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ok im 13 and schools about to start, im 4ft11in and 80 pounds, nd evrone tells me that thats fine for my hight, but i wanna loose some wieght before school start im pretty skinny but the top of my legs and my stomache have some excess fat, that i want to get rid of, schools about 2.5 weeks away! please help me and tell me any excersices or diets tht u would suggest to loose weight in the areas i mentioned! i want to look good for schhol! please help me asap! i will rate high! thnx!
Well you seem pretty skinny in general so it's just your thighs and stomach basically? For your stomach, do 20 crunches before you go to sleep and 20 crunches when you wake up. Crunches will help tone it down. Also don't drink too many fizz drinks, the fizz will add to your stomach bulge, and avoid drinking through a straw because it puts in excess air in your stomach. For your thighs, you should jog for about 20-30 minutes everyday. Good luck! -Hope I helped-
okay, so im taking my school picture in two days and i was wondering how i should look i guess, quick description of me: really tan skin, medium dark brown hair (long and straight), not skinny or fat, big hazel eyes, straight smile i guess, im really lost on what i should wear and how i should do my hair if anyone could please help me quick it would be greatly appreciated thanks (by the way im a freshman) i rate! -Nicole
I think you should wear a bit of clear lip gloss, if you wear glasses point your chin a little down when he's taking the picture to avoid a glared out picture, you might want to wear hoops or long earrings (the stiletto earrings are IN). Red would look good with your skin color. Wear a small but pretty necklace, smile with your teeth even if you wear braces! You may just want to let your hair loose the way it is, that would look nice - especially since it is naturally straight. Good luck and I'm sure it'll come out great!!
im going into 8th grade and im really nervous because today is the 'evaluation test.' Ive never ever started at a new schools before, because I've been going to the same district of schools for a while, and im really nervous. What kind of questions do they ask? because over the summer and I dont really study so I may have forgotten a thing or two..(or ten @_@) can someone give me in detail or somethign what kind of things they ask? thx!
I know you don't want to hear but I have to say it. You should have studied earlier for this. Okay, well since it is today and you have no option of studying, you need to get a good breakfast and stop panicking during the test. BUT, if you have time, I suggest reviewing a little bit of the things you did last year. This may refresh your memory, or you could bring some textbooks from last year in the car with you on the way to the evaluation test. If you don't know what's on your evaluation test, then I can't tell you either. I don't go to your school, but good luck on your test, I'm sure you'll do great!!
Ok..I like this kid jonathan..we went out but like practically just broke up.My friend likes him now and i know it but she wont tell me..she keeps beating around the bush!The thing is she starts to like everyboy i liked,matt,sayon,peter,the list goes on..but now its jonathan..im not letting her do it this time.but i dont know what to do should i stop being friends with her or just tell her to step off jonathan what should i do?!
Well the problem is that you are still attached to Jonathon even though you guys just broke up. Throw away anything that reminds you of him...get over him. I know it will be hard but you don't own Jonathon. You may want to tell her, "The next time I like a boy don't be so quick to start liking him...even after I break up with him I may still have feelings." Good luck. -Hope I helped-
hey i want to build my own site for all my friends to see and other ppl to see so i was wondering what r some sites besides geocities. also i want websites that u can have music on. please help.thanks
Here are some sites to have sites on. You can have music on these.
www.angelfire.com
www.tripod.com
www.expage.com
www.brinkster.com
me and my friend fight ALL the time.. i really wish she would shut up! she brags and annoys me a lot! then she thinks we are like best friends! i dont know what to do!! i dont want to tell her i hate her cause i dont know how she will react! but what if she feels the same way as I do! please dont tell me to just "talk it out" i need real advice that will work!!!! thanks
lol I had the same problem once, trust me on this:
When you catch her bragging, tell her what she is doing and ask her to stop it. If she does it often, you can bug her about it and say, oh my gosh here you go again. Then, if she STILL doesn't get the hints, then tell her to her face that she is beginning to get obnoxious and she needs to cut it out or else you don't want to be her friend.
How do I get more people to ask my column for advice? I have answered a couple random questions, but how do I get people to ask me directly or more or at all? Any Advice welcome!
The best way (and only way mostly) is to keep on answering questions the best you can and at the end of your advice, say, "and if you need any more advice, you can send one to my inbox". That way they will identify you and most likely remember you more from the rest. Good luck!
I need makeup tips for school but i need very very light make up tips cuz my mom doesnt want me wearing alot i am black brown eyes and black hair please help ill rate good if i like it....
LIPS:
A natural color for your lips is good, and moms tend to allow mild lip gloss.
Eyes:
Your mom will probably not allow mascara so you may probably want to let off that idea, unless she approves it. Same with eyeliner.
A small bit of a pastel eye shadow color on your eyelids will be light.
A good makeup tip is to emphasize what you naturally have...good luck!
hOw cOme When yOur Besfriends Are SuppOsed tO Be yOUr BestFriend They Turn On yOu..??...And When yOur BestFriends Are pOpular In The ScHoOl..Once One dOnt Like yOu The Rest dOnt???..And Katy..gOod Luck On The Site I Beliven yOu..All My Luck gOes tO yOu Girl
It's a complete mystery, but the reason most best friends turn on you is because they are selfish and want something else. The most common reason as to when why one popular best friend turns on you the rest does is because they like to feel superior to other people and feel that they deserved their popularity status. This is how they got their popularity in the first place.
How do you de-stress?? I have been having the worst stressful days and I have been having horrible headaches as a result. I need to destress.
The best ways to destress? Well what makes these things good is that they help keep your mind off of things that happenned...so keep that in mind. Here are ideas:
1) Take a long walk (& if you have a dog walk it!)
2) Go swimming and relax in the sun
3) Watch a movie (happy romance movies will make you feel happier, ex: The Wedding Planner)
4) Take a warm bath with candles, and soft music.
*Any of these things ought to do it. Need any more advice, then send your probs to my inbox!
my parents only gave me 100 dollars to spend for school clothes. and i really need both pants and shirts any ideas on how to get alot of the stuff i want for that price. thx. much appreciated!!
A good idea would be to shop at inexpensive stores. Examples? Old Navy, Rave, Wal Mart, JC Penny etc. You can get some really great finds there without anyone knowing you even spent a single penny there.
Or, you could spice up your old clothes or new clothes with some craft books (you can get some GREAT do it yourself ideas at www.girlynation.com) and there are probably many other websites for do it yourself ideas and books!
Another idea would be to swap old clothes with friends. You can get GREAT clothes that way. It also is a good reason to have a sleepover, get together, etc.
Good luck, and if you need any more help, you can send it to me at my inbox.
see, i LUV this guy..and im pretty shure he luvs me too! & we are soooo close! we have tonz of insiderz n stuff but he just wont "pop the question!" hahah i mean b/f g/f not getting "hitched" hehehe! well anywayz! PLEASE HELP ME!
You could leave him subtle hints in a creative way such as:
1) Give him a rose with a note saying that you'd like to take the friendship a step further.
2) Talk to him on the phone, and say, "A friend suggested that we would be great as bf and gf together! (Laugh a little) What do you think?"
...or you could ask him yourself! (I suggest that!) Sometimes it's pointless waiting forever for a guy to "pop the question". Who knows, he may be waiting for you to give hints that you're ready or to "pop the question". Good luck, and if you need any more advice, you can send it to my inbox.
i am 13 (almost 14) and a chick. i am like realli tall for my age (5'9") and i look way older than i realli am but i cant help it. and i am also deffinatly not ugly. but alot of guys that are older than me (16 and up) like constantly hit on me, whistle at me, check me out, flirt wit me, etc.,etc. what can i do to appeal to guys my own age?
Well for starters, a bit of flirting doesn't hurt. You should start making friends with guys your age, it'll then be much easier to take the friendship a step further. If you dread talking to guys or not bold enough to flirt, then you might as well live under a rock. You have to learn how to open up to them, make friends with them...then from that point on, it's destiny. =)
Okay, I'm like 13 and guys around 15 nd 16 are interested in me. But like I dont think I want to go out with em' becuase most guys that age just want some ass. Yet at the same time I like older guys because some of em' can be mature unlike guys my age. And what I'm looking for is a sweet guy. Do you all know how or where I could find guys like that?
I think you should just wait a few more years if you find that the guys your age are not mature enough. But, if you can't wait, you should get to know the 15 and 16 year olds that like you better - you could be wrong about them...and you could be right.
Ok, I need makeup tips. I'm 5'8, dirty blonde hair a lil past my shoulders, hazel eyes, fair skin, nd i guess an ovel shaped face. Do u have any color suggestions or makeup tips in general? thanks
Emphasize what you have naturally! That's the best thing to do. Other than that here are some ideas:
EYES:
-smokey eyes look (that would look good on you!)
-since you have fair skin, don't go for light eyeshadow colors and pastels - go for darker colors something autumny.
LIPS:
-Don't go for dark brown or too dark.
-Don't go for too light either.
-A good color would be a nice red, the Juicy Tubes line by Lancome has good lip glosses that would suit you.
whats a good/fast way to get rid of a lil fat i have only on my belly? and how do i do crunches? thanks a lot.
Crunches are when you lie down with your head facing upwards. You cross your hands above your chest, and then you try and push upwards using your head. Doing ten of these before you go to sleep and when you get up will help tone up your stomach.
Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??
Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed
Well, you're definitely more mature than the Middle Schoolers who make fun of you and your boyfriend. They seriously need to be quiet - they are being racist. Of course, you probably already knew that, and yes there are ways to stop them from saying that. Not one way is ever 100% effective though. You can never stop people to make fun of others entirely, unfortunately.
Here are some ways that will HELP them to stop, though:
1) Tell the principal or your guidance counselor - they are being racist.
2) Don't listen to them, if they see that they aren't getting on your nerves, they will stop.
3) BE MATURE, and don't stoop down to their level.
Does anyone know any really good concealer, foundation or powder? I don't know which make-up brands/kinds are the best, so any help would be appreciated.
You can get a wide range of concealers at Nordstrom.
Other than that, if you are looking for something in a low range with good quality here are some good brands with concealer products I have looked up online for you: L'Oreal True Blend, Mary Kay, Clarins 2ml Instant Light Perfecting Touch, Dermablend 28.4g Cover Crème Large, Revlon, CoverGirl, Orlane, Nina Ricci.
Some in a high price range are: La Prairie, Shiseido, Chanel, Lancome, Givenchy, Estee Lauder, Clinique, Versace.
OK, so I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about 7 months. The thing is.. Ive never met him b4. He lives in the same state and everything. But we live like an hour away from each other :(. I mean we could probably meet some how but i dunno. we hardly ever talk too. I havent talked to him in 2 weeks, partially because i was away but he still hasn't called either. He knows im home. I jus wanna kno if I should stick with the relationship or just be friends. I love him with all my heart. I am just really confused right now :(. Please Help!
Long distance relationships like these definitely bring lots of confusion. You have to decide if you like him enough and are mature enough to stay his boyfriend long distance. But if you have an eye for someone else, you could always just stay friends with him - it won't hurt. If you DO decide to just stay friends, don't forget to stay in touch with him.
Ok well theres a fair in town.ive been goin every nite. Well Neways. Theres this really hot guy that works at the ferris wheel. Whenever im theres hes always staring at me n smiling and talkin to me does he like me?. I wanna tell him that i like him n stuff but i dont wanna sound stupid. Thing is hes also older i heard him talking to his friends and he said he doesnt mind dating younger girls. What should i Do?
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It depends on HOW MUCH older he is than you. But yeah, if he is just a few years older than you or an acceptable age for you - then yeah! I DEFINITELY think you should talk to him. Get to know him first, and if you like him then try to take the friendship one step further.