Member Since: July 19, 2008
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Last Update: July 19, 2008
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16/f. We broke up a month ago. Went out for 1 1/2 years. We were really close- we talked every night and did something every weekend. I really did love him. I wasn't expecting the break up either (he broke it off.)
I keep thinking about our relationship too... when he kissed me, or held me, I just loved him so much (I still do, even though he's being mean) and I'm having a hard time.
To make things worse he's started ignoring me. I was finally able to start the "I'm not going to IM him thing" and it's working... except he's not IMing me. I'm still in love with him but I want nothing more than for him still to be my very best friend (with the way things are going that will be over soon, and I'm upset.) I know I can't change his interest in me but it hurts so much.
Problem: I leave on vacation Saturday of next week. I'm thinking I need to see him before then (and he knows this) because it would make me feel better. But we haven't talked in 2 days. At this rate we'll never be doing something before vacation. So do I stay miserable and try to get over it, or do something fun and (hopefully) feel better?
I just love him so much and he's my best friend and I'm losing him. Should I ask him (again) to do something before Saturday?
PS. He's a hypocrite too, a year ago on advicenators he gave an answer saying that "a bf/gf being clingy is not a good reason to break up" whereas I think that's the reason he broke up with me. Let me add that he's changed since last year (and this whole "clingy" situation reinforced this thought). He used to send me random letters and flair on facebook... the past few months it seemed like he was losing interest. So a year ago he said "clingy" doesn't matter but now he does?
But what do I do? Do I IM him? Do I ask to see him? But I want to so bad!
Thanks,
a girl desperate to see her very best friend but he doesn't want to (?) (link)
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I had the same problem with my ex boyfriend almost exactly. I wanted to stay friends after we broke up. he wanted nothing to do with me. I was so sad all the time. but after a while i realized how heartless he was, so now i could care less about him. it did take time though. Your heart was broken, it needs time to heal.
I think you should go on your vacation and try to forget about it. And try to communicate with him when you get home. He may just need time away right now.
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What do you do when the person you like a LOT is talking to WAY prettier girls? Do you keep liking them and pursue them anyway? Or just give up? :( (link)
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Dont give up. If you have feelings for this guy go for it. Whos to say youre not a way better person than those other girls. looks arent everything darlin!
good luck!
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