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my mom and my boyfriend think that i dont care and im just trying to balance my boyfriend and my family and my friends and everything. And now my mom says i cant even sign up for dance unless i get high honors on the first quarter in all my classes.i know im not going to cause she moved me up from the academic classes i was recomended for to all honors classes.and even if i do make it i cant do competition starting in november when she'll let me sign up
i dont know what to do, advice anyone? (link)
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well then give up dance to make your mom happy and do your best in honors i know hard heartless that sounds (i had to give up gymnastics to make my mom happy) but that may be the only way to solve this and try to spend the time you would be in dance with your boyfriend instead so you can balance everything you can always join dance the next time if its still what you want to do or you could talk to your mom about letting you go to night school for your honors classes like once a week and doing dance the rest or something try to negotiate if it doesnt work out then do your best to not throw a fit cause she might change her mind if she thinks your mature enough to handle everything
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I really care for this girl and she just wants to be good friends she lead me on at first then se turned me down and i havent gave up on her yet wut shud i do?? (link)
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sadly but give up...i say that because it sounds like no matter what you do she will never return your feelings for her so you are going to run in circles to please this girl and she is never going to let you win it sounds like she justs likes playing head games and will keep doing it for attention you can keep being her friend and win her over that way possibly but dont run to the end of the world to prove yourself to her cause she really doesnt care
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I think my boyfriend might of cut me with his nail while fingering me... but im not sure. It hurts extremly bad when i pee, and its like an irritating pain all the time. It doesnt itch or anything it just feels extremly different and annoying. Im also discharging a lot but its clear... no color or odor but i did have a little blood when i wiped after i peed. Do you have any idea? (link)
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umm..wow its probably that he might of popped your cherry and its bleeding a little at a time. or maybe he did it before you started your period that would explain the dicharge and the bleeding...it should stop in a few days if not you should definetly ask your doctor
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I love going down on my gf. Im starting to think im not doing a good job because my gf takes forever to cum. Any advice on things i can do to help get her off. (link)
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PLEASE DONT TAKE IT PERSONALLY....i love it when my bf goes down on me it feels so good! but for some reason i dont ever cum...i get really wet but i never cum so it might not be what your doing it might just be the way her body reacts...i hate when my bf gets hurt cause he never makes me cum...you can try putting ice in your mouth before you go down on her it feels really good
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Yesterday I lost my virginity and well of course it hurt like hell!...but also I didn't feel any pleasure out of it!...whats wrong with that...It just hurt...thats all It didn't feel good or nothing! I didnt even last that long after like 5min i had to tell him to stop!...mostly cause i had to pee...but when i went to the bathroom I couldn't pee! I feel Like I never want to do It again! Is this normal!!!! (link)
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believe it or not it is and the feelig like you have to pee is usually when its going to start feeling good, but i also hate to break it to you but the guy you lost it to may be to big for you and you might never be able to get comfortable with him during sex. sometimes it helps if he fingers you before cause then your body is warmed up and prepared for sex.
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I cant sleep during the night. My body wont let me sleep until 2. And i have no idea why. Im tired. My minds tired. But i just cant. i have to get up and babysit at 6am. So thats only 4 hours. Its makeing me sick. I cant think straigh or anything. I feel like im going to puke. My heads killing me. Like today i was babysitting. I kept falling asleep during the day. But once i tryed to sleep, i couldnt. My head started to hurt and everything. Please help. school starts soon. Also, im going to start taking sleep aids. But i dont want to become dependent on them. And i have no had sex no there no way this has to do with being preg. Btw, im 13/f. Please help. (link)
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alrighty well you might actually not be eating right it sounds stupid but its true if your not eating the right kind of food then your body wont let you function normally or maybe its because you over exauste yourself and then your body has to much adrenaline to let you sleep
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hey guys. thanx for takin the time to read this.
ok im in foster care and me and my 4 brothers and sisters are all split up and i cant help but to find my self gettin depressed over it....
what are some things i can do to cheer up when i start feelin this again....
*KASHIA (link)
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oh im sorry to hear that i went through the same thing and i can tell you that no matter what you do to take your mind off it it will always come back that feeling wont ever really go away but maybe you can start a journal like i did and write how you feel through poetry its pretty neat what you can do with words thruogh your emotions or maybe you can read or get involved with some kinda sport
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well i hate having hair "down there" and ive tryed shaving but i cant stand the red bumps and all that i have no way to wax cuz my mom wont let me buy it and nair smells so bad i cant stand it!!!
is there a differt ways??
if so plz tell how tp use it!
also do guys like it a surton way?
im 16 in nov
thanks a bunch
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well some guys dont like it if you shave because its like your still a little girl on the other hand some guys think its gross if you dont shave but i dont think guys care if you shave it a certain way or not but if you use alot of shaving cream and kinda let it like soak in and use a new blade then you shouldnt have any bumps and it shouldnt come back for a few days even as a prickle and waxing that area isnt smart if you mess up and do it wrong you could painfully damage your skin down there
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ok i know this is like my 4th question in one day
theres this guy i like, we'll call him Joe. Joe knows i like him and he says he doesn't feel the same. he has this ex i really dont like too much. well joe acts a lot of the time like he likes me, he teases me(sorta mean, sorta nice), hes always messin with me, and the other night he called me. he made fun of me while we were on the phone, and he kept asking what i was doing. hes one of my kinda good friends and he texts me almost all the time. well i recently(as in about 5 minutes ago)found out from one of my other best friends that she told his ex (Sara) that i like him, and she and sara called him to try to get him to date me, my friend has been getting both of his exes to try and hook me and him up. any advice about this whole fiasco? i dont want him to think i put them up to it, but i really dont want to talk at all about it with him (link)
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well i think its kinda silly to let your friends get involved with you and your crush but i think you should yalk to him about it and see if he will give you a chance
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heres the thing i have a boyfriend. and my other guy friend likes me i agree with my friend my guy friends cuter but in a realtion ship he might be more helpful but then if i got in a fight with him i might be put to the cerb with my boyfriend now he probably aint that helpful but i no i can fight with him and end up getting an i love you at the end of the day. who do i choose. (link)
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well i think you should wait to go out with your guy friend and see if things get better between you and your bf...i say that cause if you hook up with a friend it usually changes everything for the worst when you break up and you end up losing not just you bf but a great friendship too
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Okay so ive been dating this guy on and off for the past year and 4 months. We have had some pretty bad issues that lead to our break ups but we've worked through them all i guess. I've always felt great wen i was with him and like everything was perfect, excluding when we were fighting.. Except out last break up we spent 5 months apart and we both dated 2 other people before we got back together. Now that we're back together (Mind u this is the 6th time we have got back together) i thought everything would be great again, cuz well i love this kid and this is what ive wanted the whole time we were apart.. Butt i guess i was wrong.. Wen we got back together he just seemed to be more controlling and really distant.. it even feels weird to talk to him on the fone. I tryed to talk to him about it the other day and he told me he kinda thought the same thing but he didnt know wut to do about it and well neither do i. Also lately i found myself starting to get feelings for someone else.. Friends ive asked for advice told me that maybe we shouldnt be together. Im so confused, please help. (link)
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i agree with your friends you dont belong together i understand you had feelings for him before but they have obviously changed for the both of you and if you broke up six times already that should be a sign to you that it wasnt meant to be so why dont you talk to him about just being friends and give this other guy you have feelngs for a chance
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whats a good drugstore powder? doesnt matter if loose and pressed powder but something that is really goood!!!
oh and what do you prefer loose and presseS? Just wondring
under ten dollars please =] (link)
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maybellene
because its quality under ten dollars and i suggest you get the pressed because it goes on smoother and last longer
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so me and a friend have been fighting pretty bad,and we fucking hate eachother.I really still like my ex and we were supposed to get back together,but i heard she hooked up with him today.I can't find out if its true,i tried to ask her but she started being a bitch and wouldnt tell me.It may not seem like a big deal,but it is to me.Im so upset right now.what can/should i do? (link)
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well i guess you can let it go find a real best friend and a new bf or you can continue to fight with your friend and let your ex do stuff thats going to keep hurting you the choice is yours i really cant say much cause i dont know why your friend is a bitch or why you and your ex broke up so there isnt much i can say but i hope whatever you choose to do you get through it peacefully....i honestly would find new ppl to be in my life
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17/f I'm going into my senior year and I want to make a good image for myself. I want to change my wardrobe, which generally consists of t-shirts and bootcut/ flare jeans, along with sneakers or flip-flops. You can see my problem, I think. I want to have a good casual look that is a little dressy, but not over the top (I want to wear my jeans, if possible). I also want to create curves on my thin, rectangular body. I'd like to have a classy look that I can carry over to college. But I want it to be comfortable. Who can help me? Any advice is appreciated. I'm about 5'6, 120 lbs. (link)
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i think i can help!! you can definetly wear your jeans with a dress up blouse and some cut off black boots you could also change your hair. now if you want ppl to notice your figure get low cut hip jeans that hug the hips but flare the feet and wear a shirt that is kinda tight but not skin tight like if you wear a shirt that brings out the shape in your chest but it shows to much of your stomach then get it one size bigger and wear a push up bra
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ok i had my first period 3 years ago on my birthday and it was heavy and somewhat long, i had it again exactly a year later about. now it comes every few months and i never know when its gonna come every time i do have it, i get super moody, its heavy and it lasts a few good days. i need to know a way to make it regular so i don't have to always wonder when its going to come. my mom suggested birth control, but i never know if i can take it at the same time every day because i have a horrible memory about stuff like pills and other kinds of medicine. any advice about any way to keep my period regular?? (link)
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well you cant make your period regular but you can get a birth control shot and that last a long time its like from a year to 5 years its crazy but it works now its not gonna give you a regular period (depending on the kind) but usally it will take away your period completly. you should ask your doctor to see whats available
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Okay like I said before I am moving to Louisisana. And my new school is a private school and you have to wear uniforms! I am sooo not used to that! everyone knows me at my school for basically my clothes! I won best dressed. But I was wondering what I can do to spruce up my new uniform. Im not going to Know anyone! I want my attire to resemble my personality. But I dont know how to do that! I am very bubbly and outgoing! please help!
~Londyn~ f/14 (link)
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dont freak out you shouldnt let what other ppl think bother you but if you want to get creative with your uniform depending on the color and what it looks like and what the school will allow will also help for giving you ideas...but lets see if i can help any way...well if you have to wear a skirt you can wear denim jeans under it and decorate the legs or you can wear a sweater over your uniform and have what you want on it or even change up your back pack a little
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so i had this job and i stole money from it because i had to pay so many bills and now i have no job. i was terminated so now i need to look for a new job any one have any places i could work and when i apply should i say i was terminated for stealing even though it might risk me from getting the job or should i just not list the job i was fired from. im really worried please help i have many bills to pay! im really worried.
also my bf works there to, we have only been together for a month. if he asks why i left should i tell him i stole or what if someone at work tells him i did what should i do im so scared because my life is messing up all for a couple bucks! (link)
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first of all talk to your boyfriend even if he thinks what you did is wrong you should let him know so that it comes from you first and not someone else so he knows that atleast your being honest with him and not trying to hide it i suggest that you dont list the job you were terminated from but list maybe a previous job and a job you might look into would be like for verizon phone company or t-mobile i hear they pay good money and have decent hours
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i have semi bad backne and im going to be wearing a swim suit tty much all week. in about 3 days im going. IS THERE ANY CREAM THAT WILL GET RID OF THIS LIKE ASAP. or atleast tone down the reddness? (link)
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um i dip a qtip in rubbing alchol and rub it into my acne maybe it will help dry out your backne to
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How do you know?
Because I use to think I was pansexual (atractted to personality) because I'm pretty sure I was I find out their personality before I am attracted to them. But them I started thing "oh that girl is kinda cute/hot" but I still think some guys are also cute and I still look at people's personalities first. So help?
Age: 16
Gender: Female
Please & Thank You (link)
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i dont think being attracted to someones personality is a bad thing in fact it can be quite helpful. some people you cant tellwho they are by looks so its helpful really i think but then again sometimes it might be dangerous to let your self be sucked in to someones life just because youre attracted to them as in ruin your life to make them happy.....i can honestly tell you that the guy im with now i wasnt really attracted to him by his looks but i loved him as a person and he had a great personality so when he asked me out i said yes and i grew to love the way he looks i cant believe i never noticed how cute he was till now but i guess it depends on what personality your attracted to
hope i helped,
beautevil78
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alright so my friend who ive been good friends with for a long time has been ignoring me a lot this summer and i know shes been ignoring me bc she always has her phone with her and she rarely does not answer someone... until it comes to me. so then yesterday i asked her if she wanted to go to a Cubs baseball game with me and she said she'd see if she could go... so then today i asked her and she was like i cant go because my dad had tickets and i said no to him so itd be mean to say yeah to u so i was like alright whatever you wanna hang out today and she was like i dont know if i can im gonna be with my parents today .... but she gives me this excuse everytime so i was just like okay whatever. and she was like just becuause i cant go to the game with you doesnt mean you have to get an attitude with me. so i was like i could care less about the game you've just been ignoring me all summer long and im just sick of it. and shes like i have other friends then you and get an attitude check..and i was like why have you been ignoring me? go ahead give me all your excuses.. i know whats bull or not... and she was just like ha! shut up get an attitude check .. something like that. so i was just like I'm not fighting with you so bye. and the last thing she said was hahahahaha! i was like okay... i didnt say anything though..but she's just been so different this summer like and now shes got a therapist and shes doing all this weird stuff that she didnt used to do and shes been cheating on her boyfriend and her moms been remodling my house so her mom is friends with my mom and her mom told my mom thats she really insecure and didnt like her last school and shit like that..but i dont know. should i just end the friendship? because we've been having these problems for a while. (link)
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no dont end the friendship just let everything go dont keep putting yourself up for her disappointment but be there if she needs you she obviously doesnt understand what kind of a friend she might lose she in a stage where her entire world has been turned around and she might be acting this way be cause she might be afraid that the things she loves most are going to leave her and hurt her so she tries to do it first so she isnt the one getting hurt it might just be her way of saving herself she just doesnt understand you actually care she thinks you are just going to put her down
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