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Go away, bug off, and LEAVE ME ALONE


Question Posted Saturday September 17 2005, 12:12 am

Last year was my first year at this one school. In one of my classes there was this girl named *Kasey.*
She annoyed me so much. She tried to make me look bad, and make me feel like there was something wrong, or I was doing something the wrong way. But at the same time she tried to buddy up to me. She tried to become my friend and become friends with my bff. My bff doesn't like her(like me) and hse is really getting on my nerves. She is doing it this year to. my bff, her, and i are in the same class. If we do partners she either tries to have me or steal my bff from me and IT IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!
Whatdo I do to get her to bug off? I RATE HIGH!!! :)


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angelmcclain answered Monday September 19 2005, 9:59 am:
dang, i hated people like that in school. i think you should just flat out tell her you dont like her. it might sound kinda mean, but think of it this way if you dont do it now you will have to put up with it all year. just be like , im not trynig to be mean or anything, but i dont know why you keep trying to hang out with me and my friend, you act very annoying and i didnt know how else to tell you, she will either understand and stop, or get really pissed and stop anyway cuz shes mad. good luck

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cHeErcHiiCk answered Sunday September 18 2005, 2:58 pm:
tell her how u feel... it cant hurt the worst shell do is ignore u... (( and you want that right ))

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itsz_JESS answered Saturday September 17 2005, 11:39 am:
well this could be mean.. but oh well.. tell her to leave you alone and your bff because you both dont like them.. tell her she made you look bad and that she deserves it.. and for partners, just ignore her or find another person

hope i helped!

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XoBaByLoVEoX answered Saturday September 17 2005, 10:52 am:
Hiya! Well I'd try to ignore it as much as possible, but you really feel like you're going to snap just sit down adn talk with her. This way, hopefully she wont get her feelings hurt(as she would if you dissed her.) If you're nasty too her she'll just bother you more!

GOOD LUCK!!!

~babylove~'s always with u1

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KameronLynn473 answered Saturday September 17 2005, 10:27 am:
i would fuss her out. that usually hurts the most. be mean about it. she was mean to you and its payback time. you and your bff should ignore her and not say anything to her or even look at her. if that does not work just go with the fussing out thing.

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sk8trash answered Saturday September 17 2005, 6:31 am:
I was in a similar situation last year.. Guess what I did????? I dissed her. Made HER look really bad. I didn't do anything that hurt her, but it made her think that she should't bug me anymore.

If you want to do the same thing, made a fake email adress and get her email. Talk to her on msn and say your her best friend. Tell her to leave you guys alone or else you (the best friend) will not be her friend anymore.

Or you could just ignore her, and tell her to skrew someone else. If you want to do further, tell a councelor or something... I don't know...

The best thing to do is to totally kick her out of your life. Pretend she doesn't exist. Ignore her as much as you can.

It worked for me, so it probably will work for you too!!!

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lucretia answered Saturday September 17 2005, 4:23 am:
I'm afraid that I have bad news for you: I don't think that there's a whole lot you can do about the infuriating "Kasey". I sympathise a lot with your situation-there was a girl much like her in the early years of my highschool, and she drove us all nearly to distraction. By the end of the second year(by which time she had moved schools) all the other class members were in a sort of unspoken pact to avoid her as much as possible, and to ignore her whenever she acted up.

Really, that's all you and your friend can do- you can complain about it to your other friends and suggest that they don't make her welcome in their group: if , that is , you go about in a group of friends. If however it's just you and you and your best friend, perhaps you could go to her, together, and say something like, "We know the sort of games you play, they don't work, and we won't speak to you until you stop". In England, this is called "sending someone to Coventry". Who knows, perhaps if she sees that you mean business, her behaviour might really change. Good luck!

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gooseeg92 answered Saturday September 17 2005, 4:21 am:
Well I suppose just try telling her off.
If that doesn't work when you have group projects make sure shes not in them.
Also change seets get away from her
Also just dont talk to her at all

Hope this helps

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