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My friend
My friend has lied to me so much. I don't even trust her anymore. So we were gonna tell each other who we like and she said she would tell me if I told her first. So I did. She lied to me and told me she liked another guy. She doesn't know that I know she lied to me. I found out and I can't exactly tell her I found out because of how I did find out. And she likes the same guy as me. I wouldn't care at all if she likes the same guy, big deal. But the thing is, she lied to me. And she told her other friend who I like and that she does too. They were talking about me and I always talked about him. Like how he talks to me and stuff and that she thinks I'm lying about that. I don't know what to tell her or what to say. Please help me! I'm so confused of what to say to her, it makes me really mad. Thanks and sorry it was so long.
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Well...If she lied in the first place she isn't a real friend.A friendship is based on trust.If she lied to you about something that childish just imagine what else she can be holding back from you.I wouldn't talk to her about anything else.
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Easy, don't tell her anything more. You can still be friends with her if you want... but if shes going to constently be backstabbing you then why do you want to be? If you do though, just don't tell her anything, you know you can't trust her NOW, learn from what you didn't know then. If she asks who you like, just be like ehh, I don't really like anyone. Or just flat out say I can't trust you because of what happened last time. Maybe confront her?
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well she kinda sounds like, a person you don't want to be friends with. Call her out about ask her why she lied and then told everyone your secret when your suppose to be best friends. Tell her how it made you feel, that she really upset you and she shouldn't have done that maybe she will apologize and see her wrong, if not then she sounds like a waste of air.
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Honestly, I don't think she's a true friend if she lies so much. Friends should be able to trust each other with everything. You should tell her she's being unfair and untrusting and just stop telling her secrits until you can trust her.
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