hello i am a 25 year old mom, i am married to a wonderful man for 7 years. i have been there and done that, so i can answer alot of questions from experence.
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My Bestfriend and I meet in kindergardon, and have been friends ever scince, but now he is hanging out with these other girls (who are total losers by the way) and he says he doesnt want to be friends anymore. Just a couple days ago he tryed weed!! all because of these girls...:@ i no i should'nt care anymore but i can't help it, i feel like im still his bestfriend and all that...i feel so bad that all my friends pretty much are doing weed, and i want to just stop fighting and be friends agian, but the girls that he hangs out with now dont like me, and they have also tryed achocal and they've only hung out for a couple of days! im afried they will try something worse....
Please help,
Lost And Confussed. (link)
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you are a good person to be worried about your friend. sometimes people dont see what they are doing is stupid until it is to late. you r friend will eventually realise it is wrong what he is doing, but by then it may be to late.
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ok well this friday i had two guys come over ( im a girl just to let you know haha) and me and one of the guys hooked up then then next day i told one of my friends about it well... i think she my friend.... but thats another story so anyway she told one of my other friends that i was DRUNK and i wasnt even drinking then some one told another friend that i was a hore and now all of my friends( well they used to be they hate me now) never talk to me and i dont know what to do when i go to school monday please help me ! ill rate
Ash (link)
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wow, that is why i have learned the saying some things are better left unsaid. unfortunatly you have learned the hard way. one thing i learned when i was in school teenage girls change there minds, attitudes well really eerything every 5 min, so one min you think someone is your friend the next they have a juicy story and cant wait to make you look stupid. at least you know now who is really not your friend. i know that dosent make you feel better, but it is true, that is why and you will learn this more as you experence, as a woman what you do sexually, you need to keep to your self, because for some reason people especially other woman will place an untrue label on you just to make themselves feel better. and secretly the girls who were talking about you were just probley jealous,lol..
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I know there has been a lot of "my ex" questions, but I've been meaning to ask this for quite a while and I just need advicie. 13/f
Me and my "ex" broke it off last year around April, and I thought I was going to get over him in no time. During the summer, we started talking again and he liked my friend. They didn't go out so he got over her and liked someone else. I don't know if that was his way of actually moving on or what. Anyways, I actually never got over him at all. He told his best friend and my best friend he liked me again and wanted to ask me back out. I was soo confused and I don't know what happend but we aren't together right now. Then, he started going out with my friends sister which is a year younger then him and me and the rest of us. At school, I glance over and look at him and I always see him doing that back, but I don't think that means he likes me. Over AIM, he seems to really LOVE this girl but at school he doesn't show it at all. We had a dance and he wouldn't dance touch her or whatever, he was basiclly hiding. So I went up to them and made them dance but he just wasn't into it. I turned around & just thought to myself, why did I do that when it makes me so jelous? He was my first love, and I was his. I can't talk to him and please just don't say to. I don't have ANY guts what so ever, and he is shy so he won't talk to me eather. When I read their profiles I can't help but cry because I still love him soo much and who ever asks me out I turn them down. I can't get over him.
I really don't know what question I need to be answered but I just want your opinion and some help. It's really hard for me. I'll rate if you want me to, but I'm not saying "answer and I'll rate you a 5".
Thanks so much ! (link)
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it is very hard to get over your first love, just a little idea, im sure you know his e mail address and since you said you both are shy, why dont you just send him an e mail, i know for me it is so much easie to write down all of my feelings on paper, then you wont have to see his face when he reads it, plus you never know he might want to tell you the same thing but is afraid of being rejected or embarassed. if you do e mail him what i would in a round about way say is that you arnt trying to interfere with any relationship he has now you just need to get some things off of your chest about him, and tell him how you feel, and tell him you dont want things to be awkward, but without saying anything at all you feel like it is. good luck to you.
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Im gothic,I dont have friends of course,duh!
How do i get some so I can get a clique! (link)
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well try going out in the town you live surely there are other people around with the same interests as you. good luck
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I need to go on a diet but I don't know what a healthy diet would be. My question is what kind of diet should I go on and how should I do it.
Note: I'm 130 pounds, so nothing to drastic, I want to get down to about 115 or maybe 110. I'm also exercising along with it. Thank you for any help you guys give. (link)
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well i know eating alot of grapefruit and drinking its juice is supposed to help you loose weight, and really as long as you eat fairly healthy and exercise you should have no problem loseing weight. one thing to remeber is if you are doing mostly anything other than walking for exercise you are going to gain muscle before you lose weight, (muscle weighs more that fat) so it isnt always good to judge your figure on your weight
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If a boy friend wants to know about your past sexuall eperiances would you tell him the truth, if he is not your first, or just say you do not wish to discuss the subject.I only had 2 guys in the past but fell he will not belive me. i am 17 years old and did not have sex with my new boy frind yet. (link)
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i feel that is a very private question for him to ask you, i dont think you are obligated in ant way to share past sexual experences with him. however if you do decide to tell him i would definatly be honest.
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Ahh okay so I have a twin brother and well he uses me for my friends and he always goes with me everywhere and my mom doesnt get that I dont want him around I always to to talk to her about it but sheh doesnt listen..pleaseeeeeee help (link)
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have you tried talking to your brother about it. maybe you could try and help him find some friends of his own.
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you know those short-ish black tights that all the 'emo'-ish girls wear under like skirts or whatever.. they're usually black.. do you guys know where i could get some of those?
thanks alot! (link)
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try thrift stores
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Im 13 and i feel like im not wanted. my mom has a new bf and my dad has a new gf and my brothers 18 and is in a serios relationship so i feel like im not wanted cuz there always with someone else what should i do? (link)
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i would suggest talking to each of them privetly and let them know how you fee, they may have no idea you feel the way you do.
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i'm new at BMX does anyone have any advice on doing tricks? (link)
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be careful, and always wear safety gear
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I really need help with this, I have been wanting to order a bedspread for my room but i cant find any sites or onlinecatalologs, i have been to pbteen and delias site but i am still looking but if any one would no any sites along that line it would really help ???
Bedroom / online catalogs sites??/
Thanks i will rate high (link)
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i know jc pennys and sears also have online catalogs, and some pretty cute bedspreads
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I broke up with this guy a week ago but we still talk when i see him at his work. and i texted him today n he didnt text me back so i called and i asked if he was mad. and he said he wasnt and it was cool but he asked to call me back in 7mins cause he was almost home from work... everytime i called him, he was always on his way home from work. he gets off work at 9. and it was at 9:45 when i called him and he lives about half n hour away. he hasnt called back yet and its been over 10 mins. is he lyin to me? (link)
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sounds like he might be making excuses to not talk to you. you said you broke up with him, well maybe he is confused as to why you are still calling him, and he just dosent know what to say, so he makes the same excuse
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I love football but I don't really understand it. Could someone break it down for me not all long and stuff but shirt and simple? I'll rate you 5's thank you! (link)
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ok i will give you the most simple answer i can, well there are alot of really big hot guys....lol just kidding. ok actually there are two teams they play on a 100 yard football field. the object is to try to keep the other team from making touchdowns as your trying to make them yourself.now there are hundreds little technical rules inbetween what i just told you that affect how the game works. when a tean makes a touchdown they get 6 points, and then can kick a field goal for another point. the way i learned was just by watching the game at first i thought it was boring, but now i think it is interesting.
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Last year was my first year at this one school. In one of my classes there was this girl named *Kasey.*
She annoyed me so much. She tried to make me look bad, and make me feel like there was something wrong, or I was doing something the wrong way. But at the same time she tried to buddy up to me. She tried to become my friend and become friends with my bff. My bff doesn't like her(like me) and hse is really getting on my nerves. She is doing it this year to. my bff, her, and i are in the same class. If we do partners she either tries to have me or steal my bff from me and IT IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!
Whatdo I do to get her to bug off? I RATE HIGH!!! :) (link)
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dang, i hated people like that in school. i think you should just flat out tell her you dont like her. it might sound kinda mean, but think of it this way if you dont do it now you will have to put up with it all year. just be like , im not trynig to be mean or anything, but i dont know why you keep trying to hang out with me and my friend, you act very annoying and i didnt know how else to tell you, she will either understand and stop, or get really pissed and stop anyway cuz shes mad. good luck
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I get sharp Pains after I'm done peeing, and blood is coming out, only a little, but still bleeding... And I'm always peeing at least every hours. My period Ended on Thursday and I've been getting the pains since two nights ago.... The pains started getting duller yesterday, but they're back to very painful, sharp pains....
Can anyone tell me what this is and how to treat it? Even better how to treat it without my parents finding out? (link)
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well you could have a few diffrent problems, but my suggestion is go to the emergency room immediatly. sharp pains in your stomach are nothing to sit back and wait and see what happens. the most likely thing it is is an urinary tract infection, they can hurt sooo bad, if you get checked out and thats not it, the next thing they will check for sexualy transmitted diseases. either way you should talk about this with your parents.
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okay so guys are like.. weird.. all of them like want sex from me and i dont want to be like no go away.. but i also wont have sex with them.. whats something i can do to try and tell them i dont want to have sex.. im not mean or anything so please dont put anything mean to say! thanks a bunch! (link)
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i would just let them know that you think highly of yourself, and dont want just give your precious goods to just anyone. most of my male friends have always told me they would rather a woman be honest and say how much she values herself then just sleeping w/ someone to make them happy. so good luck to you and im glad that that some people in this world still have values.
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ok so theres this boy i like and we both go to a christian school...it sucks because i wanna go back to public and i like him alot and i think he likes me cuz everytime i look at him he like is always lookin at me and then he turns his head real fast...and he always shows off when im around...so like theres this new girl that likes him to but i liked him before she did and if we ever went out she would probally be all pissed and shit...anyway hes in 10th grade and im in 7th...and since we go to this retarded christian school we are both kinda shy to talk to eachother...we both hand out hints that we like eachother cuz like ill always try to sit somewhere where hes sittin on the bus or something..and he is always lookin at me...i like him sooo much how do i get him to notice me more and talk to me..!!!!!????? PLEASE HELP! (link)
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you should just talk to him and not wait for him to talk first. he'll like your confidence, and then youll know for sure whats going on.
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I really like this guy and i think he likes me back... i know him pretty well... any good flirting tips? (link)
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just go for it, talk to him that is the best way to find out what is going on, just wondering can drive you nuts, so i say just let him know how you feel and at worst you will find out he just wants to be friends, but at least you will know.
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Ive gott a complicated situation. the boy i like he has a girl...but when hes around me he doesnt act like it....i try to stay away from him because i dont mess w. other girls mans..but i always bump in to him....help me..whut should i do???
Signed,
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you are smart not messing with him, just imagine if he was your man and he did the same thing when you werent around. i feel bad for the other girl. hopefully you stay smart and dont mess with him, he sounds like a player, that could be fun at first, since you like him, but after a while it would get old, you would always wonder how he was acting around other woman. good luck
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There's this one guy that I like. The problem is that he has a girlfriend. One of my friends told him today that she thought me and him would make a cute couple. He said 'sweet.' Then she asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said 'probably.' And so asks if he likes me and he said 'not really but as a friend I do.' Then 'But it's kinda hard to like someone else when you have a g/f.' And to me it seems like he doesn't even like his current g/f, even though they've only been dating like 4? days. And it's a long distance relationship. I even give him a hug when I seem him at school. And he hugs me back. And I'm right there and his g/fs not. So I was just wondering what you guys thought about this? And if you think he likes me?
ps. 13/f (link)
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well is he 13 also, if so he is probley going to like any girl willing to give him a hug. i would worry so much if he likes you or not, or if he is your boyfriend, just hang out and have fun you have tons of time to worry about boys, there not always all there cracked up to be...lol.
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