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I broke up with this guy a week ago but we still talk when i see him at his work. and i texted him today n he didnt text me back so i called and i asked if he was mad. and he said he wasnt and it was cool but he asked to call me back in 7mins cause he was almost home from work... everytime i called him, he was always on his way home from work. he gets off work at 9. and it was at 9:45 when i called him and he lives about half n hour away. he hasnt called back yet and its been over 10 mins. is he lyin to me?
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sounds like he might be making excuses to not talk to you. you said you broke up with him, well maybe he is confused as to why you are still calling him, and he just dosent know what to say, so he makes the same excuse
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To anyone else and the eyes of an adult it appears you have blown it. You are too eager here and are driving him bonkers with calls and always just being there physically or by phone, e-mail, text-message. If you want to piss someone off and make them not like you that is how to achieve it.
You should not have called him back so many times as it's unattractive and being seen as a pest. No wonder he does not want to call you. If he gets off of work at 9 p.m. and lives 30 minutes away and has to walk from a bustop to home or a bus was late in traffic 9:45 is reasonable for an arrival. Count your lucky stars if he does call you back.
Guys and or girls for that matter do not like clingy people or those who go overboard in trying to snag them as their mate. This guy sees you as a nuisance and the stalker type and wants not to be involved with you. His problem is his signals of not being interested and not calling are not being picked up by you.
Frankly, he's not interested in you and does not want to come out and be blunt about the calls and text messages, e-mails etc to hurt you but you can bet the "Oh it's okay" really means "F--k off, don't call me you are driving me nuts." that some people would say. He has more compassion and tact then to do it that way. But yes, move on as he's not going to go for you.
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hes just trying to act cool.. like he doesnt care that you broke up with him. if he doesnt call you back. dont keep calling him back.. if he wants to act immature.. then forget him.
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Most likely. It's rare that people stay friends immediately after breaking up, that stuff usually happens weeks after the break up.
It could just be awkward for hi to talk to you, now that you two are no longer together, or it could be that he no longer wants to be friends. I can't speak for him, but I think it's safe to say that you should limit or restrain your efforts in contacting him for now.
I would continue to occasionally see him at his work, if he does wish to continue to be friends this will give him opportunity to act.
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maybe hes stuck in trafic some where. give him time. just because u called him back doesnt mean he had his fone with him he might have stopped by the store and left his fone in the car. or he might have gotten pulled over by a cop and well you dont just pick up your fone when your talkin to a cop. dont worry about it. if he doesnt call you back tonite then worry about it. i hope i helped.
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oh my god. its seriously been ten whole minutes? well god knows he isnt changing or taking a shower. and we all know he couldnt be making food or going to the bathroom. i think that you should just spare yourself the misery because hes ten minutes late calling you, hes obviously talking to some other chick.
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