing that my boyfriend loves me im making good money and im doing good in school. but this morning i woke up and my heart, not like litterally like i was having a heart attack. but like someone had broken my heart and i was very confused and i havent really figured it out. its like all day i couldnt smile i couldnt find a reason too. when my boyfriend called me i was very short with him and kinda rude. and whenever he'd say he loves me i was just like o ya love you too. and thats not me. im usually totally lovey dovey. im really afraid he is going to think somehthink somethings up and i dont want him too because there isnt anything wrong with us at ALL. I just dont get it :-/. im really thinking its because my dads five year reunion is coming up not like a high school or friendship reunion but the reunion of his death. and it seems like its always harder when its a 1 year or 5 year or 10 year anniversary you know...so this year im really sad. this whole month has been horrible. everything i think about makes me cry music makes me cry, laughing makes me cry and work makes me cry. my heart hurts so bad its like aching...its horrible how do i make it go away...uhhhh what do i do? why do i hurt like this? gezze this sucks......... (link)
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Like i said everyone can give you advice-its easy to do so I am not only giving you advice but i feel your pain-i have been there and still am with people i have lost in my life. I lost my grandfather-i lost best friends,i lost my sons dad,and you are always left incomplete when you dont have someone you love--i lost my finace not to death but just b/c he left me--same thing i am so lost without him and just want him here to hold me-and knowing thatw ill not happen hurts even more--but you have a boyfriend-go tohim and let him comfort you the way you need to be--he may not be your dad but your dad would be proud that someone is standing inhis place with his little girl watching over her--it will be hard but you have to with in yourself deal with the issues no matter how much advice you get-just know i feel your pain and i am here for you if you ever need something or just to talk.
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well a while ago my boy friend got shot and went into a coma for about a week. and i was talking to his friend online so she could keep me updated once and a while on how he's doing. so i kinda sliped up that i was trying to kill my self with a knife and slitting my wrists and that i was trying to over dose with sleeping pills. so she told him once he woke up... and now hes mad at me... what should i do? (link)
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I dont think he is mad as in angry with you .I think he is more upset b/c he was pretty much on his death bed and you were trying to join him. Hunny you need to realize that your life was not at risk. You should of been there with him at his side so when he woke up he could see you were there with him--not trying to join him. If you need to talk im me or email me and i will talk to you. I am noticing alot of smart ass comments in here and that aint right-so get at me if you need ANYTHING
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