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lost from my dad
i stopped going to school about 2 years ago i couldnt stand it the food gave me horrible migraine the other kids bullied me the teachers treated me like a idiot because i had dyspraxia it hardly affected ne exept i cant concentrate, my writing is awful and theres nothing i can do about it i was teated like the one outcast who cant do anything because my teachers didnt understand what my disorder was the only knew about dyslexia the admitted so my history teacher demeaned me in front of the whole class by saying i had lazyitits until i developed a powerfull phobia and got diagnsed with clinical depression. anyway before me and my family discovered home learning it was a horrible ordeal of my dad trying to make me go to school and me literally not being able to we fought and argued and screamed and cried until i was diagnosed with depression i lost a year of my life sleeping until 7 pm and falling asleep after crying all night at 6.30 am. i am really worried that my dad and my friendship has been destroyed my dad never seems happy and and i always seem happy but am very depressed i am 15 but i am sure it not my hormones
please help me
horribly lost boy
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Don't give up. I have dyslixia too, and my old school shuned me too and treated me like an idiot (the teachers called me lazy and stupid to my face). Then, I started going to a different school that had a reasorce room class that I was placed in. All the teachers treated me really nicly there and the resorce room teachers there were trained to help students like me. The school even gave me a alpha smart (it's like a small type writer) to type in all my classes because my handwritting and spelling is so bad (not all schools with resorce room have this, but most do).
Mind you, this wasnt a "specal school" it was a norrmal one. Most schools have a resorce room program to help kids. I sugest you and you're parents going online and look for a new school, trust me, it won't be hard to find one with a resorce room program.
Let me just say, dyslexia is new. Not many teachers no what to do, plus everyone is different. One of my friends who alos has dyslxia learns better with work books, but I learn better with pictures and games. The resorce room teachers will help you.
If needed, get a tutor. Make sure they are trained to help kids with dyslexia.
Doing all of this isn't as hard as it sounds, its all very easy. Remeber, you're not alone, and never give up. If you have any more questions, ask me.
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Your best bet would be to go up to him and have a good father-son chat. Talk to him about what is going on in your life and your head.
There was a time when he was your world, but now you are in a world he isn't apart of so much. It's just something that tends to happen as you leave childhood. He can't be apart of it unless you let him into it. Best way to do that is to talk to him.
I imagine he would like nothing more than for his son to come to him seeking advice on his problems or just needing an ear to listen. Allow him to still be the hero you look up to, now and always.
Your relationship isn't destroyed. Problems can be solved, fences can be mended. You just have to make the effort to do it.
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I went through a similar problem but it wasn't as serious. My father and I still don't talk as much as we used to, but it's getting better.
I don't know anything about your father, but I would suggest trying to talk to him. Make small talk when you can. If he has any interests, like watching football, watch it with him. Buy him a really nice gift for Christmas. He still loves you, you're his son. That's a strong bond no matter what happens. He'll appreciate or at least notice the effort you're putting in and hopefully he'll try to do the same.
If you live with both of your parents, talk to your mom about it. Maybe she'll subtlely mention something to him for you.
I really hope everything works out :)
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