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Another question about teenage love...
I know there has been a lot of "my ex" questions, but I've been meaning to ask this for quite a while and I just need advicie. 13/f
Me and my "ex" broke it off last year around April, and I thought I was going to get over him in no time. During the summer, we started talking again and he liked my friend. They didn't go out so he got over her and liked someone else. I don't know if that was his way of actually moving on or what. Anyways, I actually never got over him at all. He told his best friend and my best friend he liked me again and wanted to ask me back out. I was soo confused and I don't know what happend but we aren't together right now. Then, he started going out with my friends sister which is a year younger then him and me and the rest of us. At school, I glance over and look at him and I always see him doing that back, but I don't think that means he likes me. Over AIM, he seems to really LOVE this girl but at school he doesn't show it at all. We had a dance and he wouldn't dance touch her or whatever, he was basiclly hiding. So I went up to them and made them dance but he just wasn't into it. I turned around & just thought to myself, why did I do that when it makes me so jelous? He was my first love, and I was his. I can't talk to him and please just don't say to. I don't have ANY guts what so ever, and he is shy so he won't talk to me eather. When I read their profiles I can't help but cry because I still love him soo much and who ever asks me out I turn them down. I can't get over him.
I really don't know what question I need to be answered but I just want your opinion and some help. It's really hard for me. I'll rate if you want me to, but I'm not saying "answer and I'll rate you a 5".
Thanks so much !
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it is very hard to get over your first love, just a little idea, im sure you know his e mail address and since you said you both are shy, why dont you just send him an e mail, i know for me it is so much easie to write down all of my feelings on paper, then you wont have to see his face when he reads it, plus you never know he might want to tell you the same thing but is afraid of being rejected or embarassed. if you do e mail him what i would in a round about way say is that you arnt trying to interfere with any relationship he has now you just need to get some things off of your chest about him, and tell him how you feel, and tell him you dont want things to be awkward, but without saying anything at all you feel like it is. good luck to you.
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I had this problem once to... Me and this guy dated from age 9 to 13 and we broke up and never got back togehter... you will never trully be over him and he will never trully be over you.. you guys will always love eachother in some way.. But what I think you need to do is try to talk to him no matter if you dont have the guts because there may be a chance that he wants to get back togther with you to.... if he stares at you alot then thats a clue that he still loves you or likes you still in some way!!
"you never forget your first love, there will always be a special place in your heart for that one special person"
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