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bestfriend boyfriend dellema
so me and a friend have been fighting pretty bad,and we fucking hate eachother.I really still like my ex and we were supposed to get back together,but i heard she hooked up with him today.I can't find out if its true,i tried to ask her but she started being a bitch and wouldnt tell me.It may not seem like a big deal,but it is to me.Im so upset right now.what can/should i do?
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well i guess you can let it go find a real best friend and a new bf or you can continue to fight with your friend and let your ex do stuff thats going to keep hurting you the choice is yours i really cant say much cause i dont know why your friend is a bitch or why you and your ex broke up so there isnt much i can say but i hope whatever you choose to do you get through it peacefully....i honestly would find new ppl to be in my life
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Well first off, if you and your ex were planning on getting back together, he really shouldn't be going around kissing other girls...especially your ex friend. He is in no way off the hook here for that. I'm sure he knows you and your ex friend are not on good terms, and that wasn't very fair of him to do that, and wasn't very concerned about sparing your feelings. It may be time to reevaluate that relationship before stepping back into it.
And unfortunately, what's done is done. Your ex friend and your soon-to-be boyfriend have already hooked up. There is no taking that back. However, the hurt lives on. She either hooked up with him just to spite you, or she may really like him. If she really likes him, then unfortunately, there is nothing you can do about that because technically, you and this guy are not together and she is not your friend anymore. Sure, she should have spared your feelings at least a little bit since she WAS once your friend and your friends guys (ex or not) are usually off limits. If she did in fact do it just to spite you, then thats her own immaturity shes dealing with there and her own battle shes fighting...don't add fuel to the fire because revenge makes you just as wrong and bad as the person who hurt you.
My advice is to one, talk to this guy and try to find out what happened. If he has any respect for you, he'll be honest. And two, don't bother approaching the girl. You two are not on the best of terms as it is right now and techically, she did nothing wrong in a way. He is single and can do as he pleases in the end. I know I would be hurt if I were you and feeling the same way though, and sometimes, it's best to just let it go. Let her go. And let HIM go.
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