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bitch!
alright so my friend who ive been good friends with for a long time has been ignoring me a lot this summer and i know shes been ignoring me bc she always has her phone with her and she rarely does not answer someone... until it comes to me. so then yesterday i asked her if she wanted to go to a Cubs baseball game with me and she said she'd see if she could go... so then today i asked her and she was like i cant go because my dad had tickets and i said no to him so itd be mean to say yeah to u so i was like alright whatever you wanna hang out today and she was like i dont know if i can im gonna be with my parents today .... but she gives me this excuse everytime so i was just like okay whatever. and she was like just becuause i cant go to the game with you doesnt mean you have to get an attitude with me. so i was like i could care less about the game you've just been ignoring me all summer long and im just sick of it. and shes like i have other friends then you and get an attitude check..and i was like why have you been ignoring me? go ahead give me all your excuses.. i know whats bull or not... and she was just like ha! shut up get an attitude check .. something like that. so i was just like I'm not fighting with you so bye. and the last thing she said was hahahahaha! i was like okay... i didnt say anything though..but she's just been so different this summer like and now shes got a therapist and shes doing all this weird stuff that she didnt used to do and shes been cheating on her boyfriend and her moms been remodling my house so her mom is friends with my mom and her mom told my mom thats she really insecure and didnt like her last school and shit like that..but i dont know. should i just end the friendship? because we've been having these problems for a while.
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You should just camly explain to your friend what she's been doing and how it's making you feel. If she doesnt change, then this friendship isn't worth stressing out about.
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no dont end the friendship just let everything go dont keep putting yourself up for her disappointment but be there if she needs you she obviously doesnt understand what kind of a friend she might lose she in a stage where her entire world has been turned around and she might be acting this way be cause she might be afraid that the things she loves most are going to leave her and hurt her so she tries to do it first so she isnt the one getting hurt it might just be her way of saving herself she just doesnt understand you actually care she thinks you are just going to put her down
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Well, if it is causing a lot of stress for you, then it is worth ending. You have already tried talking to her, and that didn't work, so maybe you and her just do not have a strong bond with eachother, and the friendship can't last.
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