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is 22,000 dollars a lot? i know its not a million or billion and so on. give me some ideas of what i could get with it other then like clothes and that kinda stuff? thanks. i know strange question. (link)
22000? yea, dats a lot


How do you know if your order has shipped on ebay? I ordered a guitar on Thursday and I want it so badly. (link)
eBay should send u a email saying wat u ordered was shipped out.


is any one into wicca? if they are any spells anyone?
and what is charging? any good tips on what to do or good books? any thing really. Thanks (link)
I no a good book you can use. Teen Witch by Silver RavenWolf. It's got spells, rituals, and what Wicca's all about. It's really good.


Please. This is so important. I need a wiccan to respond to this. Me and my friend are afraid. Please, I can't describe it through this, i just need to ask a question or two. Please I'm begging you. (link)
hey, if u still need help, u can ask me


Can someone tell me more about the religion, Wicca? I just recently found out about it and it sounds so much like me even though I never heard of that religion before (link)
It's a religion where you worsip God sperichaly and magicly and respect the earth and all in it. Yeah, I know this explnation sucks but I don't know how to quicly sum it up. I do know the tital of a book you could use: Teen Witch by Silver RavenWolf. This book will tell you everything you need to know.


In the past few months I have gained a few pounds (I don't know if this has anything to do with my issues or not)
Lately (say, past 3,4, maybe 5 weeks) I have noticed that I'm constantly thirsty and always have to pee. Also, every time I eat (even if it's just a little) my stomach begins to hurt and I am CONSTANTLY bloated. Just these pass couple of days I have also had diarrhea which stings. Could these be symptoms of anything serious? There are stomach issues on both sides of my family. My mom had ulcerative colitis. What could be wrong with me? Do these symptoms sound familiar? (link)
This kind of sounds like diabeties. If I were you, I would go to a doctor NOW!


The guy i like worships the devil..i think..he is into wicca and i'm totally the oposite...i love Jesus and God. But is it wrong to have feelings for someone like that? (link)
Wiccans dont worship the devil! They worshep God, but in a more magical and sperical way (in fact, the devil is a christinaity bealive, Wiccans bealive in evil, but not "a devil"). But, yea, I think its not wrong. If you like him, then I say you should do somthing about it and ask him out.


For some reason, I can't cry at funerals because I just don't cry that often.

But I was wondering if this was bad or heartless? Because once my cousin got mad at me because I wasn't crying at her dad's funeral and it makes me feel awful that I can't cry during these times.

Are there any other ways to display emotion, if not in tear-form? (link)
Just because you didn't cry doesnt make you a bad person. In fact, asking this question only shows that you are a good, caring person!

I guess you could avode eyecontact with people and seem depresed. But honestly, you shouldn't feel bad. You didn't do anything wrong, like I said: not crying doesnt make you a bad person.


i stopped going to school about 2 years ago i couldnt stand it the food gave me horrible migraine the other kids bullied me the teachers treated me like a idiot because i had dyspraxia it hardly affected ne exept i cant concentrate, my writing is awful and theres nothing i can do about it i was teated like the one outcast who cant do anything because my teachers didnt understand what my disorder was the only knew about dyslexia the admitted so my history teacher demeaned me in front of the whole class by saying i had lazyitits until i developed a powerfull phobia and got diagnsed with clinical depression. anyway before me and my family discovered home learning it was a horrible ordeal of my dad trying to make me go to school and me literally not being able to we fought and argued and screamed and cried until i was diagnosed with depression i lost a year of my life sleeping until 7 pm and falling asleep after crying all night at 6.30 am. i am really worried that my dad and my friendship has been destroyed my dad never seems happy and and i always seem happy but am very depressed i am 15 but i am sure it not my hormones

please help me

horribly lost boy (link)
Don't give up. I have dyslixia too, and my old school shuned me too and treated me like an idiot (the teachers called me lazy and stupid to my face). Then, I started going to a different school that had a reasorce room class that I was placed in. All the teachers treated me really nicly there and the resorce room teachers there were trained to help students like me. The school even gave me a alpha smart (it's like a small type writer) to type in all my classes because my handwritting and spelling is so bad (not all schools with resorce room have this, but most do).

Mind you, this wasnt a "specal school" it was a norrmal one. Most schools have a resorce room program to help kids. I sugest you and you're parents going online and look for a new school, trust me, it won't be hard to find one with a resorce room program.

Let me just say, dyslexia is new. Not many teachers no what to do, plus everyone is different. One of my friends who alos has dyslxia learns better with work books, but I learn better with pictures and games. The resorce room teachers will help you.

If needed, get a tutor. Make sure they are trained to help kids with dyslexia.

Doing all of this isn't as hard as it sounds, its all very easy. Remeber, you're not alone, and never give up. If you have any more questions, ask me.


alright so my friend who ive been good friends with for a long time has been ignoring me a lot this summer and i know shes been ignoring me bc she always has her phone with her and she rarely does not answer someone... until it comes to me. so then yesterday i asked her if she wanted to go to a Cubs baseball game with me and she said she'd see if she could go... so then today i asked her and she was like i cant go because my dad had tickets and i said no to him so itd be mean to say yeah to u so i was like alright whatever you wanna hang out today and she was like i dont know if i can im gonna be with my parents today .... but she gives me this excuse everytime so i was just like okay whatever. and she was like just becuause i cant go to the game with you doesnt mean you have to get an attitude with me. so i was like i could care less about the game you've just been ignoring me all summer long and im just sick of it. and shes like i have other friends then you and get an attitude check..and i was like why have you been ignoring me? go ahead give me all your excuses.. i know whats bull or not... and she was just like ha! shut up get an attitude check .. something like that. so i was just like I'm not fighting with you so bye. and the last thing she said was hahahahaha! i was like okay... i didnt say anything though..but she's just been so different this summer like and now shes got a therapist and shes doing all this weird stuff that she didnt used to do and shes been cheating on her boyfriend and her moms been remodling my house so her mom is friends with my mom and her mom told my mom thats she really insecure and didnt like her last school and shit like that..but i dont know. should i just end the friendship? because we've been having these problems for a while. (link)
You should just camly explain to your friend what she's been doing and how it's making you feel. If she doesnt change, then this friendship isn't worth stressing out about.


Do you know how early or late in age you can get dislexia?

and what are some signs that come with it becides words getting scrambled? (link)
you can't exacly "get" dislexia, you're born with it.


I need to lose 20 pounds in a week in a half but I don't know how please help me.
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Sorry to tell you, dude, but that's imposibul. Even if you do manage somehow to do that, it's VERY dangeruse and can REALLY hurt you.


So, a couple week's ago, I was reading in Seventeen about a girl who had a mental disability, and in the corner of the next page, theres a little red box that said " Could you have a hidden disorder?"( This is the February 2008 issue, the one with Vanessa Hudgens on the cover.) One of the disorders is Social Anxiety Disorder...where you have continious fear of being judged, watched, humiliated, or embarresed, and it makes it hard for you to get through day to day activities. As soon as I read it, I felt that i may have this disorder...Heres what made me feel like I may have it....

When I'm walking through the halls at school, what's always on my mind is what all the people around me are thinking of me...what there thinking of my skin, my hair, my clothes, my body...weather they think im fat or gross, or my clothes are ugly, and I HATE walking through the hall's. Even when I'm walking out in public, and I pass a complete stranger, I cant help but think, when they looked at me, what they were thinking...weather im ugly, fat, what they thought of just...me. It's sometimes even hard for me to eat in public, cause I think that everyone is watching me eat.

I tend to get embarresed easily. It seems like everything that I do I get embaressed doing it. I get embarresed walking into a room. Weather it's at school, church, with my family, my boyfriends family, my friends house. Anywhere.

I seem very very....self concious...I guess...I dont like to show my body much cause I'm afraid of what people will think..weather something on me is to big, or if my skin is too light, stuff like that. When I'm swimming, I get so embarresed when I strip down to my swim suit, and when im walking, I put my hands in front of my sthomach, I try to cover my thighs,any part of my body that I'm not comfortable with, I try to cover it up. It even makes me skip out on going swimming sometimes. A couple weeks ago my boyfriend invited me to go swimming with his family,and I told him that I didnt want to go. He didnt understand why,and i didnt want him to think that i was fishing for compliments on my body,so i just told him it was my monthly time. Everytime that I walk, and i look at my legs, all i see is the fat on them, everytime i look at my sthomach, all i see is the fat. and im afraid of what people would think, so i try to cover it up with my clothes. I dont like living like this. I know that teens are suppost to be a little self concious...but is it suppost to be this bad?

could I really have this disorder?
I'm sorry if it's super long

thanks for all your help

14/f (link)
Dude, you just have to chill. Honestly, this disorder sounds like a lot of bull. Everyone gets self concious and a lot of people care about what others think about them (a lot of my friends only think about what others think). You just need to relax and know that most people arn't thinking what you think they're thinking.


My friend has lied to me so much. I don't even trust her anymore. So we were gonna tell each other who we like and she said she would tell me if I told her first. So I did. She lied to me and told me she liked another guy. She doesn't know that I know she lied to me. I found out and I can't exactly tell her I found out because of how I did find out. And she likes the same guy as me. I wouldn't care at all if she likes the same guy, big deal. But the thing is, she lied to me. And she told her other friend who I like and that she does too. They were talking about me and I always talked about him. Like how he talks to me and stuff and that she thinks I'm lying about that. I don't know what to tell her or what to say. Please help me! I'm so confused of what to say to her, it makes me really mad. Thanks and sorry it was so long. (link)
Honestly, I don't think she's a true friend if she lies so much. Friends should be able to trust each other with everything. You should tell her she's being unfair and untrusting and just stop telling her secrits until you can trust her.


13/f

So I'm in 8th grade and I like this guy at my church. I do talk to him but he usually comes up to me and talks. He is with his friends alot or talking to other people. I want help with this. How can I talk to him? Its really hard for me. Thanks! (link)
Just go up to him and start a conversation. Talk about things like music, movies, school. If he's with his friends see if you can join the conversation.


Im going in to the 8th grade, I have lots of friends actualy everyone is friends with everyone. Im 13 and I have NEVER had a boy friend im not ugly, but not what people call "HOT". Im not skinny, but im not fat either. I dont have a problem talking to guys and they talk to me all the time. Im just afraid to ask guys out and no one ever asks me out. I dont know what to do and i dont wanna marry the first guy i date I need help. ANSWER QUICKLY PLEASE!!! (link)
Just chill. My friends and I are going into 8th grade too, and most of them havent had a boyfiend yet either. You don't need one, so don't even try. When the right guy comes along, then you'll go out with him, but until then don't even think about it.


17/F My friend is a Jehovah's Witness and really tries to convert me. I am Jewish as in heritage, but I've come to the conclusion that I am fine without a religion. I don't need to be led and that's final. If I tell her I am content with my religious choices...will she still be my friend? or should I just continue to turn down invites to her congregation...I've been there before, so I have given it a try. (link)
If she's a real friend, she won't care what your religion is, she'll still be your friend.


Me and my best friend have been close for about 7 or 8 years now. We have had a pretty good friendship, with the occasional argument here and there, but very seldomly. Anyways, me and my boyfriend(my child's father) broke up 3 months ago and he moved out. 1 month ago, he moved back in and we are trying to work things out. Now, when my boyfriend was gone, me and my best friend pretty much talked on the phone everyday for hours at a time. Now that he's back, we don't do that as often. She used to come over every single weekend. She is also the god mother of my son. Now that my boyfriend is back, obviously, it is not right to still have her over every weekend. My boyfriend and her are fine with eachother, except my boyfriend feels she shouldnt come over every weekend because me and him both work all week long and weekends are more like "family time" and relaxation to him. I understand that, however, would like to see my friend as well. Even if I try and talk on the phone to her, and he just walks in from work, he gets upset because I don't stop to give him a kiss and say how was your day? Me and my best friend have talked maybe twice in 2 weeks, which is a DRASTIC change. She just told me tonight that she's done trying to call me and hear all my excuses lately as to why I don't call her or why we can't hang out. One, she lives 20 mins away and gas is expensive. Two, I work overnight AND have a 6 month old baby, so time to sleep and still get things done is precious at times. And three, I honestly do not want to argue or deal with the stress of my boyfriend and hearing him say he would like to spend the weekend spending time with me, but does it EVERY weekend. What should I do?? (link)
Try to make it clear to your boyfriend that it's not all about him. You're friend are imporant to you too. If he has a problem with that, he isn't really worth it.


13/f
Ok im going into the 8th grade and i have never had a boy friend. It's not like im realy lonley or anything. It's just at school and stuff I always see my friends with their boy friends and I feal left out. And when me and my friends go to the movies or mall they always bring their boy friends and I hate not having one. I'm not ugly or anything either but guys never ask me out and im way to afraid of being turned down. I know im only 13 but my friends have ben in many many relation ships and i dont mean like a week they always go out for a while and that makes me feal so inexperienced. What should I do? (link)
Just relax. Most of my friends havent gotten boyfriends either and we're going into 8th grade too. Don't try to get a boyfriend, wait until you meet a guy you like. Having a boyfriend isnt everything.


i started dating this guy and its been almost a month.

hes really open with me and my family. he hasnt met my friends but im sure he'd be the same.

me on the other hand, im not shy because ive never acted this way. i can start a conversation with a toal stranger and go on for hours.

but when it comes to his friends or family, my mind goes blank and i just giggle or smile and thats it!

how do i get over this or what can i do to get over this? well i ever get over it?

he thinks im shy and afraid of what they will think of me. i honestly dont know? (link)
dude, just chill. lot of people get like that. as long as you're nice, polite, and don't freak everything will turn out fine.




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